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Sherlock, 46
United States, Maryland, Lusby

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About Me

Hi there. I have my doubts whether anybody actually reads these things, but my experience is that "connection" is really about an actual interpersonal dynamic, rather than selections from a drop-down menu. Soooo, if you can judge matchability on a few thumbnails and a paragraph, youre better at this than i am, but what the hell, gotta start somewhere. Matchability. Hmm. Is that even a word? Ill have to google it. Hopefully a publishing house will look favorably on my work, publish it, and pay me obscene amounts of money to bring it to an eager reading audience, Thats the plan anyway. I seek a charismatic, complex, witty, soulful, and intelligent woman who is beautiful both inside and out, to share adventures, good food, dumb jokes, lots of music, sun, sea, salt, and sultry locales, oh my. I am a voracious reader, and I have traveled almost literally all over the world, but alas, almost exclusively on business. I am fond of most animals, and all small children (i was a cub scout unit leader for years, dig that), enjoy outdoor fun such as surfing, catamaran sailing, snorkeling, paddleboarding, and exercize to keep myself in decent shape so I don't blob out. Hmm. What else? I have an active - if sometimes quirky or, ah, irreverent --like pace) and have a prodigious collection electric guitars which i play loudly and regularly, perhaps to the dismay of my neighbors. Just sayin.For the record. I am not here for casual hookups or booty calls, I'm just not that guy. My intent is to meet a woman whom I really and truly click with, who inspires and challenges me - spiritually, intellectually, physically, and emotionally - to devote myself to and grow with. I know she is out there, and I know she is looking for me too. If you are she, come hither! Manifest yourself, and let's make our own fireworks...Oh, a Post Script... YES the pix are all recent (June of '13 or later) and NO, i'm not prevaricating about my age, or height or marital status. That would be retarded.Drop me a line...maybe we're a match? A latte at Starbucks? Balderdash. That's not a date...that's a lame Pre-date Safety Zone Screening Meeting to make sure youre not meeting a whackjob or a wildebeest. Neccessary perhaps, but usually awkward and not all that fun, and def not a bona fide "date." The DATE comes later, when you decide you like each other, right? So. That said...I think a great first date would be a simple, yet intimate setting. A picnic, for example. Good food, much wine, good convo. Perfect way to acquaint ourselves, yes?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    Thanks for stopping by to read my profile. So far I would have to say I have enjoyed my time here and am planning on staying as long as possible. That being said it would be nice to find someone to spend my time with besides my mother. She is the main reason I am here and attending to her needs will be a primary focus for me now and in the future. I am starting over as it pertains to life. New job , new friends, new enviroment and hopefully a new love life. I left my old life behind and am looking foward to some new adventures and new experiences. The winds of change have turned my life upside down but rather fight it, I have chosen to embrace it and see where it leads. My time is somewhat limited at the moment but that will not always be the case. I hope that anyone who is reading this would understand that I am trying to do what is right for my mother while also trying to rebuild my life at the same time. I am not going to write a bunch of lies to try and impress you. Right now my life is a challenge but I will survive and things will soon get better. Meeting my better half would certainly be a step in that direction. Do I have some baggage...yes...who doesn't? I suppose I should tell a little about myself. I am shy at first until you earn my trust at which time I become fiercly loyal. I am a realist and very pragmatic(my midwestern upbringing). Patience is one of my best qualities as I rarely lose my temper. I am also extremely laid back and don't take myself too seriously. My humor tends to be on the dry side with a bit of sarcasm mixed in. I try to stay informed about the world around me and generally have an opinion(right or wrong). I enjoy learning and try to gain some type of wisdom whenever possible. I like to think of myself as romantic although I am way out of practice in that department. I am selective when it comes to dating but when I do find someone to direct my affection towards I tend to want to spend significant time with that person. The key word in that is time. It does not have to be big events and larges groups of people. To me it is the small things in life that really matter. I want a best friend, lover, confidant and person to spoil all rolled up into one. I could write a whole lot more about that and other subjests but ***'ll save that for anyone interested to learn about later.I should probably also include some things that I am not looking for. Still married or separated sorry but I am not a home wrecker. Excessive drinker or bar fly, again sorry been there done that. Serial dater or scammer find someone else to prey on. Looking for a sugardaddy keep looking because I am wealthy in the mind and heart not in the wallet. Last but not least if you feel the need fix me into what you want as opposed to letting me be ,faults and all, then please find another project.I really don't want end on a negative so I will finish by saying that I am one of the good guys it seems so many women say they desire. I don't cheat, try really hard not to lie. I have not and never will abuse any woman. I am far from perfect but maybe I can at least be a source of joy for someone out there. One thing I can say is that I understand how hard relationships can be. The sooner the better. Get it over with so if there is a second date it can be the new first date since few people are really themselves on a first date.

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

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