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Deshawn, 46
United States, Missouri, Albany

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About Me

Giving the online dating a try.... Not really sure what to expect, but it is difficult to meet people. I have typically met girlfriends/spouse in a work setting or through other friends. I was with the same woman for over 10 years and separated almost a year ago. I am 46 years old and have a 16 year old son, whom I have half time. I am looking for someone to share time with and hopefully something more meaningful develops. I work full time and focus a lot of my energy on my son. However, it would be nice to have a life outside of work and raising my son. I am not looking to chase people down, so.... If you R interested in meeting, or chatting with me, pls send me a message. I know there are probably a lot more men on here than women and you R swamped with messages. So, message me if interested, because I most likely wont message you first. I quit smoking last November, but I do use an Ecig (electronic cigarette). I have experienced love a few times in my life, would really like to experience it again, but who knows what life has in store for us... Would like to feel that excitement you experience when you are really attracted to someone. I enjoy playing the guitar, music, reading, tattoo's, yoga, the mountains, fishing, eccentric people, the internet, spending time with my family, raising my son, intimate connection, laughter, intelligence, helping people, walks, art (second Saturday's), diversity, etc...I would like my match to be in their 30's or 40's. I don't mind a few extra pound's, but am not attracted to very over weight women, nothing personal. Please, no extreme mental health issues, I have been there and done that, life is too short. I was recently introduced to Yoga, and really liked it! Maybe there is a Yoga partner out there for me...I am open to all races and ethnic groups. Coffee, to see if there is a connection? Or whatever, I am not picky.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Jazz American Irish Action Drama Sci-Fi Bowling Boxing Volleyball
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    Quincey

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I'm a very outgoing and spontaneous kind of guy that just like's to go with the flow and enjoy life to the fullest each and everyday. I enjoy anything that has to do with the great outdoors and what it has to offer us in life. My family and my close friends are a big part of my circle in life.I've been on my job for a long time now and still enjoy going to work everyday. Lol... I enjoy all kinds of music but I'm not into rap. If you'd like to know more about me drop me a line and I'll reply back. Thanks and have a great day:-) I think a nice first date would to meet somewhere quite for coffee or happy hour so you can see if there's chemistry and if there is chemistry maybe go for a walk down town on waterfront or go to the park.

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  • Joyce from Albany | Man | 49 years old | Pisces
    Joyce

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I'm easygoing and always ready for a weekend getaway to a new place.

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  • Keith from Albany | Man | 46 years old | Leo
    Keith

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

    Hopefully in telling you about me, you'll know a bit about what I'm looking for as well. A good sense of humor is a must...when you stop laughing, you stop living. My job can be stressful at times, so the ability to laugh is a must. I'm also a positive person and prefer to be around "Tiggers" and not "Eyores." I'm compassionate person and believe that happiness is derived from doing for others. I believe that intellectual curiosity is very important and helps people grow, remain interesting, and gives them things to talk about. With that being said, people who read are far more interesting than those who don't. Creativity is important to me, and I love to be around creative people. I've played music for 28 years, although I don't play out anymore, I write fiction and poetry, and I write/edit for an art/music/writing blog. Good conversation, good food, and good music all make me smile. I also like college football, baseball, and hockey, and I enjoy the outdoors, be it camping, tubing/canoeing, or guitars at a bonfire.I am looking for someone with an open mind, who has opinions, thoughts, and beliefs, and not just floating through life or shaped by the opinions of those around them. I prefer someone who knows how to make their own fun and isn't always dependent on others to entertain them. That seems like something we could talk about...

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