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Ben-oni, 46
United States, Louisiana, Patterson

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About Me

Life is pretty amazing. I have been fortunate to have experienced much and may be just wise enough to know how much more there is to see, do, and accomplish. I am an extremely active person professionally, socially, and physically. While I am proud of my accomplishments, I am quick to laugh at myself or circumstances around me.I'm always on the go and enjoy a good challenge, intellectual, physical or otherwise. I can be a studious thinker, the life of the party or both in any given day. I am complicated and simple at the same time. I am drawn towards the exceptional and the positive in people.I cherish my career, my family and my friends. I, mostly successfully, balance the major aspects of my life and firmly believe my 5 or more days of fitness and physical activity every week helps me excel as a community leader, a father, and a man.So enough with the metaphysical blah, blah, blah. I very much enjoy my play time. I have travelled to most continents, although the pace has slowed down with my responsibilities nearer to home. I backpack annually, play sand volleyball weekly, and organize Sunday flag football games every Fall. In fact, I think I am part Labrador by how much I enjoy any game with a ball and a good sprint or jump. While I can enjoy a quiet time, I prefer a good social event; ranging from charity balls to BBQ pool parties to friends at the lake or a good music festival.After some very serious long term relationships in my life, I am seeking friendship and companionship first and we can see where it goes from there. Of course, a physical connection is a plus and a healthy and fit body is a big part of that, but so is a unique look, a sense of style, or a delightfully confident smile. With respect to your personality, I love a quick wit and if you don't have it, you should at least be receptive to mine!Did I mention that honesty and integrity are essential traits? They are. I try to hold myself to the highest standards. With that in mind, all of my photos are from late ***or ***less than 1 year old). I hope to hear from you soon.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Salsa American Greek Italian Korean Pets Singing
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