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I'm a mid-40s guy, fun to be around, responsible, settled and stable. My stats are 5'10", 186#, 36w, brown eyes, black hair with just a sprinkling of gray. I've been on the same job for 15 years, own a modest home and a nice car, have a retirement account, etc. By some standards, you could say that I "have it all"...except a special someone to come home to. I'm looking for a similarly responsible, stable man, for dating and possibly something long-term if the connection is there. I'm not interested in a casual fling, one-nighter, or "hook-up." Although a relationship is my ultimate goal, I believe that you have to build toward that slowly...so friendship, getting to know each other and dating is definitely a prerequisite. I think it's unrealistic to expect that you'll jump right into a relationship without a solid foundation for it to stand on. I prefer someone in the 30s- I've tried long- I'm open to talking to out of town guys so long as relocation is an option for you at some point if a relationship eventually develops. My ideal guy is masculine, slim/average/muscular build, self-reliant, intelligent, articulate, compassionate, kind, responsible, honest, confident (but not arrogant!) and a good conversationalist. Of particular importance is the ability to laugh (including at yourself!) and to find the humor in ordinary things. I think laughter is good for the mind, body and spirit and I try to do it as often as I can!I believe in treating others as I would want to be treated and I'd like you to feel the same. How a person treats service people (waiters, clerks, etc.) is usually a good indicator of their character!Mostly, I'd describe myself as a nester, but not a hermit. I like to cook and try new foods and wines, listen to all types of music, watch a good movie snuggled up on the couch, or just sit quietly and catch up on the daily newspaper. I like nice things, but I'm not materialistic. Manufacturers' labels don't define me. I try to keep my house and car clean and organized, but I'm not obsessive about it.-- because let's face it, who wants to kiss (or do more) with a person who doesn't smell or taste good? :)All in all, I'm a fairly typical working man. I go to the office, come home, work in the yard, cook dinner, read the newspaper, watch a bit of TV -- normal stuff. Being gay isn't a significant part of my identity, it just defines my physical attractions. Most of my friends tend to be straight, although I'd like to make more like-minded gay friends to hang out and do things with.So if you're ready for something real, steady and "normal", get in touch and let's talk - nothing ventured, nothing gained. I'm ready to laugh and love again...are you the one? I'm not really interested in someone who is a constant barfly or otherwise preoccupied with "partying." I'm not so much into the club scene anymore (been there, done that), but an occasional night out on the town for drinks and dancing can be fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am an attractive, fun, loyal, respectful, healthy, masculine guy who loves to enjoy life and wants to keep sharing it with someone special. I've had my share of up's and down's in life and have always bounced back because I am not a quitter. I am an avid gardener....it is my passion and therapy. I am a hard worker who is very competitive in a fun way and enjoy my job in the insurance industry. I have also been blessed to see a lot of the world and enjoy new cultures. I have a few really great friends and a lot of acquaintances...being very socially active through my job. I love my family and they are really great with everything...wish they lived closer. I own a house (me and the bank) and I like it clean, presentable and organized. I pay my bills on time and in full and I expect the same....no trauma/drama for me in a future partner.After reassessing my life I know that I am looking for a partner who will be there for me through thick and thin...my protectorThe eyes and the smile are the winner for me....What I am seeking is a fun, exciting and handsome person to be with who is confident, secure and financially stable....Not into someone who likes going out to party...preferably a person who likes to stay at home. I like to cook and I am good at it too. I love to be with someone who loves being with me and we can talk for hours and cuddle.Yes, I am a widower after my partner of over 16 years ago passed away recently. We had a really great life together and I am not looking for someone to fill his shoes as nothing is ever the same. We had our compromises and we dealt with conflicts, of course but our relationship was loyal and very stable...and that is what I still want to have. Yes, I started smoking again when he was in the hospital....after not smoking for over 6 years...I am trying to quit and have been on the patch while at work...joined the gym and now I just have to work it into my schedule.If you are interested...I am but an *** casual meeting for lunch/brunch or coffee somewhere.....

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  • Shannon from Jena | Man | 49 years old | Gemini
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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    If you are willing to take a chance, I may just be the one. I am a fun loving, dedicated, faithful father of a beautiful daughter. She is the love of my life but I still have a desire to be with the one that makes me feel all giddy and gives me butterflies. I am a hopeless romantic that believes God has a special person for each one of us. I am very self-sufficient and am able to take care of myself. I love to travel and see the sights. I can sit with Presidents or be with the homeless. I enjoy going to a 5-star restaurant but am comfortable in a pair of shorts at a cook-out in the back yard. Enjoy having friends over for a glass of wine and a evening at home or going out to the club for an evening of dancing or karaoke. I love to sing and will serenade the right person. I love to spoil and pamper my partner and enjoy taking care of them. My first date would consist of meeting somewhere for coffee or a drink and talking to get to know each other. Sharing about our lives and learning the important things about each other. As the evening progresses, we reach across the table and touch hands. We laugh and stare into each others eyes and the connection begins.

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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