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Emmett, 47
United States, Louisiana, Kinder

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But you decided to read anyway. I warned you, so you have no one but yourself to blame."From quiet homes and first beginning, out to the undiscovered ends, there's nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends." Hilaire BellochA door has opened and I'm learning there's more on the other side than I allowed myself to imagine when a partner and I were trying to cope with a marriage that should have been a friendship.I want to explore the world again with you. I would like a relationship that includes intimacy, and sexual and physical love. I miss the scent and touch of a woman, her desire and need. I adore a woman's pleasure more than my own. If you're not into intimacy and sexuality, and turning your man on because you like to, I can't live without that magic interplay.I would like to find someone I cherish and adore. And she would want to be adored.Its not realistic to feel that straight away, though how awesome if it was. And a date just for fun (and good practice!) would be great.Maybe you and I can give each other something we need. I adore women and have a lot to give. If you're alone and would like a man for company, and this crazy profile somehow appeals to you, please send a note. I also enjoy using everything I've learned about repairing and building things to help out around a home. Recovered intellectual, recovered vegetarian....Read all of Anais Nin's autobiography by twenty while doing silly things with fast cars and bikes. "Fast cars and whisky, long-legged girls and fun" Johnny CashYou can't understand Shakespeare when too young.I don't mind if you don't shave.Always carry a towel.Animals like me.)Descartes doesn't seem as clever as everyone makes him out to be if you read past the first bit.I was always the one friends counted on to get them home. (Very slowly) Miss farming and will find my way back soon, on a small scale.I can do so many things, but sometimes don't know what to do first.I like women who can be lovingly assertive when they need to be. When women are strong willed and tell me what to do, it feels good and I don't know why, even though I am strong willed myself. I've read about FLR and FLA relationships and I don't completely understand why, but there is something that fascinates me. Maybe it's just an interest in things being more balanced. I'm strong willed and would like someone equally so. If it didn't enrichen a relationship I'd drop anything like a shot. But with the right partner it could be an awesome and joyful journey. I got to see him read!I read less now than I did when young and was looking for answers. Jung said something about reaching middle age as a turning point.Fly airplanes for work among other things, and work with super high tech zillion dollar gizmos, have a professional certification, but don't have to look like I do. Dropped out of college five times. May have been six. I don't remember.I have a wry sense of humor that quietly comes out in everything if you're listening, but not in this profile....I have entertained the possiblility that the humor is actually not at all wry, it may be that it just isn't very funny. All the caring and love you can give can't change someone into wanting an intimate and sexual relationship, if for private reaons they don't and can't. As a young man I believed I could heal harm done with the care and committment of marriage. But you can't. And if something is not in someone's essential nature, you shouldn't. So a marriage is finishing the transition into something like the brother and sister we were in the first place.Twenty years ago I made a promise I'm going to keep. Because of the rural life a partner chose to lead with me *** developing her career, I'm determined to see her housed, through her schooling, and safely reestablished in a new career while divorced.We both want to see each other happy. She wants me to have a real partner and find a soul mate, and I want her to finish school. You have to know she is my friend.I think about Joy and sex and love and roles. Sexuality and eroticism, Orgasm, Denial, Chastity, Desire, Need, Hunger, Gender, Masculinity and Strength, Feminism, What the sexes gained, What they lost, Men's sad portrayal in media, Knights and Queens, and Philosopher Kings.I think about how it happened that women shouldn't have shape and curves, and how much harm that's caused. A woman's scent is intoxicating but its made embarrasing to sweat.I think about the miracle of a woman's pleasure, and the desire and need created by being chaste only to her.Ethics and Morality, and how all things turn out in ways we couldn't have imagined.Family and Fathers. I regretted not having the experience of passing on so much of what I learned. Has that door opened too.Will my love of women who are sometimes strong and assertive, make women think that I'm not strong and assertive in life, in decisions, and in the bedroom. Will a woman think I won't be strong when she needs it. I'm increasingly skeptical of spending too much time *** and forth. I listen to women, really anyone I'm talking with *** I think an internet conversation can get deep fast, but it really needs to translate into something that feels good in the real world. You and I are probably smart enough to have a good chat through *** it isn't just words and abstract thoughts. If there's some mutual interest, let's go have a glass of wine or beer, or coffee, or whatever you prefer, in a place you are comfortable in. You pick it. I can pick something another time. The worst that happens is a nice conversation between good people and interest in seeing each other again or not. No biggie. I can tell you about the crazy things I shouldn't have put in a profile, and you can talk for hoursa if you like. I'd like to hear what you have to say.Plus its good practice for us. Let's go have a fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore American British Canadian German Portuguese Crime Romance Archery Nascar Tennis
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