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Jolyon, 47
United States, Maryland, Severna Park

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About Me

Is honesty what women really want ? ...I sometimes wonder because I see so many profiles on here of women just wanting a good honest guy, well I'm a good honest guy just looking for ONE !! Nice, honest & attractive woman after being separated for over 7 years now...I'm not !! and have never been into dating multiple women at all, I love !! Being the father of 2 great girls, working out, my job, watching movies, playing sports games online, spending time with family and friends when I can ...I usually have 1 or both of my daughters on most Friday nights and getting sick of spending my Saturday nights alone ...Also looking to come off this site ASAP IF I find the right woman for me ...Could easily hide the fact that I'm only separated and not divorced if I wanted, but I believe in being totally honest about everything ...I feel you need to live one day at a time and appreciate everything you have in life Especially !! where we are living in the best country in the world and my time in the U.S. Army's 82nd Airborne 25 years ago made me realize that more than anything else ..Not to fond of Getting older : ( Like most people !! BUT staying active keeps me from feeling older. I'm not a real shy guy and I prefer, miss & enjoy staying in and cuddling to a good movie with the right woman and all the affection and passion that comes with having a great relationship ...What might be weird !! is the kissing part is actually my favorite part of passion & affection and it's probably what I miss the most ...Hey separated guys like me need some luv'n to : ) ..Sure do miss them HOT !! nights of passion with someone I care about and also them quiet mornings of cuddling together ..I think I'm a pure example of how they say " The 40's is now the new 30's " I'm probably just an average looking man at best, but at least I'm NORMAL, have a heart, honest, still have a pretty good build, and been TOLD !! I'm a good father, a great kisser, very affectionate and have a great sense of humor.Not looking for a serious relationship at first and I do believe that being friends first is very important in any type of relationship, however you never know what might happen when that right one comes along and I guess that's what I'm really hoping for ..Don't like drama !!, playing games !! or a high maintenance woman ...Adore a woman who is young at heart, family oriented, honest, great sense of humor, takes care of herself mentally & physically, has common courtesy and looks at life in a positive way. Physical attraction is important, but looks are not as important to me as long as a woman has a good all around personality and stays in pretty good shape physically ..Having a great sense of humor is a BIG !! Plus in my book because I'm usually pretty good at making people laugh and I also prefer a NON-SMOKERI usually workout 2 or 3 days a week and I'm in good shape for a man my age. I also do my best at trying to eat right. I'm not rich !! But I pay my bills ..Currently living with my sister in the house I grew up in ..My 2 daughters 15 & 17 yrs. old, who are usually with me once a week, are still the 2 most important people in my life and remaining a good father to them has alway's been my #1 priority ...They are both little track stars and I enjoy going to there track events when I can ... This is a tough call because everybody is different, but I prefer the traditional 1st date of chatting over dinner and few drinks or just meeting for coffee....I love coffee by the way !! : ) ...Even now at 47, I still enjoy a night out dancing every great once in a while at a singles dance or a Jack & Jill and it would be nice to find a woman who also enjoys that as well, but keep in mind I do know how to dance "even with my bad knee" : ( ..Believe it or NOT !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting German Italian South American Adult Comedy
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  • Benson from Severna Park | Man | 50 years old | Taurus
    Benson

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    I'm looking for someone to have "adventures" with: traveling, exploring new out-of-the-way places, etc. I'm very passionate in general, and in particular about people. I work as a youth counselor- which I love and find very satisfying. I love dogs, conversation, adventures, downtime, learning, idealism... I'm attractive, sensitive, strong, "deep", emotional, playful, fun-loving, intelligent, procrastinating, supportive. I'm a talker, and I love traveling. ****About me, I'm 6'1", ***#'s. I have an athletic/stocky build, with a few extra pounds. I am very trustworthy. Friends describe me as naturally sincere. I am looking for someone playful, deeply caring, a "giver". ...and cute!! :-) I am looking for someone intelligent, sensitive, hopefully you care about the world, and are an idealist. Also, I'm looking for someone who likes adventures and athletic/outdoorsy activities, as well as someone who can enjoy sleeping in late or reading a book or watching a movie in bed. I tend to be attracted to someone with a youthful outlook and appearance.My goals include taking great vacations with my partner and sharing special times big and small; as small as what happened that day. I've often thought of fostering or adopting a child- I'm not sure. I'm working to start a grad degree in Social Work to become a School Social Worker. I love playing competitive volleyball, working out, bike riding, and going out with friends, as well as hanging with my beloved dog, Cleo. I think the things that make me unique include that I'm a great friend, I'm very dependable, I'm an incredible listener. I'm also a lot of fun and playful! I have very broad musical tastes: U2, rock music in general, R&B (partic. old Motown-- Kanye West, etc. I like the band The Roots right now. I also like Good Will Hunting, The Soprano's, The Wire (incredible show), a movie called Red Belt, etc. I like the singer/ songwriter John Hiatt- he writes incredible songs. I'd like to go out to a bar for a drink (or to a coffee shop) and to talk. (I've also found that I like to exchange at least a phone call before meeting. It helps me get a feel for you before we take it "face to face".) Also, I would appreciate it if you have a picture posted or are able to send one via *** final note, attraction is a very individual thing, it's hard to predict some times.¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸ (Happy fishing....!)

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  • Jerimiah from Severna Park | Man | 47 years old | Gemini
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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    Hello, I am 47 years young, am divorced,single father who sees my children often and is involved in there lives forever, been torn down and rebuilt a stong person inside and out. I have 2 daughters to whom I would give up my life for in a heart beat. The coolest thing for a parent is to live you childrens life through there eyes. I consider myself a romantic, compassionate person. I am a touchy feely person I have no issues with showing affection. I love to hold hands, walk arm and arm, you know all of that 16 year old thing we use to do but forgot about. I am a open book and have no issues with self expression. I belive that communication, honesty and the most important I want the person that I am with to be my best friend, are the key to a successful relationship. I belive that love is unconditional no matter what. Am not the richest man in the world but I live a rich life. God is a part of my life he has carried my more than once however I do not consider myself a fanatic about it. I can look in the mirror every morning and say that I have been honest with myslef. I am looking to share all of my experiences with someone and at the same time share in all of there experiences.I am looking for a long term relationship and want to find my soul mate, but also like taking it a day at a time. I believe that true love is when 2 people can look each other in the eyes say no words and know exactly what is going on with each other. My partner will always know that I am not going anywhere I would be there for them no matter what they could always count on me for what ever it takes. I am very family orientated and believe that love is thicker than water. I want to live life to the fullest and share it with someone who I know would be very happy being with me. I treat the woman that is with me with respect and dignity and most of all like a lady. I do not believe in shouting matches talking it out it the best thing for me and if I need to leave it alone then revisit then that is ok too and we would not go to bed mad and of course what is the best part of a fight the making up. I enjoy leaving my partner notes in the morning telling them that I love them or a text message during the day letting them know that i am thinking of them and cant wait till the day is over until I can hold them and see them. I enjoy the small things in life, i enjoy giving and the coolest thing that I like to do is to give flowers very cool. I want to share my joys with my partner and share in there joys and sharing in my partners joys would be very cool. I do not play games life is to short for that. I do not condone cheating I feel that cheating is unforgivable. I speak from my heart happens to be the same heart I wear on my sleeve sometimes. I enjoy being the kid inside of me but I hold true to my obligations.I like to take long drives to no where however ever with that special someone then it is very outstanding.I like to go out or simply cuddle on the couch and watch a good movie with some popcorn and some junk food LOL. I hope you have enjoyed reading more to come if you would like to know all you have to do is ask I have nothing to hide. Thank you for stopping by. Have a great day. STAY STRONG. PS: (As you can see I have no issues telling you how i feel i find this aspect very liberating and fulfilling. Emotion expression with me is very easy and it may be kind of weird coming from a guy but I am not like every other guy I am me and a happy me.I would like to be your warmest hello and your hardest goodbye. I am proud of the man I have become not a vain thing but what I have to offer inside of me which is my heart and soul for the right woman. Once again thank you for reading. Stay classy. I do not take my date to a movie you cannot talk in the movie theater. I would do some dinner,or a pinic in the park, I want to be able to talk and get to know the person that is in front of me. I want to be able to ask questions and hold consversation with that person. I want know what is inside of them. I like go out and enjoy the person that I am with. Go dancing, granted I am a horrible dancer LOL but that is ok. Simply go out and enjoy each other. Sometimes the best plan is no plan. Casual time. Walk in the park.

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  • Miller from Severna Park | Man | 49 years old | Capricorn
    Miller

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Easy going, fun loving, easy going kind of guy. Looking to see what's out there. I like sports, movies, music, traveling, spending time with family and friends. I'm looking for someone who's also fun loving and easy going, romantic, someone who's ready to be loved, pampered, spoiled and treated the way a woman should be. Lunch, coffee and see where the day/night takes us.

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