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Gib
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Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
Are you able to be loved by a great man? Are you able to give love back? The 3 qualities I am most looking for in a girlfriend or partner is someone who is 1) in touch with her loving and caring self, 2) has "spiritual" depth (non-religious, non-separating), or wishes to gain it, and 3) enjoys being active, fit and healthy in her body. If you have these 3 qualities it's almost certain we could build a good friendship that might also grow into something more. (But you may enjoy some of the relationship and other thoughts I share in this profile in general :-)About Me and Love***I find I build close friendships very quickly, particularly with those that have spiritual depth, and usually it's months before we are saying "I love you" to each other as friends -- both men and women. My friends tell me I am a very loving and caring person. People usually open up quickly around me because they can feel I can hold anything in consciousness without judgement. I have shed most of the "conditioning of age", and I find I relate to people of all ages well.I've been "on the path" since my teen years deeply questioning and looking at what is love, what is "God", what is relationship, what is true, etc., and this deep searching beyond established belief systems leaves me both very free and also sure of who and what I am and also sure of who and what you are at your core: Love, Eternal Being, Grandness beyond measure, and Truth! ;-) No one can recognize love or truth if they weren't Love and Truth already -- just perhaps no one ever told them. You have to find this deep inside (even though this fact is obvious!, just not taught unfortunately, yet! :-), ... ... and then you really wake up to What you are: Love and Truth, an Infinite Being, Eternal. Then you are free, and joined with that which is (Everyone), and all fear leaves -- well, most of the time ;***Of course I'm talking about the real You.Relationship***You know romantic relationships are interesting: to many the (current) format is, "if you meet the right conditions, I'll love you unconditionally." This is obviously a recipe for disaster, causing many relationships to fail. In romance we can easily get "our fix" from the other person -- the present attractiveness, being held, sex, etc -- short-term overlooking the things we don't like. When the newness wears off, we often have never built the real relationship skills to love each other through needed changes; in short, letting our partner know *where* we would like to meet them, and where we cannot, and discussing it because (real) love is already there to make the changes possible and easy. E.g. perhaps "I need us to live in a clean home where underwear is not left of the floor." ;-) Furthermore, ideally we come up with new solutions because we honor each other's uniqueness and our diversity together, which reflects the primary purpose of relationship -- increase, more, more life.Knowing what another is at their core has me "hang in there" with others forever, drawing positive boundaries as needed and never giving up on anyone. I'm very aware about the common tendency people can have to project faults on each other, particularly when folks are afraid or insecure, and this is the time people need to take a moment and work through their stuff and then talk it out with their partner if/as needed for there to be forward movement, growth, and greater depth in the relationship. Love ultimately heals. I would like to find another who is at this level of depth/commitment in their life or wants to be, and is not flaky in relationship. I find it's this type of solid foundation that then brings incredible joy, love, and play in a relationship -- because there is a solid foundation.I was married 25 years and my ex-wife and I remain close friends with real openness and caring for each other's well-being just like with all my other good friends. As for us, we came to a place where a marriage-type-of-partnership wasn't what would give us the most growth and fulfillment going forward, but that has never stopped us from caring about each other (real love is unconditional caring).As such you might have guessed to me the "perfect relationship" isn't about love -- that's the starting point -- I already care about the well-being of those I am with, and it is not conditional. I already care about the well-being of you. To me real meaningful relationship is about increase ... enhancement: are we able to have fun and enrich each others lives because we're together, ideally experiencing enhancement in every facet of our lives because we're together, e.g. career, other relationships, nutrition and health, fun, ever greater true power, etc. That's the joy of relationship, not getting to the place where you love someone.Outside of all that "nuts and bolts stuff" :-), I like the great outdoors and "moving" -- running, biking, hiking, rollerblading, working-out, going cruising in my roadster/convertible (admittedly very fast at times! ;-), going to the high country, or travelling out of state. My girlfriend or partner will definitely enjoy being active in her body too, not sedentary. I enjoy getting together with my friends to eat dinner in or out and watch a movie and have great conversation. I enjoy music of all sorts, and while I like free-style dancing, I think couple's dancing is a much better way for a man to pay attention to a woman and ideally put a smile on her face. :-)I like eating healthy food and often make pretty simple nutritious food at home (bravo Garden of Life Raw Meal shakes, some massive & quick nutrition ;-).I've experienced a lot in my life (time) and yet I don't know much trivia or repetitious world happenings (e.g. I'm not a big fan of the "bad news" and all its drama :-). I prefer to focus on the positive things in life and what is true.So Dear One, are you loving as I am -- in touch with that? ;-). Have you been around the block a few times finding out your truth about life and relationship, sure of yourself, ... or perhaps are you wanting to experience new things that really bring truth alive in you so that you can be sure? Do you like to be fit & vigorous in this body that we get to use here to move and have fun with. If you have these 3 qualities we'll have a basis for fun and potentially romance, but for sure a good friendship. ;-)Namaste Dear One ;-)Rado You know really providing the space for a woman to express herself freely.
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Clark
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Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
I am an easy-going, no-drama kinda guy. I'm sincere, respectful and trustworthy. I'm very easy to talk with and enjoy good conversation.I'm outgoing and love to try new things. I love nature and all animals. I am also a Christian and have been for over 20 years. Christ is first in my life. I also like staying at home watching movies holding my lady and relaxing with a glass of wine. I'm very affectionate, which is to say I'm very touchy feely. I love kissing...IT'S FUN!I'm into a healthy lifestyle. I workout ***times a week. But I gotta have my sushi...and yes...with rice!I'm old fashioned and believe in treating a woman like a lady. I still open doors and pull out chairs for her. What can I say...I'm chivalrous. Oh, and did I mention I like to cook...especially on the grill. I LOVE BBQ. Not much I can't cook on the Q.I'm a pretty simple guy really. I work out ***days a week. I live one day at a time and to the fullest as much as possible. Also, I like being able to live in close proximity to my woman. I have tried being in an LDR before and it just didn't work out. So...If you would like to know more, I would love to tell you as I prefer face to face conversations. I'm a communicator to the core!I'm open to race! Perhaps a cup of coffee while sitting and talking or maybe dinner and drinks...or dinner and a movie...or dinner, drinks AND a movie...LOL. Let's just go with the flow....
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Gorden
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Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
I'm a financial advisor with a major Wall Street firm. No kids, no ex-wife, no debt and no baggage. I have a high IQ, avoid drama, and am a good conversationalist. I am good with money since that's basically what I do for a living. I'm looking for either someone to date or a girlfriend, depending on things. Either is fine for now. Just coming off of a LTR, for whatever that's worth.I am honest almost to a fault, although I do understand diplomacy and being sensitive to the feelings of others. I think I'm pretty easy to get along with and hate to argue, although obviously sometimes there are differences. I'd like to think that even though I know how to take care of myself (I'm an ex-cop), I am a generally kind, thoughtful and non-violent person. I don't use drugs. I drink somewhat on the weekends. I make a great margarita, if I do say so. I love to travel, so I'd prefer that the person I'm with feels the same way. It's a big world and I'd like to see a lot more of it. I especially enjoy cruises and have done a number of them.The woman I'd be most interested in has a great sense of humor, keeps herself in good physical shape, is easy going and smart. She is not preoccupied with her biological clock or finding a husband and/or sugar daddy, nor does she want to rope some guy into getting her a Green Card (I have a few stories). Rather, she's confident in who she is and simply wants to find a good guy where there is attraction, chemistry and mutual respect. Shouldn't be too much to ask for, right?P.S. Ladies *please* update your photos! I see pics of women I saw on dating sites over 10 years ago and they're still using some or all of the same photos. Give me a break! Things change. We age (unfortunately). People want to see what you look like *now*, not when you were a young hottie. I deleted my old pics and replaced them with current photos. Sure, I used to look younger/better, but it's not right to use photos that are not accurate. Know what I mean? Usually, I prefer to meet for coffee or a drink the first time. After that, it could be anything from a sporting event to dinner out, dinner in, etc. It's all about getting to know each other and seeing if there is or is not chemistry present.