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Alfonzo, 50
United States, Louisiana, Minden

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About Me

Hi!Thanks for viewing! If you are looking for someone who is emotionally stable, considerate, comfortable with who he is, will listen to you, is honest, and interested in developing a friendship, eventually a relationship; I may be your guy. I'm optimistic the right "one" is out there for me. Like you, I have seen the good, and bad online dating has to offer. So, a little about me and what I am looking for in a date.Me:I am a single dad with kids that live with me. I welcome the idea of meeting someone who has children because we share the common bond of children, and the responsibilities that come with being good parents. I do believe time for ourselves are essential for our sanity! Of course I wouldn't exclude someone who did not have children; just important you know this about me. BTW- Im not looking for someone to be the mother of my children. Rather, someone to become part of my life, eventually my family, and I me for yours.I enjoy live music, movies, conversation; in my line of work being up on current events is a plus, so I feel comfortable discussing everything from politics to religion, world peace, and pop culture. The last one with help from my daughters! LOLI have career and have been with the same company for ten years. I enjoy what I do for a living. I like going out on occasion, you are more likely to see me on the patio with friends rather than a club. I enjoy the outdoors; fishing, boating, and I play golf. I think a round of golf would be a great first date if you play! Your thoughts?I have great friends and family. I can't emphasize the importance of both in my life. Disclaimer: Since it seems to be a prevalent statement from your profiles; I am not hung up on my ex, I am divorced and single. You: You are looking for a man who isn't in to games, (hate that word, but haven't come up with a better one) is honest, dependable, not afraid to share, has a sense of humor, and is fun to be around.You have a realistic view of the world and people. We all have "pasts", how we grow and persevere is most important.You are looking for an emotional as well as physical attraction. I will say the one consistent thing I've heard after meeting someone is I look better in person than my pictures! LOL Makes me wonder what I look like to you………...You are ready for a monogamous relationship. I say this regarding someone who isn't looking for a commitment. In my view, you both decide when to be "exclusive", trust is essential………… and it works both ways!Thanks for reading up on me. If you have any question or feedback, I would like to hear from you!B

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

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