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Jadiel, 47
United States, Maryland, Berlin

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Update... ***.Let me start off by saying, "Fair is fair Ladies". I promise to not send pics of me posing shirtless in front of a mirror and I double dog- Scooby-Doo swear never to send you a picture of my... well... you know. I am amazed at the number of women on here who have to specifically ask guys NOT to do that! (seriously, do guys actually want to send pics of their junk??) But yet these same girls have pics on their profile looking all catty and with the " come hither" look on their faces... Pa-leeze! I'm 47 years old and there's a few things I've learned... One, women are stimulated cerebrally, well most of you... unlike us guys, we just want to see something naked! Sorry, it's the truth! Women typically aren't as visually stimulated... we guys need to have/use a brain and be able to put three words together in a sentence that doesn't have to do with hunting, cars, beer or the women we've conquered. But, hey, in all actuality, I'm glad my competition does d-bag things like send inappropriate texts and pics... WHY?? I have 4 kids and 4 grandkids that I love and come before any duck faced, self absorbed vixen. If you and I meet, I do have standards beyond your looks... and so do my kids! My sons just want to know their dad still has "it". My girls on the other hand... well, they want dad to meet someone who is good enough for the guy who taught them how they should be treated. It may or may not be you, but we'll see. Here's what I want as of today... Right now I am looking for female companionship. I love my guy friends but no matter how much I insist, they just won't shave their damn legs! I'd love to find someone who wants to spend time together and do things with. That being said, I’m not looking for casual hook up’s. I repeat… I am NOT looking for hook up’s! I think it's possible for a man and a woman to spend time together and be best friends for as long as it takes to see if each wants to take it further. I am open to the possibility of a serious relationship but it is not a priority for me right now. Here's why...After my divorce just over a year ago, I tried to fill the void in my life by dating... a lot! I joined a few sites and went on a lot first dates, or as I like to call them now, "Meet- Greet- Look for an Escape Route- Run Like Hell"! Trust me ladies, there are weirdos and creeps on both sides of the Gender River.Some of the women I have talked to/met either have ex issues or are 30 pounds heavier than their pics. Not that a little extra weight is bad but please be honest in the beginning! Then, a few of the other women I have talked to on here have a VERY high opinion of themselves... confidence is great, but it reminds me of the girls I went to high school with who were just too good for the average guy. I was that average guy. Funny thing is, at my 25th high school reunion, the guys that got all the girls back then are now fat and bald/ grey! HA! I have all my hair and it's still brown! My 30 year reunion is next summer... can't freakin wait! Seriously, If this doesn't work I'm either going gay or joining one of those sites to get a Russian mail order bride!If you and I meet and we decide we enjoy each other’s company, let's do all the typical "dating" activities, movies, lunches, robbing banks, whatever.. I'm open for anything fun! At first, I don’t have a problem occasionally treating one another to a meal just like any other friends would do, but in the beginning, let's just keep it simple. I'm in no big hurry. By the way, I have an Italian mama who taught me to feed myself so I'm a pretty good cook and I love preparing food for friends, so that could always be a good option to consider as a date as well. Over the past few years I have had a major paradigm shift with my world view. After 27 years of being very religious, I am no longer a person of faith. This caused serious problems in my marriage. That and other factors eventually lead to my divorce. So, if you are very religious and expect me to go to church more than a couple of times a year, I'm probably not the guy for you. This has been a major issue with some of the women I've talked to so I figure it best to mention it now. I can tell you all about my de-conversion sometime if you're interested.I am a proud dad of four grown kids ranging in age between 19 and 27, a 6 year old granddaughter and a 2 year old grandson and two grandbabies on the way. I usually get my granddaughter for a night about every other week so we might have a little tag along from time to time. We love the Zoo and parks so those are always good options. I work union construction so I usually have a serious farmers tan.I like going to antique shops and walking through places like Old St. Charles. I’m a pretty laid back person but I also like to go out for a few drinks once in a while and watch live music with friends or even by myself just to get out of the apartment. They accept a few guests columnist each year to write for just that one year. It wasn't a paid gig but it was fun.’s Hospital. Physically, I’m 5’- 9” and ***pounds. I’m in decent physical shape with an average body type. I mention this because if you like to hike or bike ride and things like that, being in decent shape might be a good idea. Hope to hear from you!” Meet for drinks, coffee or ice cream or rob a bank. I'm open to your suggestions of course.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance Internet Browsing South American Thai Animation Horror Golf Soccer / Football
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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I'm a single parent raising a 12 year old son. I've had custody of my son for the last 6 years. I love life and I live it full, sometimes though it seems as if my hand feels a little empty. Like to meet someone special who would enjoy putting her hand in mine.I enjoy many things, but the outdoors is where I love spending most of my time. Anything we can do outdoors is fine with me.When it all comes down to that one thing, I want what everybody wants. I want to love like there's no tomorrow, and I want to be loved. I want to take my woman in my arms pull her in tight to my chest so our hearts beat as one. I want to place my lips upon her tender skin of her neck and kiss her. I want to give her that one really soft kiss, yeah you know the one, the one that says I LOVE you without even uttering the first word. I want to be able to look at my woman from across the room, and she knows just by the look in my eye that I love her and that I would never stray from her side. Because....yeah,...I'm just in love with her.....just like that.I want a woman that will walk by my side, through the good times and the tough times. I never want my woman walking behind me, because she is a part of me. One in which I would be happy to bathe in the light that radiates around her. One in which I would be soooo proud just to have her in my life.I just want a woman that I can hold in my hand and become lost in the passion. Somebody who will drink from the cup of life with me, and share the time that we have left here.Yeah,.....I guess you could say,.....I'm a passionate man, and equally so a passionate lover.Thought I would share a poem that I wrote back in ***. re-read it recently and thought this may be a place to share it as I'm sure that their are others who feel the same as I do from time to time.Love!!! Curse or Gift????I called unto thee,change my heart.Better or worse,fill with Love.Day in and out,my cries echoed.Seemingly unheard,sent to above.Never knowing,never seeing.Changes gradual,here now I stand.No anger,No hate.Forgiveness so easy,a better man.I called unto thee,send me out.Open the doors,fulfill the will.Many people in my path,work to do.Still carry love,a touch to feel.A blind man you must lead.Searching for love,seems like a joke.I call unto thee,send a flower to me.Precious as gold,one UN-provoked.Day fades to night,month to year.Heart is heavy,love with no end.Empty arms,I drag my feet.Weary:....I shake my fist,when does it begin???Love bounces,like a ball to the wall.It strikes my eye,it stings as I cry.Why give love???Nobody to share!!!It's a dry heave,why dammit....WHY?????So, I call unto thee,hear me please.Send me a dagger,for some needed relief.Place the pointy edge,above my own love.Drive it through,ending my own grief!!UPDATE.......... Life and love never have to be perfect, only good. Something that I've always said and had it echoed back to me just the other day. Yeah, I'm looking for love, as scary as it may seem to be from time to time. Yet as wonderful as it may be the rest of the time. Passion and love seem to have been pushed to the way side, to allow the rest of the crap to filter in. That is a sad thought indeed, Surely their is one tender soul left out there for me to hold, love, cherish, and share my love and passion with. A quiet afternoon doing something wonderful together. Going for a walk, sitting in a park doing a picnic, ....something nice.

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  • Ervin from Berlin | Man | 47 years old | Aquarius
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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    I work hard but play even harder…..I believe in enjoying life. On the weekends I enjoy trying a new restaurant, playing volleyball at the beach, off roading on my motorcycle, watching or playing sports, going to hear live music, or hanging out with friends. I love making other people laugh and enjoy being around people with a good sense of humor. Sorry for those ladies too, wishing I had some pictures of me with my shirt off in the bathroom mirror : (I know you are going to find this hard to believe but I was born and raised in the OC and yet I still know how to use a hammer, repair my car and still dress up nice for dinner. I have a white collar job but I still enjoy fixing and making things with my own hands. I'm friendly and always go out of my way to say hello to people, whether I know them or not.I am that person that you can count on to show up when I say I am. I am not looking for someone who has it all together or who can even keep it all together but someone I can grow together with. I believe in being honest. IF we aren’t a match that is okay but I’d love the opportunity to see if we are.; that's why I volunteer and give back to those who are less fortunate. Now, I am looking for that special someone who I can share my life with and that includes helping others; I think that can bring people together. They say, those who pray together stay together but I think those who serve together also have a relational advantage.As far as traveling, I've been to many other countries and want to see more of the world.***NOTE: Anyone who wants to use my pictures for other sites may do so; I'll take it as a compliment. Some women say coffee is not an option and others say dinner is not an option. I'm totally open to what you feel comfortable with but always try and make it something where we can talk and have fun. It's the dates after the first couple where I can be more creative and it gets really fun.

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