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Shay, 49

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About Me

I'm an artist (a surrealist painter) and I don't see the world the way most people do. I practice Zen. Zen is not really a religion, it's more a way to approach daily living. If you're not open-minded, we probably won't get along. I tend to get along better with younger guys. I enrolled in an extension course at OSU in weight lifting and became a trainer so I could train myself. I bought a Trek fitness bike and I love it! I'm definitely not a typical gay man. I know more about automotive engineering than I do about designer clothes and have no problem with crawling under my truck and getting grease on my hands. However, I'm no cultural slouch either. I have a decent working knowledge of modern literature and art history, particularly 20th century painting.I'm not really into the "gay" scene or too much of a bar person but I really enjoy going to dance clubs and dancing my ass off if the DJ is good. I love music and enjoy a broad range of musical genres but mostly listen to techno (I love BT) trance and 80's industrial rock like Front 242.I'm a very busy guy. My job (self-employed construction worker), tryin to stay fit and working on my paintings doesn't leave me a lot of spare time but I am more than willing to make time for someone if we hit it off. Oh, if you're going to send me a message at least tell me a little about yourself. Messages that contain only one or two words like "Sup" or "You looking?" are lame and will probably be answered with an equal lack of effort. Intelligence is sexy!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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