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Fletcher, 50
United States, Louisiana, Jena

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About Me

"Life offers infinite possible roads. Sometimes your head chooses the route, sometimes your heart. And sometimes, for better or worse, neither head nor heart can resist the stubborn pull of fate." ~ Dean Koontz ~The short version:I’d like to find someone with whom to share a meaningful relationship. A partner whose life I enrich. Someone who encourages, inspires, and magnifies me, and I, him. Someone who’d like to be the object of my affection, held, cuddled, loved.The less short version:I'm a relentlessly affectionate cuddler hoping to find someone nice to hold throughout the night. Distance is only a temporary inconvenience, not a valid excuse except for the guys whose only interest is in "real" "now" casual sex encounters - and that's not me. Today the world is a small place, and there's no reason why friends can't be together if they want to be. The difficulty is to find the people who really want to be. I strive to live life with compassion, determination, and humility, and it would be nice to find someone similarly inclined. I am not "very good-looking", gym-fit, 6-pack, or "hot" - although I do have a befitting appreciation for those things. I’m just an average, hopefully nice guy, looking to make a difference in the world. I am sensitive to environmental and humanitarian issues, hoping that the world will at least be no worse off, on the balance, for my having been here. I’m incredibly shy & not comfortable talking about myself but will be happy to answer any appropriate questions you might care to ask. Although it might seem that I am wandering aimlessly, I’m not lost -- I am exploring! I’m looking to meet good men around the world for friendship and more. Compatible people who perhaps possess qualities that I find myself lacking, and who understand and appreciate the difference between meaningful friendship and friendship of convenience. And if they cuddle - Super! Of course, it would be swell to meet a life-partner. I’m always eager to meet people of different cultures abroad, and would be happy to travel to share good company. Alternatively, I’m up for a friendly chat.Some of the things I enjoy: cuddling, rain, snow, wind, thunderstorms, ocean, mountains, pine forests, wild flowers, star gazing, animals, whale song, loon song, wolf howling, nature, reading, traveling, foreign cultures, languages, music, my dogs - Artemis & Briseis, motorcycles.In nothing do men approach so nearly to the gods as in doing good to men. ~ ~ Isaac Asimov Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. ~ This is the principal difference between a dog and a man. ~-- The days past remain behind us, a mournful line of extinguished candles; I do not want to look at them; their form saddens me, and it saddens me to recall their first light. I look ahead at my lit candles. I do not want to turn back, lest I see and shudder at how fast the dark line lengthens, at how fast the extinguished candles multiply. Konstantinos P.***Dinner prepared together, dvds, cuddling if it feels right - and I hope it does...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Salsa Music Drawing / Painting Archery Nascar Snowboarding
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