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About Me

Before we get cracking, if you're carrying your last relationship around your neck, and can't let go, don't read any further. Just a big old teddy bear, ex-army ***years), combat search and rescue, paramedic, worked offshore on the rigs and dive-boats, and the middle/far east, and travelled round the world a couple of times, both work and play. Have dived and sky- Have climbed mountains from the Brecon's to Afghanistan and beyond. Have run medical clinics from my backpack in some of the most remote parts of the world in the most extreme of conditions. Spent a long time fighting for my country, now I just want to enjoy it. There's so much to see on our doorstep, but I still enjoy the odd drive round Europe. I've lived in the desert with the Bedouin, and drank cobra blood with tribesmen in Cambodia. I've experienced many varied cultures all over the world, and still welcome the chance to try more.I'm no little fella, 6ft with a 56" chest, a few tattoos (hidden by a t-). I'm hard working, moralistic, and fiercely loyal. If that doesn't float your boat, stop reading now. Semi retired now, still running a commercial flooring company, and consult/train on firearms and explosives for the police (some old habits won't go away), I also coach Krav Maga and Systema. Widowed nearly 8 years ago, I threw myself into work, and took retirement 5 years ago (that lasted all of six months before that got old!). I've been single since then. I've run a livery yard in the past, so I know one end of a ned from the other, and been a step-dad for years in the past, so I'm fairly kid friendly. I'm a little battered and beaten around the edges, older and slower than I used to be, but service can do that. I volunteer at least once a week with Help 4 Heroes, I like being in position now where I can give back, and God knows I've been where they've been, and trod the same dirt.Music: Foos, QOST, ACDC, RHCPs, Audioslave, Deep Vally, Death in Vegas, Elbow, Pink Floyd, Weller, KoL, Nine Inch Nails, Nickelback, Seasick Steve., Boardwalk Empire, Strike Back.I'm old fashioned, you know, flowers on a Friday, take your coat, pull out your chair, open the doors, put my coat around you when you're cold, all the stuff that people forget. I'm old school really. I'm looking for that last harbour, my last first kiss. I love a good debate, but don't want you thinking it's an argument. I want to be in a relationship, it has to be the right one, at this age I know what I don't want, I miss everything that a relationship brings. Festivals, open air concerts, spontaneous road trips. do it all! Now, its not blind date, if I can put a photo up, so can you. I'm not 13 so I don't do text speak, so don't "lol" at me.Right, it seems I have to add this: Just because meetville shows me online, it doesn't mean I am. The phone app keeps showing me on here when I'm not, so It doesn't mean I'm ***, but if I'm chatting/talking to you, then its only you, I can't multitask like you girls! Thanks for the abuse, it just makes for easier choices.Take chances, take a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel always. Be you, and be okay with it.You should never under-estimate the predictability of stupidity! anywhere, so long as you're comfortable with it...seriously anywhere you want. I'm as comfy in a fancy restaurant as I am cooking up in my camper van with the hound sniffing around!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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