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About Me

Ok so I'm just out of a 15yr marriage. I'm not looking for wife number three, or a "Hook up". I'm looking to make some new friends and go from there, besides in order for anything more we'd have to be friends first anyway. If something where to happen that would awesome, but if it doesn't thats cool too. I just don't want to go into anything thinking " OK, We're going to be dating then in a relationship".DON'T WE HAVE TO BECOMES FRIENDS SOMEWHERE IN THERE??? . Not a Big sports fan ( like sports, just don't need to be glued to the TV every time somethings on) & don't want to "hang out" at the bar ( not really a drinker ; a couples ok but don't need to stager away from anywhere). I have always gotten along better with women than men. im not a "girlie man, pretty boy, ladies man, etc or anything like that, but think about it if your a guy and you can hang with another guy or a beutiful woman how long do you really have to think about it?? For fun I like comedy shows, pretty much all music, and taking my jeep out in the woods, I'm just a big kid at heart and wants to play in the mud puddles. LolAnd last but by no means least; If your a liar, a cheat, in a relationship( looking for a side thing) or just some sort of hook up. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't bother to reply as those are qualities that I am NOT looking for.I know I'm a"man" and all men just lie to get you in bed. But I've no time in my life for all that crap. I'm just looking for someone to spend quality time with. Thanks for taking the time to read all thisHope u find what you're looking for - Tim First date and first meeting are really two different things ; So maybe coffee or a drink. Something light, so that no one is commited to a whole day or evening if there's no spark of friendship Now first date could be an hour or two spent having a nice dinner ( home cooked or a nice restaurant & no that doesn't mean Burger King or Taco Bell). Or maybe a longer day playing out in the woods with the jeep and a nice picnic lunch / dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

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