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Malik, 49
United States, Maryland, Thurmont

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Mar 2026 10:18:52

About Me

I’ve met a lot of women on this site but didn’t find what I am looking for. I even quit looking because I was so frustrated. I became involved with my best friend, but it turns out we’re better friends; no sexual chemistry and without the chemistry, it was impossible to move forward. Anyway… I’m back trying to find the one. More about me… I’m not perfect, but I try real hard to be a good man. I'm an IT consultant with 17 years of consulting experience along with 16 years IT experience working for the DOD. I am currently between contracts looking to secure another contract opportunity, which subsequently has slowed down my attempts at dating. I have a 17-year old daughter who I love with all my heart but I rarely see. She works and lives with her boyfriend so I’m the last person on her list. She will be going to college in the fall and then it’s just me. I know a lot of people but have few “true” friends, which is somewhat less than I prefer in the grand scheme of an enriched life. Being single has been difficult at times and I find the only place to meet woman, who aren’t “frightened” by men, is in bars. I don’t know why but women seem to get freaked out if you approach them anywhere else (book stores, coffee shops, grocery stores, women’s restrooms….just kidding). Although I enjoy live music and go out on weekends to see bands at local bars, I’d rather spend my time outdoors, camping, barbequing, and picnicking with a quality woman. I am a songwriter / musician too but don’t play in a band anymore; I just write and record at home. I also write poetry and editorials when inspiration grabs me. I’m looking to enrich my life and without that special one or being with my daughter, it’s nearly impossible. I’m truly a social person but living a fairly solitary life unless I go out on the weekends but that gets old when you are alone the majority of the time.I don’t like beating around the bush so be direct with me if you want to know something. I’m direct and I find that being honest is truly the only way to communicate. If you are looking for someone who is honest, faithful, integrity-minded, intelligent, funny, talented, goofy, playful (not always) and who is serious about finding that one person to share a life with, drop me a line. I hope to hear from you.A couple of closing statements to manage your time as well as mine: if you’re not smiling in your photos, don’t waste your time contacting me. I’ve learned from personal experience that most women who don’t smile in their photos are generally unhappy and I’m looking for the lighter side of a personality. Also, my daughter is about to start college and I'm not looking to get involved with anyone with children still living at home. I'm looking forward to the freedom being an “empty-nester” offers and hope to find someone with this shared belief. Hmmmm....first date. That could go in a lot of different directions. How about an elegant dinner, sitting next to a fire, drinking some wine, listening to soft music, over candlelight. Visual enticements with me enjoying looking at you, you enjoying looking at me smiling...maybe even seeing a twinkle in your eye. Lot's of genuine laughter throughout the evening...complete with intellectual and stimulating, yet not so serious conversation wrapped in a warm comfortable familiar feeling. Maybe a midnight stroll or carriage ride if the weather permits. To close the night, a warm, sensual, sweet tasting electrified kiss which we are both excited about. Yep, that sounds preetty wonderful to me. If you're uncomfortable with the above, we could go to a regular resteraunt, and maybe to a movie, or a wine-tasting, or a show in the loop, or listen to a blues band in Soulard. There are a lot of wineries in the area, we could check one of them out... How about a cafe in St. Charles?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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