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Tobiah, 46

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About Me

Ambitious, goal oriented, athletic, and driven. I like to succeed in everything I do. I like sports of all types, cooking, hanging out with friends and travel. Like going on a date with the guy I am seeing and think alone time is important. When dating I am amorous and a tiger and need someone willing to keep up and tame me. Life is short and looking for someone who has the same drive and life's goals.Do you find that the first thing people want to know is how big is your member? What happened to getting to know someone and building a friendship?I am old fashioned guy. I think that nothing in life is worth having if you don't make a good friend. I think that yes it is important if you are dating to have physical attraction however I think that you can not always judge a book by it's cover. I know I have been told more than once I look better in person than in my pictures and I hate taking a picture.So what can I tell you that sums me up? I value honesty. I want honest people in my life. In all aspect of it. I do not believe that you can meet someone and fall head over heals in love. I believe that the best lovers are also your best friend. I think it is important to have things in common. I also feel that it is important to have a life and to be able to feel comfortable being who you are.I believe that it is important to put family first. I am very close to my family and if I were dating someone I would want them to value family like I do. I want my prospective partner to also want to share the good, the bad, and the ugly. To wake up in the morning and the first thing you want to do is kiss the man next to you and tell him you love him. To leave little notes in his pants pocket so when he goes for his wallet he gets it. To surprise him with a mystery trip somewhere. To enjoy cuddling, and hanging out at the house, but to be just as comfortable going to dinner with friends.If this sounds like you we should talk. What do you have to lose? What do you gain? A friend who will always be there for you. Someone what will be a rock, as well as your friend.If you read this far something must have brought you in. Now just send an *** see if we connect on an friendship level.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Quincey

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    If you like what I have to say below let me know if you'd like to talk. My #1 Priority right now is to be a BEST FRIEND to myself and some day to that special man. Healthy lifestyle is important to me. Staying active, eating healthy and creating an expansive, joyful life!I enjoy both being engaged in a meaningful career and with planning adventures. I'm interested in dating and eventually finding someone to share in life's adventures. I enjoy people from a variety of backgrounds and interests. I value being generous with my life and being open with what is on my heart. My life-long interest in healing arts and spirituality has evolved into providing unique both conventional and unconventional services to health care organizations and others.Some things of interest to me and about me:"We all have moments that require us to stand in the center of ourselves, and know who we are." O.W."I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world. This makes it hard to plan the day."- E. B. WhiteI enjoy a dual career: ***teaching an alternative healing process and ***health care consulting.I recently read something interesting about dating:"The purpose of any relationship is to wake up and get to know ourselves and our lover thoroughly, without judgement or pride." p. 5 IF THE BUDDHA DATED) Let's chat once on the phone and then see about meeting for a walk or enjoying a beverage. Later dates may include dinner, theatre, movie, etc.

  • Elwyn

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Nordic / German heritage. 6' 175#, 34" w. Love my life & want to share it with a good honest, sane, non-addicted man. Now single for 2 years after being in a long term relationship for 20+.; Consider myself made of good values. For me honesty & integrity works so I like that in a friend or partner. Discovered I'm not the norm amongst my peers- I like a momagomous thing with an honest, like minded man. Great sex is important but we need an emotional, intellectual & romantic connection for it to work well. Looking to date a sane, non- I love animals, especially dogs, have always had them but none currently. I don't watch much TV, but what's more important is who I am with, rather than what I'm doing- I'm a flexible guy. Mainstream mostly bores me, I love off-beat, independent and foreign films- I'm generally disappointed at the main- Okay- I do like James Bond Movies! Have a passion for art-First Friday's counter-- I'm Height-Weight-Proportionate (you be too), enjoy a good gym work-out but not addicted. It would be a plus if you enjoy exercise- the gym or some hiking. I have a hairy body type & I'm versatile, but it depends on the guy and our chemistry. I can be both dominant or passive in love. If you're totally passive we won't likely be a match. If you're more dominant, we'll probably work it out just fine. I'm a masculine man & usually attracted to the same. I prefer guys close to my age or down to mid & early 40's. I'm looking for a guy who has control of his own life & career. I'm not into being your Sugar-Daddy, I've previously done that long term with a guy my own age. Looking for more of an equal. I'm self sufficient & looking for the same. What I like? Confident is hot, arrogant is not. A guy with a nice smile & intelligence. If you have ADD/ADHD, sorry- I'm the wrong guy for you. Most importantly- I like an honest, confident man who has worked hard to become the best version of himself. Understand the importance of treating others well. Non-smoker. No drugs, addictions or lacking sanity please.Tested HIV-Negative & Disease Free ***, willing share paper test results. Meet for drinks to see if there is chemistry both physically and intellectually. Dinner on a future date. Hopefully you enjoy a good conversation exchange.

  • Jean

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    5'10", ***lbs. Naturally smooth bod. Frmr fratboy/farmboy. Professional. Regular good guy, down to earth, funny, appreciates the little things in life. No 'tude' here.-- hence, I call it home. Avid volunteer for various things around town. Love movies of all types - Netflix rules. Prefer small gatherings with friends over large parties. Getting outdoors is great. Also checking out fairs and festivals - this area is chocked full of em. Tend to see the positive things in people - which can be my asset and downfall. But I'm not looking for perfect. Some people say pictures don't do me justice; I don't know about that - you can decide. Profile says I'm not looking for anything serious - actually open to long-term, but in the meantime, hanging out or dating is cool too. Also have a fetish for wrestling up a sweat with like minded men. Safe, sane, d/d free. WOOF YEAH! There's "first date" and then there's the 'initial-get-to-know-ya' meeting. First meeting may be over coffee or a beer. First date should take a little effort - but doesn't have to be expensive - as maybe it's just finding a new hole-in-the-wall with awesome food or service. In fact, DON'T try to impress me with extravagance - as it does the opposite.

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