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Kristofer, 50
United States, Louisiana, Independence

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Looking for someone who doesn't think that chivalry is gone. Someone sweet and knows that life is too short to take this for granted. I try to surround myself with good-hearted peepled and kindness. A caring and affectionate person also is very important as well. I am a family oriented person, and would like that trait as well. I am not looking for a travel partner, I am looking for a serious relationship. Some people here seem to be looking for a casual relationship, or should I say, a convenient relationship. ***won't do.....Let's give it a try and see where it goes...I hope to find someone here with children, as I think we would have more in common, and be more understanding how important it would be to spend our free time. Time is at a premium when you are a single parent, and we all know that the children will always come first. My children are "middle aged" with my oldest being 15.I have a fondness and great respect for history, astronomy and all things science. I like to read articles about the latest information on science. I love science and astronomy. Why are we here? And I don't mean on Plenty Of Fish. :)I do like to write, mostly songs and some poetry. I love baseball and all the nuances that happen in a game. Being with my children, and teaching them about life. I have been coaching Little League for 7 years, and I love teaching the game. Over those years, though they may not know it, those boys and girls have taught me a lot as well. You'd be surprised what you can learn on a baseball field with children...probably all you need to know about life. I don't mind humility, and I am comfortable in my own skin, and have nothing to prove to anyone. Those without a sense of humility, should look a little deeper, and maybe for someone else . :)I am also not attracted to judgmental people, we all have faults and some baggage. Aren't all of us here a "work in progress"? Also...it seems that modesty is leaving us quickly, with people always reminding us of how good they are. How important honesty, faithfulness, and sincerity are in life, some people just don't get it...or give it for that matter. I also wonder what the world will be like when my children get older. I like to play guitar and write, but some guitar lessons probably wouldn't' hurt. Writing songs let's me escape for a while, and is rewarding . I have an idea for a book, and hopefully someday I will translate that idea on paper....It's a book about love and relationships, and I need a little push, or maybe an inspiration...:)About me:I have only dated a few women here, as I like to write to women who write well about themselves. Nothing in particular, sometimes you just feel it.I don't walk away from negativity, I run from it. Not into judging people.If you have just gotten your new found freedom, and need to be with your friends every weekend, and maybe you could squeeze me in sometime on Wednesday....then.......well.....you get the point.I'm a bit more spiritual than religious...If you're the pushy type, we won't mix well, as I won't push back. I'm not the aggressive type, and don't feel the need to be right all the time, but I will hold my ground. And I will always have your back...no matter what.I'm a trusting soul, and it has on more than one occasion come back to bite me, in more ways than one. As trusting in people as I am, I am not naive. I don't believe in dating more than one person at a time, and expect that from you too. If it doesn't go well, then so be it. I'm sure you wouldn't want that either. as informal as this site is, I think honesty should start right from the beginning. Plenty of time to date others if we agree it didn't or isn't working out. If you like to date more than one person at a time, we won't be compatible right from the start. It's just something I feel strongly about. I really don't want to compete with someone, and would like a woman who would see where I could possibly fit in her life, and I wouldn't want to be compared to anyone. Would you? Long story short, it seems like that would be more of a job interview at that point, doesn't it? (it doesn't get any more impersonal and informal than that...) I'm just not interested in being a contestant on the dating game at this point.I don't want to end up being a chronic dater on here, which is why I can only take small doses of this site at a time. The search for someone better is a never-ending search. Let's give it a try. Sometimes it seems like a lot of work on here, and I hope someday to never come back... or look back... Most anything country, most female country singers, that twang they have when they sing is so sexy...80's music and some gospel...Movies: Mostly dramas and those zany goofy comedies like Airplane. (Sometimes you just need to "check out" mentally)...Some of the Showtime and HBO series...Documentaries about Science and History, I like some chick-flicks too. I saw Lovely Bones about 3 years ago, and to this day, that move still haunts me.About you:That would be just you..... being you. I might seem real confident on what I want, but I guess its more of what I don't want. On the contrary, I'm as in the dark as you might be, so maybe take my hand, and lets see if we can find the light... Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other.....no distractions. As long as it is somewhere that makes you comfortable, doesn't matter to me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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