SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Rain
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Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
I do not like being single as I'm much better with a co-pilot. I enjoy the companionship of a mate and enjoy being loved just like everyone else. I have enough friends; I'm looking for a relationship. I am looking for a person, not a plaything. I want someone that I can get to know and learn about. I would like someone encouraging and someone that I can encourage. I haven't yet realized my maximum potential although I have accomplished so very much. I'd like someone to be able to see that potential in me and help draw it out. I promise to do the same for you. I actually do business all over the globe, but I will most likely be in one of those places if you are looking for me;)I'm a little different in that I've lived around the world and have experienced the richness of life. It cleanses you. It forces you to face yourself. I know what I want. I know that people matter. I get it now. I'm looking for someone who looks forward to the weekends and/or free-time and their significant other. I'm looking for a person who is not self-absorbed or distracted by the psychological artifacts of other/prior relationships. She must know or at least act like she knows that life is good and that it even gets better when you join forces with a great mate. I trust that you would be loyal and considerate, as well as a good mother, sister or daughter. I provide consideration, love and laughs. I'm a wise ass but I listen intently. I understand that at this stage of life, many eligible women would be single Moms. That's cool. If you are uncomfortable with the traditional Man-Woman, old school, social roles, we should relax and talk about why I think it's important that men should be allowed to be men, and Vice Versa.... Please allow me to be a gentleman; its good for my ego. Let me open a door for you and ask how I might be of service to you. Don't act as if you don't need me. Humor me a bit. Let us men think that you do need us. You may, but you just don't know it yet. I solve problems and fix all those little things that you don't notice until they break. Hey, it's what I do. We all need someone who loves us in a special, personal way. I'd like my date to be less like a Sailor and more like Lady. Let's get to know each other before we let our hair down, shall we? Isn't that part of the fun? I think that my own family (parents and children) are more important to me than a person I have been dating for a few months. That said, I want a real partner and I want it to turn into a passionate love affair. I am realistic, however, and would have to grow into trusting you enough to have you become part of the family. It's nothing personal. Help me by being real and honest. You can further assist me by understanding this. I love fabulolity (I invented that word). We can disagree and we can argue in healthy ways. If we cant come to terms with reasoned debate, we can wrestle for it or put the gloves on!! That actually sounds hot.I also believe that having a cool head during a crisis is a good thing. Take a deep breath. Ok, better. I want to take walks together and talk. It's easy. I'd like to do that without having to think about it or plan it. I'm not a big golfer, although I enjoy watching. I like tourneys, but can't get into the obsession that some of you have with it. If I have six hours to spare, I can think of better ways to enjoy that time together. I guess I could say the same about many things...I once had a comment on here about tattoos...about not displaying big, gaudy, tattoos. Well, as the hate mail piled up, I reconsidered my wording. Let it suffice that I really am not into girls that think its important or cool to show off some giant ridiculous tattoo going down her arm or across her back. Nuff said on that. I don't hate tattoos or hate you for having one. I just don't want it all over your body, k? I'm happy that you have a tasteful little bit of ink on your body in someplace non-conspicuous. I especially couldn't bear to have one on your neck (it's my favorite part of you).Tell the truth, please, about your age and everything else. I hope that doesn't sound too stern. Like anyone else, I can't stand a liar. Yes, telling me that you are 40 when you are really 55 constitutes a heinous lie. I HATE the fact that I have to write this paragraph. I am a gentleman and I am not seeking perfection. However, you lose any right to my chivalry or graciousness the very second that I percieve your inconsistency or lie. Please dont test me.I've had a date tell me (while staring at my very shocked face after telling me the truth about her age, a 15 yr difference): "Well, I dont look 58, everyone tells me that, and if I had told you my real age, you wouldn't have talked to me. Then I'd only get *** dirty old men." This sentence speaks for itself. If you don't get my point, DO NOT contact me.I hope to dispense with this particular venue and advance directly to saying "I have a new girlfriend", but alas, life isnt that easy. Our soul mates are many. Coffee, a drink, a walk in a park...somewhere comfortable for both of us.
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Jake
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Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53
I'm a happy soul that laughs at life and everything in it and for shure myself. People tell me that I am kind, trustworthy, loyal, honest and careing and I half believe them. lol. I am a no drama, no games kind of guy. I'm intelligent but I play the idiot a lot for my own amusement and that of others which is my worse habbit next to smoking. I love life but have simple tastes feeling more at home in the woods then anywhere. I like going out but sometimes find it stressful if I'm not with the right people and dinning out is always great but rather just have a picnic in a pretty seting. I like being close, holding hands and curlling up for movies, TV or for no reason at all. lastly I have a clarity of vision that has been known to unnerve some people and a different veiw on the world, unfiltered I guess. I look past what wants to be seen to what is realy there. Well that's me, if you're interested in plumbing the depth and breath of my soul feel free. I answer all questions honest and openly. a quiet picnic in a pretty local with good conversation followed by the next agreed on venture.
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Johann
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Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
I'm starting a new chapter in life. I see a lot of people say that and sometimes wonder what that means. My schooling is now complete I have 2 degrees. One in Accounting and the other in Business Administration. I'm hoping that this opens up some doors for me all over the country. I'm always on the market for new friends, because you can never have too many true friends. I would like to develop new friendships with people that can just appriciate the fact of enjoying each and every day that the Lord give us. What I put down here is truely me and I'm having trouble understanding why anyone would put down things that they believe people want to hear, and not what they truely want? I've found over the years that I'm best at being me and really don't want to try and be someone else just to impress someone. Seems a lot of people here are trying to be something they're not. I am me, nothing more and nothing less. I have gotten to the point either you like me or you don't, but neither will effect my life in the long run. I am a person which has many layers to me, and if someone takes the time look past the surface. I'm loving, compassionate, sensitive, and strong. It may of taken me all these years but I know from the loss of some dear friends that none of us are promised tomorrow, and I make an effort to make the most of each day that I'm given. I may not always do the right thing but it isn't from lack of trying. With my size I'm a fairly deceptive person, because I do keep a lot more active them most would know by the outside appearance. The cover of a book may get your attention, but it's the pages inbetween that hold on to you. I'm looking to make a future for myself, and it'll happen with or without someone beside me. That is just the cold hard facts. As people say, things are a little sweeter with the right person next to you to share the good and bad times with. GOD is a necessity in my life and if someone has problems with that then I'm probably not the one they want to be around.Hopefully you enjoyed the reading and with this slight understanding of me you are intrigued enough to take a look beyond the cover, and explore the pages in between. I have several of interesting layers below the outer surface, and like the rest of you, this small space doesn't begin to fully describe me. Thank you for taking the time to read it, and just remember the whole story for any of us is never told on the surface. Good Luck Fishing, for what ever you think your mind and soul needs. Have a Blessed life no matter what you decide in life. First date would have to be somewhere that both parties could feel comfortable. I feel it doesn't really matter what you do on the first date unless both parties are comfortable. If they can both be comfortable and themselves then they will both enjoy it and you will find out more about each other, which last time I checked is the objective of the first date.