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Tristen, 48

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About Me

My last few relationships were well let's say building blocks and a new understanding on how you keep moving forward and always keep a sense of humor about yourself and using a hit man is always a last resort...Kidding ladies relax lol. Now that I'm back home and it is a work in progress but close to being finished I can begin to put my energies back into business and maybe some dating which I'm not all too thrilled about for one reason or another. I think at this point in my life you can never have too many female friends. Personally I'd rather invite a woman to the movies or a concert etc etc than another guy specially at my age. Of course the best possible scenario would be to have one very special female friend where there is mutual trust and chemistry which will make the lovers version that much hotter.. My friends are my family just like my two stepsons will always be my family even 13 years removed and through the thick and thin we love we laugh we stay in touch and we try and to not judge but understand. My next relationship will be all about trust honor humor smelling living loving craving and maybe a few unknown languages and some gazing when the other is looking the other way with a sigh remind myself how lucky of a person I am. At times I may come across impatient and for that I apologize I'm new at being single and not all about playing all the games and back and forth messaging. Hopefully we'll find each other on here and have a great laugh about how it all came together and what a jerk I was a first ( her version ) .. Just give me a great story and you will get so sick and tired of all the versions I tell everyone on how we met. But you also love the fact that I'm the romantic and it's my way of reminding us how lucky we were to meet one another. Let's jusT get the first date out of the way and find out if we even like each other so maybe starbucks ? The 2nd date will definitely make up for the lack of thought for the 1st date..I will tell you this it won't be boring unless one of us is doing all the talking...;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chad

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    I'm me. I put in a lot of work. Finding out that that's a bad thing it seems, who would have figured. Also learning i need to be very available, and thats not gonna happen with my schedule. Just goes to show how long it's been since I was in the dating scene. Who knows. At our age, it's more of an interview rather than trying to impress, lol. Like it or not, that's the reality of it.

  • Eleazar

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    Well... I think I'm pretty much a normal guy... LOL.I love road trips, long or short, (meaning a road trip doesn't have to be extravagant)... day or weekend road trips can be just as good... some of the best things are local and right under our noses. I'm up for just about anything... let me in on some of your fun places and I will be glad to return the favor!I love/play music... Live Bands, Concerts, Festivals, are all definitely a fun time for me... I play guitar, I like all types of music... I'm just not real big on Rap, (but I would listen to it... if for nothing else than a cultural experience). Art galleries and museums are a great time as well! BBQ's or cooking in my kitchen with friends and family is probably my #1 way to relax... I believe that both my grandmothers had it right... "Cooking was their therapy" and cooking with friends and family was there "Group Session"... LOL. I also love road trips just specifically to try special eateries or different foods... I'm a "Foodie" for sure. I’m looking for a great friend/mate who wishes and “works at” enjoying a drama free life… A person who "really" likes to make the best out of things and has the ability to focus and recognize their needs and the strength to make others aware of them. I believe communication is the basis of a healthy relationship and the only way to see that both people are striving to get their, (and their partners's) emotional/physical needs met.While, (like most people on this sight), I’m here with the aspiration of finding "Miss Right"... If the worst-case scenario is that I make a new best friend or a travel buddy along the way... then that would be worth the effort as well.I would rather talk than ***, (I can sell myself better that way)... LOL... However I do understand that this is a process and some are a little leery of this on-line thing.If you have any questions... just ask... I will pretty much answer anything.Thanks for checking out, (putting up with) my profile and good luck in your search... Peace.P.S.;Goatee, Foo Man Chu" per some of you ladies giving me so much hell... and yes, I do look 10 years younger... but I will admit... it's taking a little getting used too... and a few people have even asked me to grow them back because the lack of all that "grey hair" made me look to young... Ha Ha... I'm not really sure who the joke is on here. Pictures to come... when I get some...LOL. Maybe go some place or do something neither of us has done... I love an adventure... Then again... just kicking back with a beer and chatting is cool too!

  • Elrod

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    First and foremost I am a happy and easy going person seeking same. I am in search of a co-conspirator, a partner in crime who is more likely to laugh than crumble when the pressure is on. Loyalty, honesty and respect are crucial and rewarded in spades. I'll always have your back. I am open and comunicative and hope for the same in return. I am a confident, hard worker and proud of my accomplishments. I am also well aware that I haven't gotten here on my own. I am in sales an Marketing in the Medical Device industry. It has been super rewarding to bring new treatments to patients and teach physicians how to use the devices. I appreciate the love, support and sacrifices that my friends and family have made for me. I am all heart and fiercely protective of those with a place in my heart. I am affectionate and look for that in my partner.I love to laugh and to make people laugh. I am lighthearted and playful and don't take things too seriously. I love traveling not just for the experience but the shared experience. I love to read, go to movies and concerts. I have a huge appreciation for creativity and expression. I love epic and iconic things...think "Sweet Child of Mine" That said, I love small and intimate equally...the silent acknowledgement of an inside joke, brushing a stray strand of hair from you face. Speaking of intimacy... the physical relationship and the emotional relationship feed each other. Appreciation of that is important.I am spontaneous, optimistic and drama free.I am just as happy in a good burger joint as I am in a 5 star restaurant. I like to have fun but it doesn't have to be a 3 ringed circus all the time. I can be with the right person in relative silence and have a great time. I want us to wear matching smiles and will do my part to keep yours there. I believe when you are with the right person their success is your success, I am looking for a strong, smart, confident woman who is truly happy in her heart of hearts. I am looking for the best of both worlds, someone who's comfortable being with the guys (or even one of the guys) but embraces her femininity. Someone who can go from t-shirt and jeans to ballroom gown, from beer to champagne. When I tease you, you know it's a joke and recognize it as affection. I never want to stop flirting with each other. Summer and Fall are my favorite times of year. I get through winter with comfort food, football, fireplaces, wine...I think you get the picture!I'd like to think I am the real deal but that will be for you to decide... thanks for looking! Dinner/drinks is a nice way to get to know each other a bit. I think it's fun to do something though, like mini golf, pool, bowling...all of which I'm terrible at so I'll provide tons of entertainment!

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