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Shay, 49

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About Me

I'm an artist (a surrealist painter) and I don't see the world the way most people do. I practice Zen. Zen is not really a religion, it's more a way to approach daily living. If you're not open-minded, we probably won't get along. I tend to get along better with younger guys. I enrolled in an extension course at OSU in weight lifting and became a trainer so I could train myself. I bought a Trek fitness bike and I love it! I'm definitely not a typical gay man. I know more about automotive engineering than I do about designer clothes and have no problem with crawling under my truck and getting grease on my hands. However, I'm no cultural slouch either. I have a decent working knowledge of modern literature and art history, particularly 20th century painting.I'm not really into the "gay" scene or too much of a bar person but I really enjoy going to dance clubs and dancing my ass off if the DJ is good. I love music and enjoy a broad range of musical genres but mostly listen to techno (I love BT) trance and 80's industrial rock like Front 242.I'm a very busy guy. My job (self-employed construction worker), tryin to stay fit and working on my paintings doesn't leave me a lot of spare time but I am more than willing to make time for someone if we hit it off. Oh, if you're going to send me a message at least tell me a little about yourself. Messages that contain only one or two words like "Sup" or "You looking?" are lame and will probably be answered with an equal lack of effort. Intelligence is sexy!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Moriarty

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm independent and strong willed. I love with conviction and tend to think in terms of decades. I would rather be single than be with the wrong man. Once I feel that you are the one I will move heaven and earth to make you happy. I expect my happiness to be important to you as well. Think about it. If you want to truly make someone happy you have to really get to know them so you can do the things that matter. The longer it last the more I love. I want to come home to the same man every day. I like that. I like knowing someone so well that I know what's on their mind by the look on their face. I like knowing that a certain touch will excite them. I like knowing that I can touch you anytime I want. I can stand behind you and hug on you while your doing something. But most of all I want to be with someone who wants to be with me. I want to know that no matter how bad I screw up it will be ok. Because I will screw up and eat the last snack cake that you were saving for lunch or not clean the bathroom when it's my turn or not fill your up when I drove it last but no matter how bad a case of stupid I get its ok because you will always know where my heart is. surprise me

  • Austin

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Looking to date someone who really knows the meaning of monogamy, not just how to say the word, but really understand the meaning. A man who knows what they want and are not afraid to take charge once in awhile. I have no problem showing the person I care about how I feel. I want to date a man who knows how to love and caress another man and be rough when need be, I have no problem showing my affection in public. On my first date, I'd like to sit down and talk about what makes each other who they are. Looking into someones eyes and seeing them for who they really are is the first step.

  • Ruby

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Very much an out doors kind of guy. whether it be spending a relaxing day floating in the pool, to taking a road trip, the possibilities are endless. Looking for a man, and I do mean a MAN to compliment my life, not complicate it. No hang ups with race or age, as long as you are a confident masculine man, and easy on the eyes! And above all you must be open minded. I have a great group of friends, with a good balance between gay and straight, and am comfortable being in either environment. I do have a daughter, so you must be comfortable with kids. ***and doesn't live at home) Any more questions.. feel free to e mail me. Since first dates can be a deal breaker, at least for me. I prefer a place that doesn't take away attention from the person I am trying to get to know. I have many interest, so the element of surprise could get you a second date ;-)

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