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About Me

Hi.......already have my green card before you start wondering :o). I have been divorced for 4 years now, and have 2 beautiful kids, aged 9 and ***I was a late starter)....who of course are my life. I have joint custody, and I get them more than most divorced dads, and I love it. So of course I'm looking for someone with a love for children, and someone who (If we click and get on ) would accompany me further down the road...to all those places that my babies love. I'm not a hugely rich guy....but my bills are paid, and I've never missed a child support payment...One day that mega millions will be all mine...skydive....have a huge jacked up truck...or take photos with my shirt off or bits dangling around as a profile picture for dating sites. I put on my profile "average weight".....however at 47 I do have a "few extra pounds".....but that's exactly what it is.......a few. I can still see my feet (and everything else) without having to suck my belly in. And compered with some of the "average" people I've seen here, I'm doing alright..lol. I have a very very strong work ethic, which sometimes comes back to bite me in the butt....and sometimes I work long unsociable hours...but thankful to have a job that I love. I'm just looking for someone to spend some time with and see what happens. I'm not looking for a mom for my kids...They have one.....and I'm not looking to rush into anything head first.I already made that mistake. I love......roadtrips.....golf....fishing...thunderstorms.....amusement parks....movies....80s music (sorry)....my scottish heritage..spotaneity...and of course my babies!!!I will add to this as the days go by....but this should give you a rough idea of where I'm at and what I'm looking for....and of course..if it's anything near what you're looking for. Not looking for some red hot whirlwind romance.....just a regular girl looking for someone to share some good times with and see if anything develops... Good luck in your quest.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Kenrick

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    Thanks for stopping by to read my profile. So far I would have to say I have enjoyed my time here and am planning on staying as long as possible. That being said it would be nice to find someone to spend my time with besides my mother. She is the main reason I am here and attending to her needs will be a primary focus for me now and in the future. I am starting over as it pertains to life. New job , new friends, new enviroment and hopefully a new love life. I left my old life behind and am looking foward to some new adventures and new experiences. The winds of change have turned my life upside down but rather fight it, I have chosen to embrace it and see where it leads. My time is somewhat limited at the moment but that will not always be the case. I hope that anyone who is reading this would understand that I am trying to do what is right for my mother while also trying to rebuild my life at the same time. I am not going to write a bunch of lies to try and impress you. Right now my life is a challenge but I will survive and things will soon get better. Meeting my better half would certainly be a step in that direction. Do I have some baggage...yes...who doesn't? I suppose I should tell a little about myself. I am shy at first until you earn my trust at which time I become fiercly loyal. I am a realist and very pragmatic(my midwestern upbringing). Patience is one of my best qualities as I rarely lose my temper. I am also extremely laid back and don't take myself too seriously. My humor tends to be on the dry side with a bit of sarcasm mixed in. I try to stay informed about the world around me and generally have an opinion(right or wrong). I enjoy learning and try to gain some type of wisdom whenever possible. I like to think of myself as romantic although I am way out of practice in that department. I am selective when it comes to dating but when I do find someone to direct my affection towards I tend to want to spend significant time with that person. The key word in that is time. It does not have to be big events and larges groups of people. To me it is the small things in life that really matter. I want a best friend, lover, confidant and person to spoil all rolled up into one. I could write a whole lot more about that and other subjests but ***'ll save that for anyone interested to learn about later.I should probably also include some things that I am not looking for. Still married or separated sorry but I am not a home wrecker. Excessive drinker or bar fly, again sorry been there done that. Serial dater or scammer find someone else to prey on. Looking for a sugardaddy keep looking because I am wealthy in the mind and heart not in the wallet. Last but not least if you feel the need fix me into what you want as opposed to letting me be ,faults and all, then please find another project.I really don't want end on a negative so I will finish by saying that I am one of the good guys it seems so many women say they desire. I don't cheat, try really hard not to lie. I have not and never will abuse any woman. I am far from perfect but maybe I can at least be a source of joy for someone out there. One thing I can say is that I understand how hard relationships can be. The sooner the better. Get it over with so if there is a second date it can be the new first date since few people are really themselves on a first date.

  • Lemuel

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    I like going to the beach and amusement parks. I love the mountains and going to the zoo and traveling.I like watching football & basketball games.I love to watch scary movies & comedy movies whether at home or the movies.I've been to the Bahamas.I would like to go again someday or another trip sort of the kind.I like sports cars also.I like almost anything that's exciting& a new experience that makes precious and meaningful memories to me.I'd love to find someone that can put their heart out there for me as I will put all my heart into them.I'm lookin that love that is once in a lifetime I always hear about but never have had a chance to experience.it.I am a honest trustworthy good hearted caring guy that likes to joke & laugh & have a great time & enjoy life.My heart goes out to children.I like all kinds of music; especially 80's music.I love to spend precious time with my family.I am not a hard person to satisfy at all;almost anything is fine with me as long as my significant other is happy.I may do things from time to time as a surprise for my lady friend or girlfriend to keep the relationship alive or exciting i should say. Maybe going out to dinner somewhere that nice & quiet & romantic & we can talk to get to know each other better & maybe a movie.I do like a nice long romantic walk together,or spend a evening at home under candlelight snuggled up on the couch watching a good movie over candlight.I like to be romantic at whatever we may do.I will do everything possible to makes things go as a nice as a first date should be & always will.

  • Joab

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

    Thanks for checking out my profile. If you are someone who needs to see fireworks, butterflies and doves flying overhead, magic sparklies tingling over top of us on our first meeting in order to go to a second, then please pass me by. Things just rarely happen. I've somehow got on a roll with people who need this and I'm tired ow wasting time and money on people who use this as their first meet criteria. It's just not reasonable, especially if your idea of a first meeting is sipping 3 glasses of wine while we sit idle on chairs or barstools. . I'm a very active, energetic, positive person with an outgoing, flirty, fun and friendly personality. I'm open, honest, sincere and talkative. I am well-spoken and a good communicator. I also express my feelings and don’t keep you guessing. I'm a well-educated and well-rounded individual and sometimes I just get to the point like above. I laugh a lot and try to have fun in some way every day. I do not try to be someone or something I am not. I have cool aspects of my personality that you may not see at first glance. People tell me that I'm engaging, intelligent, interesting, sometimes entertaining and usually fun to be around. I give off positive energy. When you get to know me more, you'll find I'm nice, loyal, caring, and somewhat emotional. I'm very affectionate and touchy feely when I know you. My Love Languages are quality time and physical touch. Google "love languages" if you don't know what I'm talking about.I'm a people person - very social and charismatic. Your mom will love me if I meet her. I sometimes take on different looks in how I dress. . My views on life are contemporary. I look forward and do not dwell on the past. I appreciate people in all walks of life and am not judgmental. I work in a creative field and love interesting, outgoing, charismatic people. I like people with personality, especially those who are a little quirky in some way. I like people that exude positive energy. Everyone can do it, some choose not to.Personal information - I am family oriented, have had positive family experiences throughout my life, and value family. I was married nearly 10 years but we were together 14 years. I've been divorced about 9 years now, had some good relationships over those years. . Like most people, I love my kids ***teenage boys ***and 16). My boys have a great life and have had very few hardships. They have always gone to private schools, are athletic, and are well-mannered and respectful. They would never disrespect you if they are around you. They try hard, they get it. My oldest earned a college soccer scholarship this past year, he just started college this year. My youngest also plays soccer at a very high national level. I work hard at relationships and am a relationship kind of guy. I enjoy a good in-depth conversation or intellectual debate now and then and I don't get emotional about your opinions if they differ from mine. I also enjoy cutting up and being goofy at times. I am a peace keeper and am not a controlling or jealous person. I am am independent. When I am in, I am all the way in. I am not looking to rush a relationship or a situation. A nice comfortable pace is perfect. My mind is very active and I have a real thirst for knowledge. I love learning new things. That's probably why I like to teach part-time as a college adjunct business *** like pushing my limits and my comfort level. I may get you to do things you never thought you’d try or didn't think you'd like. I'm just like that people tell me. People tend to like my energy. I keep up with current news events and am usually in the know. You won’t be bored with me and I will probably keep you amused. I wake up happy and positive each day.What do I like in a woman? An active and sharp mind, a fun personality, confidence, charisma, she likes herself and how she looks. My age is 47, I accidentally put it in wrong when I made this new profile. So make note. Something simple, something real.

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