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United States, Maryland, Berlin

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Earlier, I dated some of the most sought after women ... not because I was handsome or rich. I was merely fun, witty and romantic. Yes, it was long ago ... however, I am still the same ... and I would argue much better. Since then I learned how to build and enjoy a long term relationship ... some of my lessons learned include:• Communication is key - at all times with as much honesty as possible• Acknowledging and sharing your feelings is the only hope for true growth• Your mate is not responsible for your happiness - they are there to share it with• Keep your mate safe at night ... it is imperative to keep the seat wiped clean and down • Don't worry about the small stuff - the toilet paper can unroll either over or underSo here is my wish list for my next and final life mate (Top ***non-negotiable …) 1. Trustworthy and loyal – will prize our relationship over everything else2. Primarily a Giver vs Taker – compassionate, kind and wanting to please others 3. Pursuing their best self – through things like meditation, yoga, self help books, religion, etc.4. Sense of Humor – can laugh at me, herself and most any situation – thinks I am funny5. Physically affectionate – loves to cuddle and hold hands - even when we are oldNext 5 … okay, these are negotiable ... but they make for a great list:6. Open - good communicator who can talk/debate without being defensive7. Optimistic - her outlook is generally positive and happy 8. Healthy – takes care of herself by eating well and exercising9. Adventurous – enjoys being active and outgoing … or at least understands my need to be10. Aware - understands the BIG picture of what is going on and is wittyIn general, I have described myself above ... Of course, I am not perfect ... but I am maturing, learning and improving each day. I have traveled throughout the world and learned we are all basically pursuing happiness and self fulfillment. Of course, it is found through self realization and is all the better ... when it is shared with someone special. The question is are you my life mate .. and if so, are you going to reach out for me? If you like tranquility ... How about a walk around the lake at the Lake Shrine -If you like to dance ... How about C&If you like physical challenges ...If you like serene settings ...Whatever your preference ... We can assuredly find a way to share it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Action Thriller War Bowling Snowboarding Volleyball
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  • Franco from Berlin | Man | 49 years old | Aries
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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Ok took a break for a while Iam back still looking.Would just like to say were i come from a man is define by his word i have to laugh after reading some of these profiles i guess west coast values are different. Well let me see would just like to say not here to play games would like to meet someone for a long term relationship I like the outdoors camping fishing when i can find the time.Hang with friends and BBQ love the beach. I like a good glass of wine now and then Not in to the bar thing Don't get me wrong I like a good dive bar now and then like to people watch shoot some pool play darts. But I'm not looking for a woman in a bar .I am a open book ask I will tell you. So there it is guess we will see what happens Good luck to all !! Meet for a drink and see if there is something there.

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  • Casey from Berlin | Man | 48 years old | Leo
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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55

    My business is surrounding myself with people who exude positive energy. If you are a flake, lack integrity, materialistic, don't take good care of yourself or are high-maintenance, then we probably are not a match.I need a tennis partner, badly. Also someone who likes long motorcycle rides and a sense of adventure and the outdoors. I have plenty of camping gear and can make a great breakfast in the middle of nowhere.I am more compatible with someone beyond the party stage in life. Having fun is essential, but alcohol and other substances are not my thing.If I write to you, at least have enough courtesy to respond to someone genuine and sincere. This web site is creepy enough without all of you not exercising good manners. To those polite enough to respond, hats off to you. Taco Tour! No movies. Coffee is cliche but it works. Dive bars are fun if you play billiards with any degree of skill.

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  • Cory from Berlin | Man | 49 years old | Leo
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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I have been lucky in life and now I am looking to be lucky in love. I am a fun loving man who loves to have a good time, and fully believe that laughter truly is the best medicine.However, that said, I do know when and where to be serious and respect that trait in others as well.I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical walk on the beach to something more offbeat like painting in the park. Generally I consider myself to be very open to new experiences and will try almost anything once.Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great time.I look forward to seeing what the future will bring with the right person and am optimistic that I will find someone to spend my life with. However at this time I just want to take things slow and have some fun times with a fantastic woman.

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