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Lance, 46

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About Me

I'm a decent looking 40something I've been told. In pretty good shape for my age. Looking to improve on that. I put that I'm interested in a relationship. Beginning to have my doubts about achieving that goal here. Seems like the type of women I'm attracted to on here don't reciprocate an interest in me. A hint as to what I like would be what appears in your profile pic. That'd be what I'm attracted to. So having said that.....As a child, I played with the darker colors in the crayola box. There's another hint.Said disclaimer: I'm attracted to black women and Latinas. That doesn't mean I'm exclusive to those women. Just my preference. Always has been. Keep it simple. A drink. It ain't that hard.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bob

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 26-40

    Hi! My name is Bob. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Mamou, Louisiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Britton

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I consider life an adventure , I tend to be more liberal than conservative; however I do have old fashioned values. I believe you are responsible for 50 percent of what happens in any relationship you’re in. I believe everything happens for a reason and if you’re lucky you might be able to understand the reason. I live in the country; I enjoy the solitude and open spaces, eating breakfast outside, seeing the moon and stars without city lights, watching chickens run around. I’m a creative thinker with a vivid imagination that allows me to be comfortable doing something I love. When it comes to music, the energy of live is always better; I like rock, blues, country and other types. I really enjoy dancing with a good partner, even a not so good partner. I think if you can’t be happy with yourself; having everything won’t help. I walk on the right side of a woman when walking on the street; I also enjoy opening doors for her. I think having money is helpful, but it won't buy good taste. I’d like to find someone I can balance with, someone that has their own interests and ideas, they don’t necessarily need to be the same things I like, maybe some of the opposite, but things we can enjoy together. I am attracted to the tomboy type, a little wild and crazy maybe or at least open minded, someone that likes getting their hands dirty, I also appreciate a woman that takes care of herself and can dress for a night out when she wants to. She should be an animal lover, have compassion, someone that wants to be a best friend and lover, someone that enjoys having an in depth conversation about something meaningful, I need to be with someone that can stimulate me intellectually as well as physically. I probably wouldn't get along with someone that smokes a lot. Please feel free to send me a message if you think we have some things in common. Whatever seems right, something simple, walk in the park, coffee, play pool, I think you know farily quickly if you feel comfortable with someone.

  • Carrol

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Hello! And, thanks for stopping by! I am looking for someone who won't "give it up" so quickly. I am unable to get physically intimate until I am emotionally intimate (in love). Even kissing, until I am really into someone, is uncomfortable for me. To save you time, and weed me out (or in) ... Physically, I am a tall, handsome man with strong, masculine features. However, I do NOT have an "athletic build," and am NOT a skinny guy. 6'2" ***lbs. But, I don't consider myself "fat" either. More weeding: say YES or NO to the following 8 points ... YOU and I both: 1) consider Spirituality (not Religion) a priority in Life, 2) enjoy deep philosophical discussions, 3) are Liberal or Libertarian politically (not Right-Wing), 4) love Music and the Arts, 5) know that a Relationship, Money or ANYTHING outside of ourselves will NOT make us happy. 6) have worked out our "demons" and carry light baggage. 7) understand that a relationship takes continual work, and that simply "falling in love" is just the beginning stage, and won't carry the relationship. 8) care about the unnecessary suffering on the entire planet, and especially abhor any kind of war or violence ... and are motivated to take action to make a difference. I am attracted to women who are confident, outgoing, and happy. She is healthy physically, mentally and spiritually. If you know about the Myers-% of the population, and mostly women at that). My ideal match is ENFJ, but ESFJ is also a good match. WHAT ARE YOU? Spirituality and Self Improvement are high on my list of priorities, along with Family and Friends. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a fundamentalist Christian, or fundamentalist anything. I believe that all paths are valid, and that all Gods are the right one. I'm studying A Course in Miracles, which is closest to my beliefs (my spirituality is always evolving). I like the Eastern Philosophies, especially Advaita Vedanta. I practice meditation daily. I am SUPER laid-back, comfortable in my own skin, grateful for all of life, always looking for the good, etc. I don't do drama, complaining, blaming, negativity or victim- In a relationship, it's not a ***thing for me ... I say that I am at the cause of 100% ... I take full responsibility for all of it. That may not necessarily be "the truth" that I am responsible, but it's the most powerful place for me to stand. My Love Language is Physical Touch. What's yours? When I find myself thinking a complaint, I deal with it as my own issue, then I'll talk it over with you, without blaming or making you wrong ... it's my issue. But, talking about it is growth for both of us. ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ DEAL BREAKERS for me: Untreated Personality Disorders like Borderline, or Bipolar; extreme right politically; extreme insecurity; close-mindedness to differing views; non-compassion for people or animals; extreme sports watching; any drug use or excessive alcohol; gold-diggers (if you still believe that money will get you what you want). What I like in a woman: #***HAPPINESS, Outgoing, Easy-going, Liberal, Confident, Fun, Smiles a lot, Grateful, Optimistic, Caring, Silly, Playful, Enthusiastic, Energetic, Spiritual, Transparent (open/honest), Communicative (not afraid to say the truth). Coffee or a drink. Someplace quiet where we can talk. Not a dinner on the first meeting ... just enough time to see if we want a real date or not.

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