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Carrol, 49
United States, Louisiana, Mamou

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About Me

Hello! And, thanks for stopping by! I am looking for someone who won't "give it up" so quickly. I am unable to get physically intimate until I am emotionally intimate (in love). Even kissing, until I am really into someone, is uncomfortable for me. To save you time, and weed me out (or in) ... Physically, I am a tall, handsome man with strong, masculine features. However, I do NOT have an "athletic build," and am NOT a skinny guy. 6'2" ***lbs. But, I don't consider myself "fat" either. More weeding: say YES or NO to the following 8 points ... YOU and I both: 1) consider Spirituality (not Religion) a priority in Life, 2) enjoy deep philosophical discussions, 3) are Liberal or Libertarian politically (not Right-Wing), 4) love Music and the Arts, 5) know that a Relationship, Money or ANYTHING outside of ourselves will NOT make us happy. 6) have worked out our "demons" and carry light baggage. 7) understand that a relationship takes continual work, and that simply "falling in love" is just the beginning stage, and won't carry the relationship. 8) care about the unnecessary suffering on the entire planet, and especially abhor any kind of war or violence ... and are motivated to take action to make a difference. I am attracted to women who are confident, outgoing, and happy. She is healthy physically, mentally and spiritually. If you know about the Myers-% of the population, and mostly women at that). My ideal match is ENFJ, but ESFJ is also a good match. WHAT ARE YOU? Spirituality and Self Improvement are high on my list of priorities, along with Family and Friends. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a fundamentalist Christian, or fundamentalist anything. I believe that all paths are valid, and that all Gods are the right one. I'm studying A Course in Miracles, which is closest to my beliefs (my spirituality is always evolving). I like the Eastern Philosophies, especially Advaita Vedanta. I practice meditation daily. I am SUPER laid-back, comfortable in my own skin, grateful for all of life, always looking for the good, etc. I don't do drama, complaining, blaming, negativity or victim- In a relationship, it's not a ***thing for me ... I say that I am at the cause of 100% ... I take full responsibility for all of it. That may not necessarily be "the truth" that I am responsible, but it's the most powerful place for me to stand. My Love Language is Physical Touch. What's yours? When I find myself thinking a complaint, I deal with it as my own issue, then I'll talk it over with you, without blaming or making you wrong ... it's my issue. But, talking about it is growth for both of us. ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ DEAL BREAKERS for me: Untreated Personality Disorders like Borderline, or Bipolar; extreme right politically; extreme insecurity; close-mindedness to differing views; non-compassion for people or animals; extreme sports watching; any drug use or excessive alcohol; gold-diggers (if you still believe that money will get you what you want). What I like in a woman: #***HAPPINESS, Outgoing, Easy-going, Liberal, Confident, Fun, Smiles a lot, Grateful, Optimistic, Caring, Silly, Playful, Enthusiastic, Energetic, Spiritual, Transparent (open/honest), Communicative (not afraid to say the truth). Coffee or a drink. Someplace quiet where we can talk. Not a dinner on the first meeting ... just enough time to see if we want a real date or not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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