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Harland, 49

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About Me

I'm here looking for friends and if it turns into something more, so be it. No one can tell what will happen between two people until after they meet and get to know each other. Even though my profile says what it says does not mean that things can't change along the way as time goes on, meaning that relationship becoming more serious. After a 20 year marriage, I did/do not want to have a committed relationship, but again with the right person that can always change. One day I'm shy, the next I'm very out going. I enjoy the outdoors when I can. Fishing and camping during the summer when time permits and hunting in the fall. I have three children (21, 14, 8). They mean the world to me.I am a Navy combat veteran and served two tours overseas. I don't talk much about my tours, but I will answer some questions. I just want to put that out there because that is who and what I am. I was also in law enforcement for over 15 years, so prettey much the seen it and done it applies to me and not very much shocks me. I have do have a sense of humor which can be off the wall and abnormal at times and I can be sarcastic. If you have any questions, please ask me because I have nothing to hide. I've already told it all to my shrink. lol First dates vary with each person and personality.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Corey

    Online

    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I can't and don't "Chat". So if you want a response, send a message with more context (a sentence or two) , as just a "Hi" or "Hello" just doesn't cut it. There’s a lot here as I want someone to love me for me, so please read it all before you give up or decide to contact me. Also, as a gentleman, I’ll (for the most part) let you make the first move (but not always). As I do feel that it should always be Ladies First! :-)Looks aren't everything, but they are still important.I also know that there is more than what meets the eye and a beautiful soul is a wonderful thing.But with that said, I like what I like and you like what you like, so there must be some mutual attraction.-I’m a God fearing man. -I'm a hard working & early riser who cares about the people in my life. I will go out of my way to help a friend. I’m the type that you shouldn’t ask if something doesn’t look good on you, because I will give you an honest answer. So don’t ask unless you really want to know. I will tell you if you have something stuck in your teeth (I might “enjoy” the moment for a little bit first thoou if we’re not at a social event). I’m very giving & caring. I will and do shed a tear or two when there's a sad situation or in a moment of extreme joy (Real men aren't afraid of doing this!) AND still be your Knight in Shining Armor!-I’m a man of my word and hold myself to high standards. A person’s personal integrity is something that I value greatly. I start out by giving someone I meet for the first time a very high amount of respect. Then it’s up to them to keep it. All of these things I thank my father for.-I feel that a lady should be treated as one. If you don't like the door opened for you, if you don't like holding hands in public or if you don't like a casual touch as we cook together, I'm not your guy. I do not believe that chivalry is dead.-I’ll be there for you thru the bad time and be someone to listen and to tell you that everything will be alright (if that’s what you want or need at the moment). I believe that everything (good & bad) happens for a reason and that it's all part of a bigger picture that we can't comprehend. This belief has gotten me through a very tough time in my life. This was the loss of my youngest son in ***. He was 19 at the time of his death and I miss him EVERY DAY. Life is too short. You never know when it’s your time or the time of someone you love. So live your life! Don’t just pass thru it!-I prefer rock over country, but can listen to it all (except rap). I also like Classical music and Jazz.-I don't care for beer or wine (ok if you do); Considering I’m not much of a drinker. One and maybe two is all that I care for. And if I'm driving, one early then water or soda the rest of the evening, as long as we're going to be out for more than an hour. -I do cook. I don't do fancy, but it's not that I can't. I just like the basic thing for the most part. I thank my mother for this. -I'm a very resourceful. Not quite a "MacGyver” though. I work on all of my vehicles and do all of the repairs around the house. -I believe that a kiss will tell you more that most words will. Not saying that a kiss is wanted or required on the first (or second) date.- I’m looking for someone who will be honest with me about who they are. Someone who wants me for “Me”, faults and all, to create new life experiences with, to become my best friend, to snuggle with while watching a movie, to enjoy a long passionate kiss with, to walk with me hand in hand on the beach (or anywhere else for that matter), to share sunrises and sunsets with and eventually to face all of life’s challenges (good & bad) with. Someone who’s not afraid of a guy that will tell you what’s on his heart. A good since of humor (can give it as well as take it) and a positive attitude is a plus. So in short...what I'm looking for is "The One That I Can't Live Without". I've met several nice ladies that I could have lived with, but I haven't had that "Butterfly Moment" yet. Not sure if I ever will, but I sure hope so. You need to provide a current, clear and in focus photo. You must also have a current, clear and in focus photo if you want to chat. No faults advertising! I will not respond if you will not provide this. If you have a "private photo", I'm not going to ask you for it, you will need to add it to the message when you contact me. I’m not wanting to be around someone who has to have a cigarette in their mouth all of the time. So if you're an occasional smoker and are interested, send me a message or favor me. These are just some of the things that make me "Me". I'll gladly open up more later if we hit it off. As I truly believe that all of the challenges that God puts us thru are things that we must learn so that we can help others as they go thru the same things. Thanks for reading my profile. If you'd like to know more, ask. If I'm not your cup of tea, good luck in your search. Amusement Parks, Art, Beach, Biltmore Estates, Cooking, Cuddling, Darts, Day Trips, Dogs, Fishing, Flea Markets, Golf, Holding Hands, Hunting, Kissing, Long Walks, Motorcycles, Mountains, Movies, Museums, Music, NASCAR, Old Cars/Trucks, Old Country Stores, Pool/Billiards, Sudoku, Travel

  • Mistyshoczb

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 30-56

    Hi! My name is Mistyshoczb. I am separated other caucasian man with kids from Camdenton, Missouri, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Jaxen

    Online

    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    Hobbies are art,fishing,camping,movies,time well spent. My goals are to better my future for myself and my son. What makes myself unique is I seem to always think of others before myself. And my taste in music is pretty much anything.I love South Padre. The first date would be more relaxed and quiet so that I could get to know You. To see if there is any chemistry and to determine what they want and like to do.

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