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Alysdair, 47

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About Me

Hello and thank you for reading my profile!Others have described me genuine, positive and caring and intelligent. I believe I am a exciting, well balanced, confident and responsible person. In my opinion, this area is fabulous as it offers a lot of water front areas and has increased in culture over the time I have lived here. I am a finically stable homeowner who has been with the same company for over 20 years as a professional engineer. I am also a licensed soccer coach (currently not coaching, just being a fan of my sons’ teams) and still play soccer in an amateur league. Soccer is a great release for me and keeps everything in balance. I am a very health conscious but not to the point that it becomes a burden. I enjoy most sports, but am not obsessed about them. Would like to meet someone to share special time with. We are all on this site to meet people; some are looking for just friends. Others are seeking a more meaningful relationship. Be up front and things turn out better.Chemistry is very important as I am a very passionate, positive and respectful person. Many have told me that I have a lot to offer and have a great sense of humor. Once a friend (or more) I am very loyal. I would like to find someone who is ready for a relationship, but is willing to slowly build a trust and see what happens from there. It would be great to find that special someone who would like me as much as I like them.I enjoy cooking, good food wine and attending local festivals. I love gardening and home improvement projects (I am currently tiling my master bathroom). Vegetable gardening is also a favorite activity of mine. I love to travel and been to many places in the USA. I enjoy the beach and exploring new large cities. There is so much more to know…just ask!One thing that disappoints me about this site is that many people just delete an *** reading it and never respond in any way. If I take the time to lay out a genuine expression of interest, then a response of some kind is appropriate. Even if it is a “not interested” one. To me it is like walking down a hallway, saying “hello” to someone, and the other person not responding.Also, if you’re out their looking, be open to it. Don’t be scared. Family comes first for me. I have two sons and they are my life right now, but I am looking for that special someone to share my life with as well.If your still separated/attached, scared of a relationship, or too busy to get to know someone, then please be up front and honest about that.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Howie

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    Seeking an intelligent, assertive, and confident woman for a monogamous long term relationship. Prefer someone who can also be nurturing and playful, and would be amenable to being bribed with chocolate and extended back rubs. :-)A little bit about be:I believe that it takes two to tango, or to tear up the dance floor while dancing salsa in a passionate, spontaneous way. I can take a picture of myself without the need of a mirror. Better yet, I can take a picture of both of us without using a mirror. ;- . Last, but not least, I have watched enough submarine movies to have an idea of what to do during plumbing emergencies. :-O Sitting across the table from you, interrogation lamp with a hot ***watt bulb aimed in my direction. Your arms are crossed. Sensing my nervousness you smirk briefly as the live questioning is about to begin. You ask me about work, hobbies, educational background, places I have visited, family. You then steer the conversation towards politics. The first thought that comes to my mind is oh, oh, landmine ahead.’s finances. I respond that I agree that Big Bird is a nice guy, but that lately I have been having doubts about having Cookie Monster as a sugary role model for our youth. Your face turns even more serious. It is obvious that it is not the type of answer that you were looking for. You rearrange yourself in your chair as you prepare to get more intense. While doing this your foot unintentionally touches mine. Sensing an opportunity to break the tension I tap your foot in return, making sure that you realize that it was indeed intentional on my part. I stare back into your gaze in a friendly way. A chill suddenly runs down your spine, and you get butterflies in your stomach. You realize that you haven’t felt this way since those first love dates during your high school years. Shyness overtakes you as you smile and tilt your head down. ***, you use a hand to push your hair over one of your ears. Your sudden shyness proves to be contagious and I succumb to it as well. We alternate between shy glances at each other, and looking down at the table. Now both of us are speechless and nobody is in control. We continue like this for about a minute --glancing, looking down, glancing up again, smiling, even giggling a little. With great effort, you take a deep breath and regain enough of your composure to turn off the interrogation lamp. You remove it off the table and you walk back to the kitchen. Although I’m very curious, I’m still paralyzed in full silly mode and unable to ask you what are you planning to do next. You return with a lit candle, a wine bottle, and two glasses.……

  • Aldford

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    Newly single, not desperate. I enjoy all the fun from movies, comedy clubs, biking, hiking and whatever it takes outdoors. Seek a sexy, spontaneous, loyal and intelligent partner to kick it with.

  • Allyster

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    I am someone who just enjoys life! I have a great career, very independent, enjoy cooking, sports, riding my bike, going to the gym, hanging out with friends and would love to travel more. I am willing to admit that I have never been married nor have I ever been in a really long relationship (Usually scares most off when they hear this)My life isn't overly complicated or difficult to figure out, I am a single guy who has never been married and has never had any kids. I just haven't found the right one.....yet! (No strings attached or skeletons in my closet so to speak)If you find me interesting enough to want to know more about me then I hope to hear back from you. I think a quick coffee or a lunch meeting is a nice and easy way to get to know someone. Definitely not a movie though......nobody talks to one another for an hour and a half.

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