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Eliot, 47

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About Me

If your looking for a long term relationship great, but it seems alot of women are just on here to see if they still "got it".I am wonderful... Blah blah blah... I'm sure if your reading this every guy says the same thing! It's so cliche, so lets try real honesty! I am a guy, my first impression is what I see (yes very shallow), but it gets us to read your profile. I look for buzz words and yes I hate to say it but I've dated a few gals that were more interested in my checking account balance than me, yes we all want wonderful things in our lives but if I have to sell a kidney to afford your Christmas present it's not gonna work! If you have kids or a ex, you have some drama in your life. Sometimes it's ok to eat food that's bad for you, yes it's important to eat right but a dish of ice cream ain't gonna kill you. I don't judge others or care to be judged. Sometimes spending time apart is ok, we don't have to be connected at the hip. Yes I could or need to drop a few, I have gray hair, and a few scars, I guess you could call me seasoned. What can I say I have lived a great life with only a few regrets...Ok now the nice version. Honesty is so important, it's the foundation for true love. You can tell the truth without being so blunt it hurts someone you care about. I work hard and want the best for my partner, but not at the expense of our relationship. Money seems to cause fights if you are foolish with it. We all have baggage and scars in our lives, it's ok we have a past relationships and a history, but it is about the future that's why we are here. I am fortunate to get along with my ex-wife and have great kids. My 15 year old son lives with me, he is a gentleman and very respectful to others. I like to eat right but it's ok to indulge, I think it's natural to occasionally enjoy a guilty pleasure. I am passive but protective of others, I believe God gave each of us a purpose and we live our lives on how he intended and the best we know how. The last thing is trust each other, just knowing that when we are apart I will be thinking about you and looking forward to the next time i get yo see you. Just get to talk over coffee or a meal, maybe walk at the zoo. Really in the big picture I always consider the first date an interview for the second... Relax be ourselves we will know if everything clicks

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tyrone

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    I understand some guys on the internet are not all they say they are but I assure you I am real. I don't like games unless they come with a rule book lol. I am a compassionate man, spiritual which means I try to treat everyone like I want to be treated and am not concerned with things that are out of my control. I do the next right thing and life is good. A lot of people these days are looking for DRAMA FREE, Well I don't believe that is living life. Life has drama. Parents, friends and others die. Bosses and work can cause stress, and the best of relationships have arguments. That's life. You can stick your head in the sand but its hard to take care of these problems if you just pretend they don't exist. I choose to deal with them,. Just an observation lol. In order to actually get to a first date we need to talk,........... like on the phone lol. I know it has been awhile since I dated but honestly getting a phone number now is like pulling teeth. Are guys that bad that they harass you at all hours of the night and day? Really?There is a block for most phones now. I am a patient man but weeks of e-mailing a woman that state they want to meet?. You should want to talk too. What if I snort when I laugh? lol *snort, snort*PS outter islands, Kona side, and women just looking for friends I understand this.

  • Michel

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    I love romance, public displays of affection, and would love to make mid-day telephone calls just to say, "I'm thinking about you".For me the ultimate, priceless, never ending happiness is genuine friendship and companionship leading to emotional, spiritual and physical intimacy between a man and a woman.I know the true treasures of life are the ones that are free, such as loyalty, stability and lasting love. Happiness for me is watching God's new day;; my Best Friend, my Love. At night, walking along the beach, holding your hand and looking into your beautiful moonlit eyes, the windows to our soul. Isn't it great to have the desire to bring that dream to reality. I am kind, affectionate, romantic, honest, loyal, genuine, considerate, a good listener and a great communicator. A gentleman, with integrity and family values. I'm Playful with a sense of humor. I am strong yet gentle, a man of 'Steel and Velvet'. I'm in search for that very special lady with shared morals, faith based values and mutual feelings about life and each other. I'm looking for a very special woman, filled with Love. Intelligent, genuine, patient, compassionate and caring. A kind heart and gentle soul. A true lady with integrity. A woman filled with passion for life, love and laughter, with warmth in her heart and a light in her eyes. A woman I could dance to the end of Love. Things I enjoy are fun and spontaneous adventure with lots and lots of laughter. I like to travel to new and interesting destinations. I lead a healthy active lifestyle and keep myself physically fit. I play golf, tennis, roller blade, workout, snow ski and I like to dance including Ballroom, Disco and Latin. I like to go to the movies, the beach, art and craft festivals, performing Arts, romantic candlelit dining on the water, concerts with all kinds of music. Simply, Love to me is the 'desire' to bring the most good, happiness, joy and adventure to another and willing to do anything within their power to bring that about. Being ‘in-Love' is a friendship on fire.; you do have to melt the chocolate so that’s cooking…right? Reservations are what I make best; where did I here that before? I love the ocean and playing in the waves. On a rainy day when we can't go out and play, watch a good movie cuddled up with you. My business allows me to live anywhere on Earth except Antarctica. I’Even though that special woman and I are searching for one another, I realize that mysterious element called chemistry needs to be present for both of us. One can never have enough friends and as my new friend you would be a gift and cherished.I believe that every soul has it's mate...finding our soul mate is like trying to find the brightest star in the heavens. That's why 'Real Love' is one of life's most elusive gifts from God. Peace, Joy and Happiness for you and I wish you well in your search for your brightest star. ~ Thanks for stopping by ~ I am a fun park junkie. We could chat in between the screams on the roller coaster.....play ***holes and then find a shade tree with a little music...or we can start with a quiet tranquil place for an interesting, relaxing, fun conversation.

  • Bentley

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Fun loving guy, easy going, social, loves to dance, see concerts, play and perform music, golf, snow sking, diving, fishing, eating out, traveling, all out door activities. Looking for someone fun, easy going, who I am attracted to, enjoys dining and dancing, night walks on the beach, socializing and get togethers with friends and family. Meet for a drink, something casual.

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