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Selah, 49

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About Me

Well not real sure how to start. I am a fun, patient, and easy going individual who likes to keep an open mind. My interests include running, gardening, DIY projects around the house, travel etc, etc. My guilty pleasures include reality TV and zombies (WALKING DEAD). I like to keep an open, non judgmental mind when getting to know someone. I demand a sense of humor in a partner because I love to laugh. I also enjoy philosophizing about life. I am proud of my personal and professional achievements and have enough experience to realize that trust, respect and love are three of the important aspects of a relationship. Obtaining a relationship with that someone special keeps coming to the top of my list HMM....I would love to meet up at a place like a museum, art show, spending time getting to know each other while philosophizing about the things we are looking at...followed with a nice dinner at a romantic restaurant then maybe followed by either home for a nightcap or dancing at a local fun hotspot.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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  • Arnoldo

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    love pets all types,looking for the right guy some to spend time with and,travel with. dinner and coffee

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