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Talmai, 47
United States, Louisiana, Minden

Offline, last seen Sun, 26 Apr 2026 21:47:39

About Me

I'm at a point in my life where I know who I am, where I've come from, and where I'm going. I know myself better now than ever before, and I have the scars to prove it! Ha ha! Not only do I know who I am, but I know the type of person who would most compliment my journey. Settling, in life, in myself, or in others is not something that comes easy to me. Nor do I want it to. I'm a strong, independent, happy and complete man who rarely says no to an adventure. I'm intelligent and logical, but my sense of humor has gotten me into, and out of more trouble than I care to remember. My soul and my mind are well balanced now and share influence over my life equally.I've run a couple of marathons and half marathons, but my knees are encouraging me to find a different hobby lately! I still have to be active and am turning more into a cyclist and enjoying weight training in the gym. I'm a vegetarian but don't let that scare you off. I'm very self sufficient and low maintenance and can find a great meal at any restaurant. Especially if you let me cook for you! I don't push my views or opinions on anyone else and am ultimately tolerant of everyone I meet.I make the distinction between Southern and Country. I'm definitely Southern, but just as definitely NOT Country. LOL. I drive a Jeep but rarely get it stuck in the mud. Don't understand the whole NASCAR thing, but will go to a race with you and cheer on whatever driver you think turns left better than the others. :-) I can listen to country music if it's on, but prefer Indie, alternative or Jazz/Blues. I love the outdoors and would always rather be outside than inside Don't hunt, though (that whole vegetarian thing). At my core, I'm a ultimately a true Southern gentleman. I hold doors open, pull out chairs, moms love me, and I'm always ready with a compliment and a nice word. You are a confident, happy, assertive woman who knows herself intimately. You aren't looking for anyone to define who you are, nor are you looking for a "project boyfriend" that you can complete or fix. You have a good group of friends but a smaller group of people who really know and accept you. You don't need my approval, but want my company.If this strikes a chord in you, we should definitely get together and see if our paths have a parallel flow. It would be nice to have someone to wander with. And as the Buddhist philosophers say, "All who wander are not lost." Hard to describe the perfect first date. For it to be perfect, it needs to be some of me as well as some of you. But for my part, a coffee and people watching at an outdoor cafe sounds fun for a first date. Something casual and low key. Hard to talk at a crowded club or movie theatre.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Watching TV Indian Italian Spanish Action Fantasy War Spirituality
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