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Benson, 50

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About Me

I'm looking for someone to have "adventures" with: traveling, exploring new out-of-the-way places, etc. I'm very passionate in general, and in particular about people. I work as a youth counselor- which I love and find very satisfying. I love dogs, conversation, adventures, downtime, learning, idealism... I'm attractive, sensitive, strong, "deep", emotional, playful, fun-loving, intelligent, procrastinating, supportive. I'm a talker, and I love traveling. ****About me, I'm 6'1", ***#'s. I have an athletic/stocky build, with a few extra pounds. I am very trustworthy. Friends describe me as naturally sincere. I am looking for someone playful, deeply caring, a "giver". ...and cute!! :-) I am looking for someone intelligent, sensitive, hopefully you care about the world, and are an idealist. Also, I'm looking for someone who likes adventures and athletic/outdoorsy activities, as well as someone who can enjoy sleeping in late or reading a book or watching a movie in bed. I tend to be attracted to someone with a youthful outlook and appearance.My goals include taking great vacations with my partner and sharing special times big and small; as small as what happened that day. I've often thought of fostering or adopting a child- I'm not sure. I'm working to start a grad degree in Social Work to become a School Social Worker. I love playing competitive volleyball, working out, bike riding, and going out with friends, as well as hanging with my beloved dog, Cleo. I think the things that make me unique include that I'm a great friend, I'm very dependable, I'm an incredible listener. I'm also a lot of fun and playful! I have very broad musical tastes: U2, rock music in general, R&B (partic. old Motown-- Kanye West, etc. I like the band The Roots right now. I also like Good Will Hunting, The Soprano's, The Wire (incredible show), a movie called Red Belt, etc. I like the singer/ songwriter John Hiatt- he writes incredible songs. I'd like to go out to a bar for a drink (or to a coffee shop) and to talk. (I've also found that I like to exchange at least a phone call before meeting. It helps me get a feel for you before we take it "face to face".) Also, I would appreciate it if you have a picture posted or are able to send one via *** final note, attraction is a very individual thing, it's hard to predict some times.¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸.¸>«(((º>¸.·´¯`·.¸ (Happy fishing....!)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    Is honesty what women really want ? ...I sometimes wonder because I see so many profiles on here of women just wanting a good honest guy, well I'm a good honest guy just looking for ONE !! Nice, honest & attractive woman after being separated for over 7 years now...I'm not !! and have never been into dating multiple women at all, I love !! Being the father of 2 great girls, working out, my job, watching movies, playing sports games online, spending time with family and friends when I can ...I usually have 1 or both of my daughters on most Friday nights and getting sick of spending my Saturday nights alone ...Also looking to come off this site ASAP IF I find the right woman for me ...Could easily hide the fact that I'm only separated and not divorced if I wanted, but I believe in being totally honest about everything ...I feel you need to live one day at a time and appreciate everything you have in life Especially !! where we are living in the best country in the world and my time in the U.S. Army's 82nd Airborne 25 years ago made me realize that more than anything else ..Not to fond of Getting older : ( Like most people !! BUT staying active keeps me from feeling older. I'm not a real shy guy and I prefer, miss & enjoy staying in and cuddling to a good movie with the right woman and all the affection and passion that comes with having a great relationship ...What might be weird !! is the kissing part is actually my favorite part of passion & affection and it's probably what I miss the most ...Hey separated guys like me need some luv'n to : ) ..Sure do miss them HOT !! nights of passion with someone I care about and also them quiet mornings of cuddling together ..I think I'm a pure example of how they say " The 40's is now the new 30's " I'm probably just an average looking man at best, but at least I'm NORMAL, have a heart, honest, still have a pretty good build, and been TOLD !! I'm a good father, a great kisser, very affectionate and have a great sense of humor.Not looking for a serious relationship at first and I do believe that being friends first is very important in any type of relationship, however you never know what might happen when that right one comes along and I guess that's what I'm really hoping for ..Don't like drama !!, playing games !! or a high maintenance woman ...Adore a woman who is young at heart, family oriented, honest, great sense of humor, takes care of herself mentally & physically, has common courtesy and looks at life in a positive way. Physical attraction is important, but looks are not as important to me as long as a woman has a good all around personality and stays in pretty good shape physically ..Having a great sense of humor is a BIG !! Plus in my book because I'm usually pretty good at making people laugh and I also prefer a NON-SMOKERI usually workout 2 or 3 days a week and I'm in good shape for a man my age. I also do my best at trying to eat right. I'm not rich !! But I pay my bills ..Currently living with my sister in the house I grew up in ..My 2 daughters 15 & 17 yrs. old, who are usually with me once a week, are still the 2 most important people in my life and remaining a good father to them has alway's been my #1 priority ...They are both little track stars and I enjoy going to there track events when I can ... This is a tough call because everybody is different, but I prefer the traditional 1st date of chatting over dinner and few drinks or just meeting for coffee....I love coffee by the way !! : ) ...Even now at 47, I still enjoy a night out dancing every great once in a while at a singles dance or a Jack & Jill and it would be nice to find a woman who also enjoys that as well, but keep in mind I do know how to dance "even with my bad knee" : ( ..Believe it or NOT !!

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    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-35

    Been outta this game, still tryin to find my lane, How could I be taken serious without enough pain? But I refrain from that, as I reframe my raps, Maybe insane in fact, a brain that's barely intact

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