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Otha, 46

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About Me

Hey Guys-I'm a happy/healthy (HIV-, D/D Free), drama-free, hopeless romantic, eternal optimist, down-to-earth gay guy looking to meet a tallish (5'9" and up), fit, healthy (HIV-, D/D Free) guy who loves to laugh (I'm Irish, so it's a given), values integrity and honesty as much as I do (a cliche' but true!), to hang out with, get to know, and maybe date, , maybe Ltr, maybe nothing, whatever is meant to be (except hooking up, just not into that). Any race is cool. I'm the type of guy who ultimately follows his heart, so relocating would not be an issue for me.Oh, and purely for compatibility reasons: Im a bottom guy (again, NOT looking to hook up. I just mention that so there arent any issues later) So, if you're open to that, or even just curious about me, message me and we will go from there, thanks! Man, I think it would be very casual, laid-back, no pressure. Maybe go have some Thai food (I'm partial to a good spring roll), then a nice stroll. Take the time to Just get to know each other and see if we 'click'.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Selah

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Pretty optimistic, happy go lucky guy . Of course, we all have some bad days , I'm a firm believer that your attitude and outlook makes all the difference. I think it's important to keep it light and have a sense of humor, but know when to be serious. Extremely old fashioned when it comes to love and relationships. Ideally looking for a LTR, but that takes time, and don't believe in rushing into it. Although, I love clothes, the gym and looking good, by far, the most imortant things , are values, morals and personality. The one thing I admire the most in a person, is when their biggest pride is the fact that they're a good person. Don't usually go to bars or clubs, but meeting somewhere quiet for a drink to relax and get to know each other would be an exception. If not, a comfortable cafe or coffee shop. After all , the first date is just a meeting, the second date is what counts.

  • Izzy

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I could tell you a lot more about me, or you could just ask. I am a very honest, likeable and nice person. I'm a retired Sailor and I have many interests, here are a few. Science Fiction, Movies, Walking, Camping, Skiing, Hiking, my house and most of all travel. I have traveled across the world and seen many things, some good and some bad, but I would not change a thing. I really enjoy stimulating conversation so if you can put a few words together that would be great. What am I looking for? Someone to share my life and love with, I can be very romantic and love affection cuddling kissing, etc.... I However, don't feel the same way about this in public don't know why, but I guess it comes from being in the military for so long, which forbids public displays of affection. Want to cure me? :-) Now for the shallow part I am very open-minded and willing to try anything with the following exception. I am not attracted to someone who is built like me or heavier. I want someone slim/average/muscular or a few extra pounds.Enough about me let’s hear about you.p.s. i just got a new pet I would love to meet for a walk, coffee or any of the normal date things.

  • Jabari

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm sort of the Renaissance type of man with interests ranging from music, the Symphony, theater, architecture and museums to camping, hiking and canoeing. I also have almost completely remodeled my home... new cabinets, put a new bathroom in, and laid wood flooring throughout, etc. So I guess it would be fair to say I can dress up in a tux or dress down into jeans and a t-shirt. I am a trained musician; however, I work in the software field. I am a faithful friend who will give it to you straight. I have a good career, own my own home, am emotionally stable and mature and even have three wonderful dogs. Love going to sporting events and ESP hockey games Warning...if you ask my opinion you WILL get it. Also, communication and honesty are huge to me. I'm a man... I can handle anything you tell me... just don't lie about it even if you think you will hurt me by telling me. One of the things I learned from my last relationship is it's better to know up front than to find out years after the fact.So, other than that stuff... I love spending time with friends, family and my dogs. I'm not "into" the bar scene; although, I would also say I have nothing against it. A good first date to me usually starts at a coffee/tea bistro type of place to see if there is chemistry. After that, anything from watching an episode of Downton Abbey to an amusement park, to dinner, to a movie, to a night at the symphony or opera, to just sitting and talking to going out for a beer or scotch, sitting in the pool or hot tub.

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