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Jabari, 49

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About Me

I'm sort of the Renaissance type of man with interests ranging from music, the Symphony, theater, architecture and museums to camping, hiking and canoeing. I also have almost completely remodeled my home... new cabinets, put a new bathroom in, and laid wood flooring throughout, etc. So I guess it would be fair to say I can dress up in a tux or dress down into jeans and a t-shirt. I am a trained musician; however, I work in the software field. I am a faithful friend who will give it to you straight. I have a good career, own my own home, am emotionally stable and mature and even have three wonderful dogs. Love going to sporting events and ESP hockey games Warning...if you ask my opinion you WILL get it. Also, communication and honesty are huge to me. I'm a man... I can handle anything you tell me... just don't lie about it even if you think you will hurt me by telling me. One of the things I learned from my last relationship is it's better to know up front than to find out years after the fact.So, other than that stuff... I love spending time with friends, family and my dogs. I'm not "into" the bar scene; although, I would also say I have nothing against it. A good first date to me usually starts at a coffee/tea bistro type of place to see if there is chemistry. After that, anything from watching an episode of Downton Abbey to an amusement park, to dinner, to a movie, to a night at the symphony or opera, to just sitting and talking to going out for a beer or scotch, sitting in the pool or hot tub.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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