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Shay, 49

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About Me

I'm an artist (a surrealist painter) and I don't see the world the way most people do. I practice Zen. Zen is not really a religion, it's more a way to approach daily living. If you're not open-minded, we probably won't get along. I tend to get along better with younger guys. I enrolled in an extension course at OSU in weight lifting and became a trainer so I could train myself. I bought a Trek fitness bike and I love it! I'm definitely not a typical gay man. I know more about automotive engineering than I do about designer clothes and have no problem with crawling under my truck and getting grease on my hands. However, I'm no cultural slouch either. I have a decent working knowledge of modern literature and art history, particularly 20th century painting.I'm not really into the "gay" scene or too much of a bar person but I really enjoy going to dance clubs and dancing my ass off if the DJ is good. I love music and enjoy a broad range of musical genres but mostly listen to techno (I love BT) trance and 80's industrial rock like Front 242.I'm a very busy guy. My job (self-employed construction worker), tryin to stay fit and working on my paintings doesn't leave me a lot of spare time but I am more than willing to make time for someone if we hit it off. Oh, if you're going to send me a message at least tell me a little about yourself. Messages that contain only one or two words like "Sup" or "You looking?" are lame and will probably be answered with an equal lack of effort. Intelligence is sexy!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tony

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm not looking for perfect, just perfectly honest. I have varied creative interests and always make time to invest in my personal growth physically, emotionally and spiritually. I am passionate about the things that are important to me. I enjoy meaningful conversation and appreciate guys who can speak from the heart. I don't have a type. I am open to all races and nationalities. Romantically my only preference would be a guy who is not overtly feminine. Not looking for someone like me, but someone who compliments my life and I do the same in return. I like most genres of music, live theater, eating outside (probably because I'm from the north), a good kisser (possibly a deal breaker LOL!), loyalty, creating something, being around people who support my dreams. I consider myself a work in progress and welcome new experiences and positive change. Compassion and passion are attributes I look for. Without these qualities it's impossible to connect to anything or anyone intimately. Well I don't want this to sound like a documentary and there are too many layers to cover here. So, if I sparked an interest feel free to connect. I'm really easy to talk to. First dates can feel awkward, but I'm hopeful by the time we meet, you and I will have a comfort level that allows us to enjoy each other's company whether it be dinner, an art walk or the beach. I'm open.

  • Sloane

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    My self-summary: I\'m proud of who I\'m and of what I have accomplished thus far in my life. That said, I have big plans for my future. I\'m looking for the one I want to run home to for the rest of my life.

  • Abot

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    work took me away for a year and a half. I'm finally home and trying to get back up to speed on the local goin's on.I'm up to meeting new friends so if you are up to taking a chance and can leave head games behind, hit me up.Not full of myself by any means, but have a healthy self image. I Look good, Smell good and *** good. After visiting my high school reunion I can assure you I've held up very well, (is that what kids do to people?)Would really like someone near my age. Younger is good, if you're smart and honestly like older guys.Older is nice too, if you're fit and act your age.Just please don't be looking for a twink or sugar dad.I've been cast in both rolls. Nothing will make my****go limp faster.I'm just looking for a well adjusted guy who's happy in a cap, t-shirt and jeans that cleans up without fuss when need be.Guys, I can sew and cook, rebuild an engine and frame a wall. I'd love to find a guy who can change a tire or reduce a sauce without acting like Mommy Dearest with a fresh can of ajax!I close now with the status quo: I'm looking for friend first and formost. I'm in no hurry to run to the altar. That said if after a careful courtship sparks are flying I would be most likely be persuaded. I remember it as awkward. The details are locked in a denial initiated blank. Oddly enough we're still friends

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