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Caden, 47
United States, Maryland, Oakland

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About Me

I'm a sincere, honest, adventurous guy who is looking for a woman with similar qualities. My ultimate goal would be a committed relationship with someone whom I share a strong chemistry.I enjoy travel, hiking, watching or playing sports, movies and touring the country either by car or motorcycle and most outdoor activities. I am a passionate reader, and like to link that with visits to historical sites. I'm also a movie buff, and enjoy watching a variety of genres. Musically, I listen primarily to Classic rock and Southern rock. I like country music as well, and can listen to most anything except for hard core rap and some of the more frou-frou classical stuff.I’ve been told I have a great sense of humor and I like to laugh. Life is too short not to have fun while you're on this earth and if you're not enjoying yourself while doing something then it probably isn't worth doing. Having said that, I can also be serious when required and I have always tried to be the type of person that friends and family can count on.My goals and aspirations all revolve around leading a life well lived: enjoying simple pleasures, exploring new things and surrounding myself with quality people. I can honestly say I enjoy my life and I recognize that it could be even better with the right partner. Thanks for reading this far (I admire your perseverance)Who I'm looking for: I don't necessarily have a "type" in mind, more a person who embodies certain qualities. Honesty, loyalty, trustworthiness, sincerity all go without saying. Independence is a big thing with me. I'd like a partner who is happy with her own life, enjoys her own interests and has her own desires. Ideally we'd share some interests, and support the fulfilling of each other's desires. The best ones for me are not defined by being clones of each other but rather a feeling of being connected and that connection is a key ingredient to the whole chemistry thing.If the above description interests you, or sounds like you, then send me a message. Who knows, it might be the start of something great! A nice casual encounter for conversation over lunch, dinner or coffee, and see if we enjoy each other's company.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

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