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Gwenda, 22
United States, North Carolina, Garner

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About Me

I'm complex yet very simple.I prefer sunrises over sunsets. Mountain air over city lights. Tea over soda. Acoustic over techno.Friends and family mean so much to me.Don't let that sweet smile fool you, I have a 'tough as nails' attitude. I'm an independent girl, I may want a man but that does NOT in any way mean I need a man, understand? It may be a pretty rare breed of woman these days.. but I'm not easily manipulated at all.. that's not a challenge, its fact. Dick pics- Please save yourself the embarrassment.. I find it extremely immature & a complete turnoff, if I want to see your penis I'll ask or I'll meet it in person, deal?Although, Im not good at playing any *** pick up, music is a big part of my life.Pictures speak more than a thousand words to me.Autumn is the season that has my heart and Winter can go to hell.Compliments - while they would trill me, they will not define me. I have tons of insecurities but I love myself whether you do or not.The confidence I have is all in my personality. Not my looks.The last thing I do is try to be someone I am not.I don't mind if you label me because I know not 'what' I am, but 'who' I am.And I find that people who label themselves annoying and confused as to 'who' they are.'Embarrassing', 'embarrassed', etc. are not words of my personal vocabulary.Sarcasm is a beautiful thing.I see life as my first time on a roller coaster.I'm the type of girl that will help the guy I'm absolutely crazy about score the girl of his dreams. It truly is unfortunate. Yeah, now that you've read all that (I'm sure most of you won't) go ahead & comment me. I have a lot of guy friends and when they come to me for advice on where they should take their dates on the first date I always stand firm on my number 1 rule. Do NOT go to the movies on the first date! Why? Because first dates are for getting to know each other, like my ideal date, something simple like going for a coffee & walking around town and talking, something with not a lot of distractions. When you're at a movie you just sit there and watch the screen. You think to yourself "should I hold her hand?" "should I put my arm around her?" "Would she mind if I did either of those things?" See, you don't know her well enough to know so just listen to me, just save yourself.. no movie on the first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Chinese Indian Fantasy Sci-Fi Sport Sailing
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