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Ryder, 50
United States, Maryland, Taneytown

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About Me

it turns out it's hard to create words and pictures that will resonate with the woman of my dreams. i'm looking for sweet, sexy and intelligent...just like me. maybe we're also creative, funny, and kind...much younger in body and spirit than chronology would suggest, extremely fit and flexible physically and spiritually. how about a soulful, wise, and sensual playmate to inspire and soothe... i don’t just want a playmate, tho, i want a true friend and a soulmate: a warm creature to relax with in front of the fireplace; a sweet girl to smile down the aisle while perusing titles in a used book store; a sparkly-eyed friend to enjoy across the table while we savor a nice meal; and a patient teacher to explain what the chick flick she just made me go to was about. my ideal woman is also a girl (and sometimes a lady if she feels like it) and an ANGEL...her outlook is warm and positive; thinking outside da box; smiles not too few and far between; kindness innate; sensuality strong and deep; worldview compassionate and open; capacity for love widespread and thick; demeanor laid-back but upbeat; preoccupations with resources and control minimal and merely pragmatic. her sense of beauty and her own radiance are both abstract and self-evident. her ability to appreciate, enjoy, and nurture beauty (whether in art, the natural world, the newspaper or a mirror) is finely-tuned yet relaxed; what, where, and how she finds this beauty will always surprise and enchant me as reflected and refracted through her gaze. she will want similar things from her man as well and she will teach and delight him with things from her world about which he never even dreamed. me? i spent many glamorous years in the music business, traveling worldwide, working with many of my heroes. the business part became less enjoyable, but i still love being in the recording studio as much as possible, and have had a hand in the making of nearly a hundred albums in a variety of capacities. i read a lot, and write for various magazines, usually on technical or esoteric aspects of recording music. i find figured and unusual patterns in wood grain intoxicating.i am passionate and intense; insatiable always, tho i find much satisfaction and excitement in things simple/fleeting/abstract, such as a nice clean glass of cool water, the way you see the bottoms of a tree's leaves in the wind before a thunderstorm, and the sounds water makes. tho i usually hope for perfection, i am very forgiving and nurturing, and am rarely unable to evoke magic in and from the ordinary and everyday. i dig the fabric and dynamics of energy flow bigtime. this gig demands fluidity, grace and deft facility with a kind of love that is rich and sweet, and is therefore not recommended for children or republicans; only those with interest in the ecstatic and sublime need apply. and contrary to appearances otherwise, this kid doesn't really take himself too seriously ;) …. a meal, drinks, coffee, or anything chill that allows us to talk and relax

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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