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Gomer, 50

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About Me

My glass is at least ***full! I have a great career with a great company in a great city. My primary hobbies right now are jogging ***Xs p/wk), hiking (1X p/wk) and supporting my sons in their endeavors (school, scouts, soccer and swimming). They are 11 and 16 and live with their mother in TN. I talk with them every night and see them every 3- They are good boys, make very good grades and I couldn't be more proud of them.***months. I'm very fortunate to have been blessed with 2 very good sons. Life is good! :-)I love to hike (I do Cowles Mtn almost every wkend). But if you've got another favorite hike I'm game. Iron Mtn and Elfin are next on my list. I work in an office so almost anything outdoors will get my vote. I'm a light to moderate drinker so if your idea of a good time is to get ripped, I'm not your guy. I'm from the South, I open doors for people, especially women, and I say "yes ma'am, no ma'am, thank you and please". Its just the way I was raised. So if you appreciate manners, the first date won't be time wasted. Beyond that we'll just have to see won't we.Separated for 2 years, divorced a year and a half ago. I don't feel the need to get married anytime soon, but I do want a long-term, committed and monogamous relationship. If you have kids that's great, hope you're as blessed with yours as I am with mine. My ex-wife and I co-parent well - no games or drama - I'm in TN when I need to be and there for my boys when they need me. Hope you and your ex (if you have one) get along. Its not always easy but worth the effort for the kids' sake.Otherwise, I'm good at my job which is how I got from TN to CA. I'm a lawyer by profession but work for a financial *** don't particularly care what you do for a living as long as you care about your work and are happy in it. Life is too short not to be happy - with who you are and who you're with. :-) Thanks for reading this and take care.PS - In the interest of full disclosure - I'm left-handed and right-handed (honest). I once taught a German Shepard to bark, in Mandarin Chinese. The police often stop and question me just because they find me interesting. I'm not "The Most Interesting Man in the World". I'm like . . . 7th. :-) An ideal first date would be to meet for coffee, tea, or frozen yogurt/ice cream if its been a good day. Or maybe a frozen margarita if its been a really good day. Ha! Preferably somewhere quaint, sort of quiet or at least quiet enough that we can here each other, since the object is to see if there's mutual interest, right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sheamus

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I took a break from this site for about 3 years and wanted to see whats new here. I rely alot on my sense of humor. It can get me out of trouble and sometimes get me into trouble. I love to laugh and joke around and I'm looking to meet someone who likes to also. Theres a time to take life serious and a time to laugh about it, I prefer the after. I'm on the water everyday so she has to like the water. Everythings better when wet. I like pina coladas and getting caught in the rain. I try to enjoy the simple things in life, like taking time to feed some ducks. I'm looking to get to know a fun person and then you never know what happens from there. I tend to stay away from drama so please stay away if you have it. I've gotten to a point in my life where I'm secure and like to keep things simple, easier said then done. I'd like to keep it light, meet for a drink to see if there is any chemistry.

  • Hirah

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    Thanks for reading this far! I'm a positive person who wants to find an attractive, fun-loving lady with a sense of humor whom I'd love to help make smile. I try and treat everyone as I would like to be treated myself. I'm a divorced dad and I spend much of my free time with the biggest blessings in my life: my children. I own and operate a small business and also work outside my business, so my free time becomes very valuable, as it does for most of you who have continued reading this far. I promise - no games or drama. I love doing almost everything - I'm a very easy date! I'm very adaptable, and very agreeable :) I'm also very honest and upfront - maybe too blatantly honest for some :) At the same time, my life's an open book - ask and I'll tell you! I'm a good, decent, easy-going guy who loves a wide variety of entertainment, food, sports, and music. I'm not a one-night stand kinda guy. I believe that while sex is extremely important to a relationship, it should never be the only or deciding factor. Let's see if we connect during messaging - if we connect - then let's meet to see if there are sparks! :) Let's chat, then meet up and enjoy this summer/early fall weather - together! Thanks for reading :) A great first date would be a quiet dinner or a night at the Vineyard - or somewhere quiet where we can spend the evening talking and listening to each other and seeing if there's that "spark". During the day, a walk in the park or on a trail, or throwing a blanket down next to the lake this summer/fall and just talking for awhile.

  • Terrance

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    Hmm...let's see. I can be pretty intense (and intensely silly) at times, but laid back at others. I'm into living simply, focusing on my core values and things I like to do, such as: staying fit (mostly by playing soccer), music (I am a musician), traveling (anywhere and everywhere), minimizing my impact to the planet (avid recycler and restrained consumer). I'm teaching myself Spanish. I go for runs whenever I feel like it, sometimes at midnight. I drink copious amounts of coffee. I don't have a TV (but when I'm around one I'm known to watch CSI and the like). I'm a city boy who loves nature. I'm into reading and anything that stimulates the mind, so I guess you could call me a dork at times :) Looking for someone to chill with initially...maybe get some coffee, hit a museum, check out some live music..

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