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Shirley, 46
United States, Maryland, Cockeysville

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About Me

hopefully you get the seinfeld reference in my headline not that there's anything wrong with that!i see myself as an average, active, happy guy who hasn't yet found the woman to spend the best years of his life with. i am sarcastic, silly, stable and probably immature for my age. but that keeps you young, right?i enjoy playing sand volleyball, the theatre (not musicals though), movies, cooking, spending time with friends, sports, live music and exploring. whether it be a bookstore, or a path off the beaten track, i love to discover new things - especially about myself.i'd like to meet a good friend that i enjoy spending time with. someone who is as cool with drinking a beer at a dive bar, watching a game, playing board games with friends, or getting away for a weekend; as they are with a fancy dinner and a bottle of wine. but of course, with whom there is a mutual physical attraction. you would think that'd be easy to find! i've never been married, but would like to be; and i'm okay with children. i have plenty of nieces and nephews and i've always felt i would be a good dad. take you to meet my parents. their approval is of utmost importance. of course, they don't always feel the same about my dates. mom likes girls like her; and that's the last thing dad likes! hopefully, you realize this is not serious. if not, then there is no sense in us dating. actually, a low-key evening, perhaps over drinks, having a conversation and getting all the preliminary questions answered. you know the ones, like; how long ago was your photo taken? any restraining orders? are those real? ideally, i'd choose bowling. it happens to be a great first date. just ask me and i'll explain.of course, let's start with a couple of ***, maybe a chat, a phone call, etc. so it's not like we're going on a blind date. looking for a date this weekend. first one to *** answer to this question, will be asked to join me.would rather be seen by one stranger, totally naked, while taking a shower; or have your skirt ripped off by an escalator at a crowded mall?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making Music Japanese Korean Family & Kids History Ice Hockey
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