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I'm not the average guy you hear women complaining about. I'm easy going, laid back and easy to get along with. I'm not an arrogant or rude person, I didn't invent water nor can I walk on it, and I'm not the judgmental type. I don't have all the answers and some days don't even understand the questions, LOL. I'm more open minded than the majority and believe that mutual trust and respect is the foundation to any good relationship. I'm happy right now with who and what and where I am. I'm just looking for that special someone to share it with, whether it be an LTR or STR.I enjoy almost all kinds of music, actually have Sade playing right now, but I really am pretty open with music. I guess there is more that I like than what I don't.Hobbies; when I have time, fish, hunt, golf or anything outside that sounds good. I love going out to dinner, the movies, plays, operas, the symphony or just bbq'n/grilling something. I like to cook and try new foods and again here, there is more that I do like than what I don't.I've never been good at praising myself, but then again, I've never felt like I had to. I don't have an ego to feed and don't have time to feed anyone else's.I'm sure there's more that I have left out, or better ways to put it, but I think you get the picture.Update: I've read my "test" results and they seem about 90% accurate in the portrayal of me, with a few minor things I think are subject to interpretation, but oh well.Update ***; Thanks for all the interest in me and I'm sorry I didn't disclose this sooner, my bad. However, I'm not attracted to racists, homophobic, self centered, judgmental, self righteous, atheistic, self absorbed, rude, non compassionate women, OMG ! X2 Mother Goose !! What the "bleep" !!!So, with this now out in the open, if any of the aforementioned applies to you, pass me on by !!! It would be a mutually agreed upon dinner date where she is not nervous about eating in front of a new guy, LOL! Lets go somewhere nice and dine and converse. The attraction is there or it isn't, but all we need to eat, right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Paddy

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

    I am self employed .Yes I can change the engine on your M5 and remodel your kitchen.. I enjoy boating,and im looking for a women that can drive a boat and not run me over! :) Thanks, bbqs,shootin a game of pool,havin a burger at Yard House, Can u drink a beer? or r u a fufu drink girl? I have a big german shepard that will eat your cat,and would like to have his belly rubbed by a cute girl.Im comfortable at a classy place or shooting off a potato launcher in my front yard with you. The last concerts I went to were Godsmack and Kid Rock.S, I used to be a Indycar mechanic thats how I was able to travel around the world And learned theres no place like home.Stupid funny movies are my favorite.Just doin this for fun and to see what happens and what new adventures it might bring ;) shoot a game of pool, loser buys a drink, shoot potato launcher?

  • Thatsade

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    Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-32

    Hi! My name is Thatsade. I am never married other african man without kids from Ocean City, Maryland, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Gib

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    Are you able to be loved by a great man? Are you able to give love back? The 3 qualities I am most looking for in a girlfriend or partner is someone who is 1) in touch with her loving and caring self, 2) has "spiritual" depth (non-religious, non-separating), or wishes to gain it, and 3) enjoys being active, fit and healthy in her body. If you have these 3 qualities it's almost certain we could build a good friendship that might also grow into something more. (But you may enjoy some of the relationship and other thoughts I share in this profile in general :-)About Me and Love***I find I build close friendships very quickly, particularly with those that have spiritual depth, and usually it's months before we are saying "I love you" to each other as friends -- both men and women. My friends tell me I am a very loving and caring person. People usually open up quickly around me because they can feel I can hold anything in consciousness without judgement. I have shed most of the "conditioning of age", and I find I relate to people of all ages well.I've been "on the path" since my teen years deeply questioning and looking at what is love, what is "God", what is relationship, what is true, etc., and this deep searching beyond established belief systems leaves me both very free and also sure of who and what I am and also sure of who and what you are at your core: Love, Eternal Being, Grandness beyond measure, and Truth! ;-) No one can recognize love or truth if they weren't Love and Truth already -- just perhaps no one ever told them. You have to find this deep inside (even though this fact is obvious!, just not taught unfortunately, yet! :-), ... ... and then you really wake up to What you are: Love and Truth, an Infinite Being, Eternal. Then you are free, and joined with that which is (Everyone), and all fear leaves -- well, most of the time ;***Of course I'm talking about the real You.Relationship***You know romantic relationships are interesting: to many the (current) format is, "if you meet the right conditions, I'll love you unconditionally." This is obviously a recipe for disaster, causing many relationships to fail. In romance we can easily get "our fix" from the other person -- the present attractiveness, being held, sex, etc -- short-term overlooking the things we don't like. When the newness wears off, we often have never built the real relationship skills to love each other through needed changes; in short, letting our partner know *where* we would like to meet them, and where we cannot, and discussing it because (real) love is already there to make the changes possible and easy. E.g. perhaps "I need us to live in a clean home where underwear is not left of the floor." ;-) Furthermore, ideally we come up with new solutions because we honor each other's uniqueness and our diversity together, which reflects the primary purpose of relationship -- increase, more, more life.Knowing what another is at their core has me "hang in there" with others forever, drawing positive boundaries as needed and never giving up on anyone. I'm very aware about the common tendency people can have to project faults on each other, particularly when folks are afraid or insecure, and this is the time people need to take a moment and work through their stuff and then talk it out with their partner if/as needed for there to be forward movement, growth, and greater depth in the relationship. Love ultimately heals. I would like to find another who is at this level of depth/commitment in their life or wants to be, and is not flaky in relationship. I find it's this type of solid foundation that then brings incredible joy, love, and play in a relationship -- because there is a solid foundation.I was married 25 years and my ex-wife and I remain close friends with real openness and caring for each other's well-being just like with all my other good friends. As for us, we came to a place where a marriage-type-of-partnership wasn't what would give us the most growth and fulfillment going forward, but that has never stopped us from caring about each other (real love is unconditional caring).As such you might have guessed to me the "perfect relationship" isn't about love -- that's the starting point -- I already care about the well-being of those I am with, and it is not conditional. I already care about the well-being of you. To me real meaningful relationship is about increase ... enhancement: are we able to have fun and enrich each others lives because we're together, ideally experiencing enhancement in every facet of our lives because we're together, e.g. career, other relationships, nutrition and health, fun, ever greater true power, etc. That's the joy of relationship, not getting to the place where you love someone.Outside of all that "nuts and bolts stuff" :-), I like the great outdoors and "moving" -- running, biking, hiking, rollerblading, working-out, going cruising in my roadster/convertible (admittedly very fast at times! ;-), going to the high country, or travelling out of state. My girlfriend or partner will definitely enjoy being active in her body too, not sedentary. I enjoy getting together with my friends to eat dinner in or out and watch a movie and have great conversation. I enjoy music of all sorts, and while I like free-style dancing, I think couple's dancing is a much better way for a man to pay attention to a woman and ideally put a smile on her face. :-)I like eating healthy food and often make pretty simple nutritious food at home (bravo Garden of Life Raw Meal shakes, some massive & quick nutrition ;-).I've experienced a lot in my life (time) and yet I don't know much trivia or repetitious world happenings (e.g. I'm not a big fan of the "bad news" and all its drama :-). I prefer to focus on the positive things in life and what is true.So Dear One, are you loving as I am -- in touch with that? ;-). Have you been around the block a few times finding out your truth about life and relationship, sure of yourself, ... or perhaps are you wanting to experience new things that really bring truth alive in you so that you can be sure? Do you like to be fit & vigorous in this body that we get to use here to move and have fun with. If you have these 3 qualities we'll have a basis for fun and potentially romance, but for sure a good friendship. ;-)Namaste Dear One ;-)Rado You know really providing the space for a woman to express herself freely.

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