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Shay, 49

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About Me

I'm an artist (a surrealist painter) and I don't see the world the way most people do. I practice Zen. Zen is not really a religion, it's more a way to approach daily living. If you're not open-minded, we probably won't get along. I tend to get along better with younger guys. I enrolled in an extension course at OSU in weight lifting and became a trainer so I could train myself. I bought a Trek fitness bike and I love it! I'm definitely not a typical gay man. I know more about automotive engineering than I do about designer clothes and have no problem with crawling under my truck and getting grease on my hands. However, I'm no cultural slouch either. I have a decent working knowledge of modern literature and art history, particularly 20th century painting.I'm not really into the "gay" scene or too much of a bar person but I really enjoy going to dance clubs and dancing my ass off if the DJ is good. I love music and enjoy a broad range of musical genres but mostly listen to techno (I love BT) trance and 80's industrial rock like Front 242.I'm a very busy guy. My job (self-employed construction worker), tryin to stay fit and working on my paintings doesn't leave me a lot of spare time but I am more than willing to make time for someone if we hit it off. Oh, if you're going to send me a message at least tell me a little about yourself. Messages that contain only one or two words like "Sup" or "You looking?" are lame and will probably be answered with an equal lack of effort. Intelligence is sexy!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brendon

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a SINGLE Bay Area guy seeking chemistry on any level. Im interested in friendship and ultimately something more serious with someone I am mutually compatible with and wildly attracted to.I tend to find myself attracted to younger, fit and masculine guys, a great sense of humor, youthful energy, a man with drive and a kind heart.I'm typically attracted to fit and handsome guys younger than me within the age range of ***. My ideal mate prefers the bottom bunk in the bedroom and is HIV negative and std free and enjoys keeping fit. He is wired for monogamy and has done some self development work or sees value in self development. Im a relationship guy that just happens to be single at the moment. I am a big fan of monogamy and the idea that two men in love can actually thrive in a wonderful monogamous relationship.I enjoy the study of the Law of Attraction, quantum physics and practicing the power of positive intentions. I think keeping the body moving is a good thing. I enjoy keeping my body active with daily physical activities including the gym or a workout of some sort to promote a healthy body. I love to cook for friends and explore healthy recipes. On the flip side I also enjoy meeting friends for dinner and drinks. I guess its all about balance sometimes I get a little crazy on both ends of this but I try to have a lot of fun either way. Im looking for someone that can appreciate the whole package.What Im looking for on here? ...Im open to friendship, dating and ultimately a long term loving relationship with my match. Im the type to take it slow to get to know someone to see if the connection goes in any direction. Mutual spark is rare but possible. I'm looking forward to meeting my match. I like a first date to be casual with no expectations. Meeting for coffee or a drink or a chat face to face on *** if there is enough spark and mutual chemistry for a second date.If all goes well then my ideal second date would dinner or lunch and some good conversation getting to know more about each other.

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm a generally happy person and consider myself a lucky guy. I have a job that I enjoy and amazing friends. :-) I really love to travel and I do so whenever I can.

  • Mahlon

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I enjoy spending time gardening, and working on restoring my home. I love most music with an emphasis on country music. I enjoy country dancing. I have a passion for old houses and barns. I watch some TV and like going to the movies. I like science fiction, action adventures and dramas. I occasionally go out with friends to hear them sing, or to listen to live music. I work in television, but would love to retire to my farm. I am a very caring and giving person. I am somewhat shy at first until I get to know you. I am romantic, and enjoy going out to dinner, as well as quiet nights at home. I am looking for a good friendship that may develop into a long term relationship. I hope to find a good companion that has similar interests that I can share my life and interests with. A good first date could be as simple as going out for coffee, or a nice dinner followed by a nice walk or live music.

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