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Henry, 49
United States, Louisiana, Kaplan

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I'm twice divorced with one child, a 15 year old son from my second marriage. My son and his mom live together out of town but I see him every other weekend and more when I can. My ex and I are over our differences and have developed mutual respect and a positive and supportive environment for our child to grow. I've dated once in the past 13 years. It didnt work out for various reasons, mainly distance. In between Ive met many friends and learned to be content with the freedoms that one can expect with being single. I guess the one thing that kept me from yearning for companionship was my best friend whom I called and or wrote sometimes daily, sometimes weekly, but she was always there. She listened and never judged, we taught each other so much because of our fearless openness about feelings and hardships and joys. We truly loved one another for years before we even shared pictures! I was happy and content, or so I thought, until that day when she wasn't there anymore. It's personal, but it was necessary. It's still painful to think about. It was like a death, or another divorce. That relationship changed me forever. Im not looking for a replacement pen pal. I'm looking for someone smart and self empowered who cares about other people, and who isn't racist or a jealous person. Im looking for someone who doesn't judge and with the ability to have fun and not let the small stuff in. A good listener and not quick to offer the solution as Ive been taught. Im looking for someone who likes home cooked meals and enjoys the simple things in life and who can also appreciate the extravagant for what it has to offer. Someone who isn't DONE yet, because there is so much to explore. No, Im not poor, but I've learned a lot. Money can be used for so many more things than self indulgence. i had it all once, three homes, a career as a Private Investigator, toys, expensive clothes, vacations, and the year that rocked my world ***, my son was born, my father died, my wife chose to leave, and my business was stolen by my own employees/friends. At that moment, at my lowest, i began my slow recovery. I sold everything I built and earned, and went on a quest to find a career that brought me happiness. I am artistic and love music and writing. I dug deeper in my artistic side and found work in decorative concrete where after a short time my new skills and creations were limited only by my imagination. 15 years later I have my own company and I have many more passions and dreams to explore. Financially I'm thinking of college for my boy and retirement for me. I want to make glass sculptures and build clocks out of stones. i rent a small studio where i live and have a nice car and a beautiful motorcycle. Im honest, loyal, a hopeless romantic, an artist, a hobby Chef, and a neat freak. I don't know much about mechanics other than changing brakes or adding fluids, and Im not into sports much either although i like to watch occasionally when I have time with the guys. I am a Giants baseball fan and a .49er fan forever. I love people, I will stand up and offer my seat to the pregnant and or the elderly, help a friend pay bills, or buy gas for a stranded stranger. I am not violent, never had to be because i heard I'm kind of intimidating to most, but I will not tollerate abuse, physical or verbal, towards me, my friends or even between complete strangers. I like Rock and Roll and play bass in two seperate bands. One is a tribute to the Stone Temple Pilots and the other for a band called The Cure. its just a hobbie, not a lifestyle so Im not going on tours nor coming home every night at 3 am. Only 2 times a month. I love long rides on my Harley, but I'm not a biker. (sorry Leatherandlacy***lol!. the necklace I have is a gift from my son. It has no power or meaning although I do joke that its a fancy life alert for when I fall and cant get up. I work very hard, but out of town seldom. When out of town on work assignments, I think of it as a mini vacation and explore nearby parks lakes or streams, not cruise bars. I have enjoyed my freedoms and don't feel like there is really anything I need to change, but lately I have no one to share experiences or laugh with; and im talking about the kind you can only get from the female perspective. I have to have mutual attraction, age is not really an issue. I'm open for change, new ideas, experiences, and beliefs, but don't expect me to change everything. I think thats what life is all about, the experiences, so its not necessary to like the same things as I do, just be yourself and it will happen, or not. oh, i almost forgot, I have a wicked sense of humor and like someone who can be classy when they need to be, but can take and deliver a joke like a drunken sailor too. I can be very sarcastic and enjoy playful teasing and I can take it too. But Im also respectful and honest. I miss my friend, and that will never be replaced, and I would never compare my new friend when I find her. Thanks to my friend, I know what I want. I never knew how important and how fulfilling that entire experience was till now. If your a "man eater", hell, take a shot! I'll either tame you, or make you wish you could be. I love playing, teasing, stretching the imagination and light fantasy, nothing extreme, but again, im not a conformist and Im open to change and new ideas. Everything is natural and everything works thanks to a healthy lifestyle and diet and exercise. My work is my joy, i love taking care of people especially my customers. My word is my oath and my promises are sacred. I tell it like it is, however, I have also lied to get out of situations so as not to hurt another's feelings. maybe thats bad? so if i say, "I'm gay!" It really means, "I like you but youre not my type so lets go shoe shopping or something cause it ain't going any further than a hand shake." I just cant be mean and point out reasons for my discontent. I despise confrontation and arguing. I know they say its healthy but i will just wave a white flag and surrender on most topics or politely leave until things cool down, of course to come back and resolve the issue with a respectful tone. My hobbies are fishing, cooking, hiking, bike riding, being outdoors, the ocean, camping, long drives, live music, playing music, long motorcycle rides, hot tubs, going dancing, restaraunts, movies, visiting family and close friends, helping strangers, inventing, as well as staying in with a movie and a blanket, and sitting around a fire pit with a glass of wine at night. It sure would be nice to have some close intimate company and make someone feel special again im really unsure until we meet and compare some interests or likes, but i like to surprise my date with something. it may be simple or if i really like you, spectacular.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Dance French Korean Middle Eastern Thriller
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