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Carbry, 47

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About Me

I never thought I'd use a dating website like so many of you probably! If you want reasonably intelligent conversation and somebody who is old fashioned enough to be attentive and thoughtful, I could well be your man. I like most music from beethoven to bloc party, cinema, eating out, eating in and just living life with as less stress as possible. In short, I like doing what everyone who works their nuts off during the week and is in their mid 40s likes - a couple of early nights, a cheeky night in the pub midweek, a mad friday night followed by 2 days to get over it, so if you need a giggly night out and want to help me slowly re-engage with the opposite sex, drop me a line. Ok update, reading what others are saying and having done a bit of fishing now and caught nothing but a cold so far, I'd like to put on record that I'm NOT a player, sex pest, nuisance and neither am I looking for one night stands or wanting you to send me pictures of you wearing nothing but wellies and peanut butter. Also dont say you dont want one night stands and then post pictures of yourself in a lacy nightie sprawled over your bed - silly cow!!! I am a genuine caring, getting lonlier by the day, fast approaching middle age normal bloke who will have you laughing and forgetting your day to day woes if you just give him a go. Take a chanceOk update part 2, been on a few dates now, there's some lovely people on here and some fairly self opinionated egotistical lunatics!! If I'm talking to you, I am only talking to you and you have my full attention. I am not messaging ten at a time, life's complicated enough! I don't want to know who else is asking you out or texting you, it's not jealously its thoughtfulness and manners. Maybe that's why the whole worlds going to crap - a little more thought about how your actions impact on others please - whether you think it's important or not, it is!!! Rant over -+ Alcohol = who knows

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jairus

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    Have you noticed how the best things are always harder to get to, the greatest little bistro will be hidden down a side street while brash chain eateries are next to each other on the high-street? Or how the popular books are in the window display, while the intriguing and more unique stories are on the shelf inside the store and waiting for you to find it?You will love me for my strengths and accept my humanity. I'm not looking to change you, rather walk alongside you. As a big believer in the power of holding and keeping a good, positive mental attitude I am excited about life every day. No time to be bored. Lots of great adventures.A work colleague describes me as being Romantic and Gentle, while her colleague calls me Professor. They are two very different women but each 'gets' a different part of my character. I consider myself to be tactile, thoughtful and loving. Passionate - Yes. Loyal - Absolutely.Great films will excite me, make me cry with laughter or have me in tears, but they always arouse my passion and stimulate a good discussion! What have you watched recently that pushed your emotional buttons? Books have always been important to me since I was a boy, sitting in class with my head stuck in a good story so much that I didn't hear the lesson sometimes! You can't see my etchings (I can't even draw for toffee), but you are welcome to tell me what you're reading right now! Do you need to clean-off your boots maybe? Kinky boots or walking boots? Both good for me!Making a friendship and enjoying a good date is why I am here, so tell me about the type of place to meet and why. I think a nice coffee in a great venue is a good and easy ice-breaker. Maybe a spot of lunch. Then we can always wander along a high street and pop into a few shops together.If you have a nice pair of boots (!), how about a slow lake walk combined with a pub lunch? Or sandwiches and a flask of coffee of a footpath?Or do you prefer something in town first? Art gallery, museum, Plenty of good comedy clubs and wine bars where we get to see what we think of as funny! I am sure we can discuss over some ***'s the main thing, if you like my profile get in touch!

  • Robbie

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    Well to quote an American euphamism, "Just a regular guy", however I would add Honest. Faithfull, extremely generous and ridiculously Romantic. Not the usual male attributes I guess but not bad values to have all the same.Just looking for the same from a female friend. Friendship first and maybe something more serious later perhaps?. I do value intelligence from a partner and the ability to interract on a level playing field and also a certain "joie de vivre"So if you like what you see and hear get in touch and as always a photograph is essential, as I firmly believe there has to be a physical attraction as well as a meeting of minds.P.S, Apologies if I do not respond to your message its purely because I do not feel that we would be compatible and really do not want to waste your time.

  • Kip

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    Hi girls, thanks for taking the time to read my profile. A bit about me, I'm originally from New Zealand and have lived in the UK for the last 10 years and love it, don't they say home is where the heart is. I'm equally at home in my walking boots and out in the country with a lovely pub along the way. I work hard and like to play hard too, my job is very satisfying and sometimes demanding but also allows for that work life balance that's so important. My lifestyle and fitness are a big part of who I am, I like most sports but I'm afraid football isn't one of them though ( it's the wrong shaped ball for a start ) My chosen sport is the Ironman triathlon so yes, there is a lot of training that goes into it. Having said that there's still plenty of room for the right lady and it doesn't mean you have to be super fit or feel the need to keep up on a run but would need to appreciate the time I spend doing what I love. I keep myself in pretty good shape even when I've no races planned so with that and everything else I do there's a neat and tidy package to be had. That makes me sound a bit like a house that's just been listed as for sale..I like most music but don't own an ipod and just listen to whatever's on the radio. The last big gig I went to was the Stereophonics, got to say they put on a fantastic show. On a lighter note I'm the guy you see singing as he's driving his car (very badly) it has to be said, that's the singing not the driving... I'm an excellent driver really.... but do love it all the same... Now a bit about you. It all really comes down to the elusive spark or chemistry, so are you the one? that very special lady, the lady that's longing to feel those tingling butterflies in her tummy, that's ready to share in life's adventures and pleasures. Every time you walk in the room I want to think WOW, that's my girl and she's pushing every button I've got. I would very much like the whole world to see both of us with the biggest smiles on our faces as we walk hand in hand, chatting about everything or nothing. To be snuggled on the couch in each others arm's, a good film with a lovely drink and nibbles. In essence, what we're all after, the real deal... Isn't that what we all want in life! So if you like what you see it would be really nice to hear from you. xx Take careThanks again Now let's see, maybe a coffee or tea somewhere nice and hopefully not too noisy so we can hear each other speak and just see if that elusive chemistry is there for us. Maybe a nice little walk if the drink bit goes ok. Here's hoping :-)I don't think it's that important where we meet as long as we both feel happy and safe because in the end that's all that matters.

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