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Uthai, 48

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About Me

If you are the type who just wants to send messages endlessly and never make plans to meet in person, then just stop reading right now. Log out, curl up on the couch with a pint of ice cream, and watch the television. If you want to actually meet someone, even if it isn't me, then plan it and do it!!I heard the phrase "nice guys sleep alone" the other day. I have been pondering this and I am curious. Does this mean I have to sleep alone until I am dead or do I have to act like a jerk to find a nice lady to spend some time with?I look like my picture and I am my stated age. I have a job, my own place, and a car. I like to drive, keep up with baseball, go fishing, and I am, of course, open to all sorts of other entertaining things that occur in the area all of the time. I like all things aviation and railroad related, museums, movies, technology, and music. I am also into photography to a certain degree, mostly documenting family and friend events and other things I find interesting. I am here because doing things alone is getting boring and tiresome. I'd like to find someone to share the moment with for the rest of my days on this earth. I am very commitment minded and not into short term relationships or dating around or whatever it is called these days. So, send me a message and let me know what's on your mind. Well, I am not pierced or tattooed, I don't ride a Harley (or any other motorcycle), and I don't listen to country music. I am thinking my chances here are very limited. If you can prove me wrong, I'd love to hear from you!!And now a list of meetville "isms" I find entertaining and amusing:1.Bad photography including blurry pictures, sideways pictures, cellphone in the mirror in front of your face pictures, main profile pictures with other people, cropped pictures with some dude's hand on your shoulder, old pictures, and picture collages.2. Vanity aging: It is obvious you are not 49 years old. Be honest about your age and you will find the guy you want.3. Numbers are not words. Single letters are not words, either.4. Short, one sentence profiles.5. Misspelled words in your profile (spell check, ladies).6. Unhappy looking pictures. You're prettier when you smile!!7. Endless messaging conversations that lead nowhere. This is playing games with someone...8. Getting a link to a webcam site after I message someone, ugh!Of course, there are more. But this is what I have at the moment.Have a great day and thanks for reading!! Let's go out and have a good time! Coffee, drinks, food and perhaps someplace interesting that neither of us has seen before.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Harper

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I am 49 years young and single now for about 3 years. Getting back into the dating scene in search for someone to spend the next half of my life with. Trials and tribulations up to this point has made me appreciate life and grow as a person. I consider myself a happy person ,yet as most of us on here I am missing a partner in crime Lol. I am currently an RGM at a major food company, spent the last year and a half achieving this goal and it has been very rewarding so far. Things I like to do are movies, live music, watching my son race his dirtbike, all types of music, food etc.. I have some great friends and family that I cherish daily. I have been labeled as a giver and not a taker, sometimes too much but this is who I am so I kind of like it. My good friends call me Dr. Phil , I have a good ear and I guess according to them give good advice : ) Having been married before I do miss the companionship of having a partner. I dont consider myself a super romantic type but I am an affectionate type person and like the Public displays, snuggling etc.Despite the reputation of this site I am not looking for a "hookup" . That seems to be an issue with most women's profiles I read . I am looking for a good woman to continue my life with.Update ***I do now have a female roommate , a friend with kids who hit a bump in the road and needed a place to stay for a while . There is no physical or emotional involvement with my roommate now or in the future. I am still 100% single and come and go as I please . Still looking for a serious relationship . This may not be a thing to list on a dating site but I don't like surprises and like to get as much out in the open upfront and it is something I appreciate in return .I am the "nice guy" and want to be that to a good woman . I am almost 50 and being serious is a big deal too me . I have 4 children , 3 grown and a 14 year old son . 2 grandsons . I am in all of their lives and enjoy anytime I get to see them :) I have my youngest son every other weekend etc . I have a good job , car etc . I was married for 19 years , divorced and jumped into another marriage way too fast and *** red flags , so that was a short year and a half wasted . I have no drama with my job, my kids and or exes. I guess if you are still reading this lol then say hello . I have dated a few people off here and it just seems better to get some things out there first and from both parties . A first date for me would depend on how the conversation goes during the internet part of dating, once we both are comfortable I think dinner is a good start to get the initial first look in the books. A nice place not too loud to overtake our conversation and a safe public place to keep her feeling comfortable and safe.

  • Matthew

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I am a fun loving, adventurous, laid back, independent, loyal, trust worthy, active guy looking to connect with a special someone. I'm looking for a person who is active and fit and can keep up with some fun activities. I like to jog, hike, bike, golf, or just take a walk through a park. I work in corporate America, but am looking forward to the day I can start my own business or work for myself.I am looking for someone with solid core values: Honesty, intergrity, trust, shared committment. I won't allow people in my life without these common beliefs. If you have these along with a desire to travel and have fun along the way, we could be a match. I have done many things in my life, but I still feel like my best times are in front of me. I'm not a person who dwells on the past as I am forward looking. I have found it very hard to figure out if there is a connection without meeting in person. I like to take things very slow and find out if we can be friends before anything else. Shoot me a note if you are up for a low pressure glass of wine, dinner, or cup of coffee somewhere. After work drink and then dinner if it seems like we get along and have common things to talk about.

  • Karson

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I'm an honest, easy-going and dedicated father of three looking for an outgoing person with similiar interests. I have a pretty good sense of humor and tend to be a bit of a practical joker. Some have described me as shy while others have described me as very friendly--I guess you can be the judge. I enjoy spending time with my children and am trying my best to be a great dad. I have certainly been blessed in life and really don't tolerate endless negativity; life is too short and it really isn't productive to focus my efforts there.For work, I am a Senior Vice President at a regional financial *** I am dedicated to my work, I am certainly not wedded to my job, which fortunately allows me the time to do the things I like to do. Remember that nobody has a headstone that reads ' I wish I spent more time in the office'. I live my life within the credo of 'Work Hard, Play Hard and Pray Hard' and would love to find someone who lives her life with a similar ethic.One of my biggest strengths is my reliability. If I commit to something, whether at work or outside of work, I can be counted on to follow through. Also, it is absolutely essential for me to have a relationship built on mutual respect and trust. If you have my back, rest assured I'll have yours.I am still working on my front seat of the car self-portrait. Can't decide if I like the 'seatbelt on' or 'seatbelt off' photo. :)

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