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ConorOffline
Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
Okay... About me, I'm very easy going and laid back. I try to keep the drama and chaos in my life to a bare minimum. My current "top priority" in life is getting my beautiful 15 year old daughter grown and able to stand on her own two feet. I am completely honest (so never ask me anything you don't want an honest answer to or I can't "plead the 5th" on...) As a matter of fact, honesty is an attribute that I expect, no, DEMAND out of any potential relationship, friends or otherwise... Lie to me and I'm done with you! Too much of my life has been wasted on liars so I have no tolerance left for deception and dishonesty... I would rather "agree to disagree" on anything we can't calmly come to a mutual compromise on as opposed to engaging someone that would argue with a fencepost... I have always been loyal and faithful (I have NEVER cheated). Also, I am well aware of the fact that this world does not revolve around me or what I want so I expect others to be mature enough to know that as well... I do have a great sense of humor and love to laugh... Sometimes you have to laugh to keep from crying, right? I do know "How to treat a woman"... The determining factor for me on that would be "How does she treat me?" If the answer is "good" (or "well" if you are one of the grammar police), then she'll see that chivalry is not dead and that there are still some real "gentlemen" still inhabiting the planet... If the answer is "badly", then she'll still see the manners and courtesy of a gentleman as he "moves on"... The questions asked on here can be a little bit misleading when given the available answers to choose from. One of my answers is "Looking For A Relationship"... I do understand completely that not every encounter will lead to a relationship. And, before I actually take someone out, I will at least have the impression that I somewhat know them and that we could possibly be friends... What I am looking for is someone to be my friend first... If the friendship "grows" beyond that, great! If not, oh well... I am not looking for "one night stands", "booty calls", "friends with benefits", or someone to rush into marriage with... As a matter of fact, before I will ever say "I Do" again (and I'm not going to hold my breath until that happens...), I will know beyond any shadow of a doubt that there is no "mask" that will come off somewhere down the road... I will know that I have actually seen their "true colors"... Also, I am not looking for someone that just wants someone to "take care of them"... I feel that at my age, both parties should be ready, willing, and able to "bring something to the table"... I will be updating my profile as things come to my attention that need to be added or edited so please don't come to a *** on what you've just read... Feel free to ask me anything you want to know... Rest assured, you will get an honest answer... And, I will respond to any and all inquiries as opposed to just *** A simple "Not Interested" would be the bare minimum required to show common courtesy (or not-so-common courtesy these days), don't you think? Thanks for stopping by... :-) Well, there is no 1 correct answer to this... It would really depend upon what the other person likes to do... I am pretty flexible but my ideal "first date" would be going to a place where neither person feels uncomfortable... A place where we could talk relatively undisturbed and get to know one another better... You know, find out if there are any obvious compatability issues... Find out if there is any "chemistry"... I can type anything in here but I'd prefer to show you "who I am"... How I treat others... How I react to different situations... And, I'd rather see these things for myself because you, too, can type anything in here or say anything on the phone... Example: If the waitress messes something up on your order because she's dealing with some unknown circumstances and you blast her out of the saddle for it, that one reaction tells me more about who you are than thousands of words written or spoken to me... I'm not perfect and I don't expect perfection from others... On the other hand, if your reaction is one of compassion and forgiveness and you console her, that, also, is a desirable character trait that simply can't be put into words... This is what I mean by me showing you who I am and you showing me who you are... Some things can't be faked... Over the years, I have learned (the hard way for the most part) to believe what I see over what I hear... I have a pretty good BS detector but it is not infallable... With all that said, I am open to suggestions... As I stated previously, before there even is a "first date", I will have corresponded with you enough to get a sense of "who you are"... I know that messaging is kind of a pain in the derriere (especially when the keyboard is smaller than a debit card...) But, if I'm not worth that much effort to you, then you simply aren't worth my time anyways... So, feel free to message me if you are so inclined... I will respond to every message... Those of you that don't respond to a message from me, well, you did effectively show me who you are (in spite of what you may have written about yourself) and that we wouldn't have hit it off anyway... Your loss...
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GreysonOffline
Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53
I'd like to meet up with a real great woman . If I could only find her and cultivate her and make her mind my soul; but I'm afraid. I'm afraid you would never understand me because I like too many things and get all hung up running from one falling star to another 'til I drop. I'm afraid that I have nothing to offer anybody except my own confusion. I'm afraid that this just might work. (my apologies to Mr. Kerouac)Let's get together and do something. Anything. Hopefully it's something we both enjoy, but I'm open to trying new things. Are you?I'm nice, funny (witty, silly & sometimes sarcastic), educated, polite and courteous. Strangers talk to me and children like me. I shaved my head to raise money for children's cancer research. I told you I'm silly; but, if it's for a good cause, it's worth it. Plus, if you can't laugh at yourself, someone else will.So, let's get together and laugh. Hike? Bowling? Drinks? Bike ride? Coffee? Or maybe you just want to sit quietly and read?
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RalphOffline
Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
My hobbies are, listening to 80's hair bands music, hanging at the lake with friends, jet boating, drag boats, drag racing and spending time with my 2 year old grandson. I'm financially secure, with a house and job of ***years with the same company. I'm not looking for anyone older than me, same age or younger. I'm looking for an honest woman that i can put my trust in and someone who will appreciate what i do for her. All of my friends tell me i have a big heart, sometimes too big. I think I'm just looking for someone that I can date and see where it goes from there.