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Trudie, 25
United States, North Carolina, Cornelius

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I am a single mother to a 3 year old boy. I wrote that first because HE is first... I am in school full time, majoring in Social and Criminal Justice. I also work part time at my family's business. I may seem like I have my hands full, but I don't...I just manage everything pretty damn well. I have 7 tattoos and 14 piercings. I'm sure I'll end up with more of each- and if you have some as well, that's a plus! I'm into anything outdoors...especially lake scenery. I'm not that into sports but I'll get down on a basketball court. I'm not your average "tanning and salon" type of girl. I do my own nails and I'd rather tan in the sun. Both are non important to me though. I'm very feisty and quick with words. I may come off as a smartass but it's how I am...and also how I flirt. I'm a great listener and an even better talker. I'm far from shy. I'm family oriented. I spend more time with my family than my friends...which I don't have many of and I actually like it that way. I'm very independent. I have my own place, a car that's paid off, and I never ask for handouts. It's safe to say I'm not materialistic and far from a gold-digger, I have my own! I'm into all genres of music- literally and I cannot tell you my favorite movie because there's too many to list. I'm a huge movie buff. When it comes to food, I LOVE Italian, Mexican, and Chinese...incase you need a dinner suggestion ;) I love to read, spend hours online, and take pointless drives in my car to nowhere. I'm on here to find my future husband. No, seriously. I'm more than ready to settle down and have a crap ton of kids. I don't mind if you have kids already (I'm not hypocritical) BUT if you have more than 1 with more than 1 woman...chances are I won't be interested. No offense, I'm just specifically certain with what I want. I'm not looking for booty-calls. I can get that without using this site...so please come correct. I'm also bisexual- but that doesn't mean I'm interested in couples. That just means I'll be with whichever sex makes me happy, but as mentioned, I want a guy. I tend to be picky so if I don't respond or seem interested, don't worry, I'm doing us both a favor by not wasting our time. I start with looks and whether there's an attraction. For those who say looks don't matter, you're lying! They do! I'll also base whether or not I reply as to what your profile says about you. It's there for a reason. If you read all this, kudos to you! And if you asked me a question I already answered on here, I'll *** And I know ^this part may contradict what I wrote below for "First Date"...but if you know the movie, you'll catch my drift :) "I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your ass sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions?" -Wedding Crashers

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Canadian Irish Japanese Crime Martial Arts Shooting Sports
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