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Jonny, 47

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About Me

Probably the best thing I can say about myself is that I'm open to just about everything. To say I'm young at heart may sound cliche, but its true. I didn't realize how as you get older you get wiser and as you get wiser you age less...kind of a Catch 22...and let's get a few things straight right off the bat...been POZ for 14 years and couldn't be healthier and if it matters, I prefer to catch rather than pitch, not opposed to pitching, just sayin'...now then.....help me!) and working on the last third of my first novel. I have diverse interests in music, food, wine, film, television and literature, basically anything goes, except sexism, bigotry, homophobia and small-mindedness. I love to laugh, cook, cycle, swim, vacation, hike, take long walks, camp, fish, go to the theater and quite a bit more. I have been fortunate throughout my life to do many of these things more than once. My friends are my support and my adopted family. Without them, I would be nothing. My son (not biological...helped my best friend raise him from infancy)...will be twelve this year...there's a sentence I never thought I'd say!I am looking for a partner (eventually) but am not looking to make that happen overnight. Ideally dinner or lunch, someplace where we can talk. It doesn't have to be complex, just two guys hanging out...then...well, we'll see.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Fletcher

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    "Life offers infinite possible roads. Sometimes your head chooses the route, sometimes your heart. And sometimes, for better or worse, neither head nor heart can resist the stubborn pull of fate." ~ Dean Koontz ~The short version:I’d like to find someone with whom to share a meaningful relationship. A partner whose life I enrich. Someone who encourages, inspires, and magnifies me, and I, him. Someone who’d like to be the object of my affection, held, cuddled, loved.The less short version:I'm a relentlessly affectionate cuddler hoping to find someone nice to hold throughout the night. Distance is only a temporary inconvenience, not a valid excuse except for the guys whose only interest is in "real" "now" casual sex encounters - and that's not me. Today the world is a small place, and there's no reason why friends can't be together if they want to be. The difficulty is to find the people who really want to be. I strive to live life with compassion, determination, and humility, and it would be nice to find someone similarly inclined. I am not "very good-looking", gym-fit, 6-pack, or "hot" - although I do have a befitting appreciation for those things. I’m just an average, hopefully nice guy, looking to make a difference in the world. I am sensitive to environmental and humanitarian issues, hoping that the world will at least be no worse off, on the balance, for my having been here. I’m incredibly shy & not comfortable talking about myself but will be happy to answer any appropriate questions you might care to ask. Although it might seem that I am wandering aimlessly, I’m not lost -- I am exploring! I’m looking to meet good men around the world for friendship and more. Compatible people who perhaps possess qualities that I find myself lacking, and who understand and appreciate the difference between meaningful friendship and friendship of convenience. And if they cuddle - Super! Of course, it would be swell to meet a life-partner. I’m always eager to meet people of different cultures abroad, and would be happy to travel to share good company. Alternatively, I’m up for a friendly chat.Some of the things I enjoy: cuddling, rain, snow, wind, thunderstorms, ocean, mountains, pine forests, wild flowers, star gazing, animals, whale song, loon song, wolf howling, nature, reading, traveling, foreign cultures, languages, music, my dogs - Artemis & Briseis, motorcycles.In nothing do men approach so nearly to the gods as in doing good to men. ~ ~ Isaac Asimov Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. ~ This is the principal difference between a dog and a man. ~-- The days past remain behind us, a mournful line of extinguished candles; I do not want to look at them; their form saddens me, and it saddens me to recall their first light. I look ahead at my lit candles. I do not want to turn back, lest I see and shudder at how fast the dark line lengthens, at how fast the extinguished candles multiply. Konstantinos P.***Dinner prepared together, dvds, cuddling if it feels right - and I hope it does...

  • Mahala

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Nice guy looking for someone to share time with, get to know each other, eventually leading to a trusting, long-term relationship. I am happy being single but would rather be in a relationship with the right man. I might be more quiet than shy, very observant, friendly and have a good sense of humor. I like to keep fit but not obsessed about it. I am looking for a down to earth, confident man who can look me in the eye and knows what honesty and monogamy mean. Anything that will let us talk and get to know each other.

  • Uriel

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am an attractive, fun, loyal, respectful, healthy, masculine guy who loves to enjoy life and wants to keep sharing it with someone special. I've had my share of up's and down's in life and have always bounced back because I am not a quitter. I am an avid gardener....it is my passion and therapy. I am a hard worker who is very competitive in a fun way and enjoy my job in the insurance industry. I have also been blessed to see a lot of the world and enjoy new cultures. I have a few really great friends and a lot of acquaintances...being very socially active through my job. I love my family and they are really great with everything...wish they lived closer. I own a house (me and the bank) and I like it clean, presentable and organized. I pay my bills on time and in full and I expect the same....no trauma/drama for me in a future partner.After reassessing my life I know that I am looking for a partner who will be there for me through thick and thin...my protectorThe eyes and the smile are the winner for me....What I am seeking is a fun, exciting and handsome person to be with who is confident, secure and financially stable....Not into someone who likes going out to party...preferably a person who likes to stay at home. I like to cook and I am good at it too. I love to be with someone who loves being with me and we can talk for hours and cuddle.Yes, I am a widower after my partner of over 16 years ago passed away recently. We had a really great life together and I am not looking for someone to fill his shoes as nothing is ever the same. We had our compromises and we dealt with conflicts, of course but our relationship was loyal and very stable...and that is what I still want to have. Yes, I started smoking again when he was in the hospital....after not smoking for over 6 years...I am trying to quit and have been on the patch while at work...joined the gym and now I just have to work it into my schedule.If you are interested...I am but an *** casual meeting for lunch/brunch or coffee somewhere.....

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