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LouOffline
Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
Everyone on a dating site should read this! "Life offers a surplus of things to do and several ways to meet potential dating partners. A city’s culture of abundance with respect to dating, is further perpetuated by online dating sites that make it easy to meet people that one otherwise may not have met. Ironically, while the option to meet new people increases, it becomes more and more difficult to build a serious relationship.Access to endless people through online platforms makes it difficult to decide who to date. The task of choosing is “debilitating” and once a choice is made, one wonders if it was, in fact the right one. Committing to a person becomes a herculean task, where no matter who one chooses, one will always see someone better. This opportunity cost is not just limited to a potential date – people are stereotypically busy, and have to choose between working, exercise, socializing with friends or, meeting a stranger to see if there is a 'connection'.Similarly, online dating sites create a sense of removal and apathy during the initial stages of the relationship due to the impersonal nature of exchanging inbox messages. Dating requires time and effort, and falling for someone requires repeated human interaction in several forms – making eye contact, laughing together and revealing something about oneself. The more investment one puts in a relationship, the more of a return one can expect to get out of it. A sense of removal means that personal interactions are fewer. Therefore, one has less of an investment in the relationship, and gains less of a return.“How can you get dumped when you were never really involved?”Interesting,isn't it?I saw it on another profile and copy/pasted(I asked her first!),because it explains why people keep coming back on these sites,or never leave them in the first place! Hopefully the awareness of the problem will help us avoid it....But about me :)I'm pretty smart,pretty quiet,kind of sarcastic although not to hurt anyone,see the humor in most situations,don't have a big ego but I'm confident in myself.Never married,have kids that I see regularly,my relationships generally last a long time-not a serial dater at all!I'm busy with work,exercise,renos,family,etc,but want to make time for someone important to me.Like the headline says...Don't be shy to message;it's not a commitment,and I've found that looking at a profile tells you little about how attracted you're going to be to that person in real life! We'll figure it out
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ZechariahOffline
Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
The story goes ......* I work Security ***years) for a major Hotel in the downtown area. * I am trying this site because I work the nightshift and it has slowed down my social life. All you ladys are at work in the day while I am sleeping, lol.* Pics are from last Hotel Party. * I am single with no kids and have never been married.* I am a great listener with no drama issues (which is truly hard to find)* I am not an excessive man but I will enjoy a few cold brews at a concert when I'm feeling the music.* I am fit and work out to maintain a healthy body and mind. * God loving man. Quiet bar or coffee house or a concert.
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MillzbrynfeOffline
Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 26-41
Hi! My name is Millzbrynfe. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Westlake, Louisiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.