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Alen, 49
United States, Missouri, Bernie

Offline, last seen Mon, 16 Feb 2026 22:39:44

About Me

Lets see...I am a man of varied interests. I consider myself quite well rounded (intellectually, not physically) and I can hold my own in any situation. I can discuss world politics with you in one breath and in the next tell you how much I love Bugs Bunny or Duck Dynasty. I like a woman who is just as varied and one who can make me laugh. Smarts and strength of character are huge turn ons. I am drawn to people who not only think outside the box, but wonder why it has to be a box in the first place? Why not a rhombus? Not little people ( no offense, they need love too) but women say five foot to five six. I don't know why, but if you have a psychology degree, or you stayed at Holiday Inn last night, you can help me with that. Wouldn't it suck having the paparazzi following us everywhere? Just be real and be honest, and I will do the same. Also, please have a picture or I won't respond. I've seen "Catfish" and Im spooked..it is what it is. I love history, sports, great song lyrics and poetry, and cooking a great meal for someone special. I am not a controller and a smotherer. You had a life before we met, and I don't plan to change it, but hopefully enhance it a little. And you'll know if I like you. I am a hugger, a back rubber, and a hand holder. Don't worry, I won't maul you at center court of the mall, but I am affectionate. To each his own. So, if you think you feel you kinda " get me" here, grab that mouse with conviction and risk carpal tunnel writing me back. Life is not lived without risk! Oh and one last thing. Live within a half hour or so of me. AT&T or Verizon shouldn't be the glue that keeps us together. It's not a date, its a meeting..something fairly quick, casual, and fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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