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Tobiah, 46

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About Me

Ambitious, goal oriented, athletic, and driven. I like to succeed in everything I do. I like sports of all types, cooking, hanging out with friends and travel. Like going on a date with the guy I am seeing and think alone time is important. When dating I am amorous and a tiger and need someone willing to keep up and tame me. Life is short and looking for someone who has the same drive and life's goals.Do you find that the first thing people want to know is how big is your member? What happened to getting to know someone and building a friendship?I am old fashioned guy. I think that nothing in life is worth having if you don't make a good friend. I think that yes it is important if you are dating to have physical attraction however I think that you can not always judge a book by it's cover. I know I have been told more than once I look better in person than in my pictures and I hate taking a picture.So what can I tell you that sums me up? I value honesty. I want honest people in my life. In all aspect of it. I do not believe that you can meet someone and fall head over heals in love. I believe that the best lovers are also your best friend. I think it is important to have things in common. I also feel that it is important to have a life and to be able to feel comfortable being who you are.I believe that it is important to put family first. I am very close to my family and if I were dating someone I would want them to value family like I do. I want my prospective partner to also want to share the good, the bad, and the ugly. To wake up in the morning and the first thing you want to do is kiss the man next to you and tell him you love him. To leave little notes in his pants pocket so when he goes for his wallet he gets it. To surprise him with a mystery trip somewhere. To enjoy cuddling, and hanging out at the house, but to be just as comfortable going to dinner with friends.If this sounds like you we should talk. What do you have to lose? What do you gain? A friend who will always be there for you. Someone what will be a rock, as well as your friend.If you read this far something must have brought you in. Now just send an *** see if we connect on an friendship level.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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