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Arieh, 46
United States, Louisiana, Independence

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Well, upon advice from some people, I thought I would take the time to redo my profile. When i wrote it, I was trying to mix humor with frustration dealing with this dating site that just didn't pan out the way i expected. First off, a little about me. No, I've never been married. No, I have no kids. Would I like to get married? Yes, some day. Kids? Not thinking so due to my age. All my life, I've gotten myself involved in relationships trying to be this knight in shining armor. Even went to extremes of going to therapist asking what the hell was my problem. Said I had this broken bird syndrome. Said i get myself involved in relationships where the other person has been abused, cheated on, or whatever, and i try to fix them. Well, apparently I'm no doctor. I get myself involved with a female who has either been abused verbally, sexually, physically, whatever and I come along and treat them like the way i want to be treated and figure the way they would like to be treated. And apparently, it pushes them away. Cause it isn't something they are use to. They believe "love" is being treated like garbage. Only ladies I've been involved with in my life were separated or divorced. Therefore, I have never been married, nor have any kids. Their attitudes was they never wanted to get remarried, or, they already had kids of their own and never wanted any more. I'm not on this site to play games. I may be one of the few that is looking for a commitment. Not just looking to get laid, cause i can go and do that anywhere. Not looking for someone to take care of me. Cause I've done that throughout my life. I'm looking for companionship. A lady to go out with, do things together with, and enjoy one another's company. I have met a few on here, but they just weren't up to par to me. The dating sites seem only the best way for myself to meet anyone. I don't go looking in the bars looking due to past experiences. I don't go to church. Don't go to laundromats. And i work this horrible second shift. So, what are my other options in hopefully meeting someone? It is getting to a point to where I just may start drinking and going to the bars again just to find someone. In all reality, I'm a very laid back, easy going guy. Very easy to get along with and will talk about anything. I wear my heart on my sleeve, even though at times it seems I get that used as a disadvantage. I am very sincere and candid. Very faithful and loyal to whom I'm with. Excellent listener. I am a one lady type guy. I am old fashioned. I still believe in opening doors and pulling out chairs for my partner. Sending flowers for no occasion. Romantic gestures, etc. I pride myself in treating my partner like the queen of the world. Makes her feel great about herself knowing how important she is. So, I just can't figure out why no one would take advantage of that? I truly believe in ***relationships, but I try to put a little more effort in going beyond 50. I don't mind cleaning, especially if my partner isn't feeling well or has had a long day. I don't mind dishpan hands. Can push a vacuum with the best of them. Scrub a mighty mean toilet or shower. Anything. To show my partner what she means to me. I hate to argue, and much rather discuss disagreements rationally. I am definately a rare breed. I enjoy doing a variety of activities, as long as it is in good company. And i keep myself open to new things. I take lousy pictures. I'm not very photogenetic. But, if I were to be seen in person, you would see my appearance looks a whole lot better than what my pictures portray. I am 6', 190, which i consider average. Not overly muscular, but in pretty decent shape. Have all my teeth, blue eyes, broad shoulders, etc. Not too skinny, not fat, just average. In all my relationships of past, have been always been told how I give good massages, what an excellent kisser i was, etc.. I do work full time, do have my own vehicle, a drivers license, and i'm not on the America's most wanted list. I have no drama in my life, nor am I looking for any. Plus, I have no excess baggage. As for the person I'm seeking? Well, she has to be honest and faithful. Understanding, self-sufficient. Enjoys going out and doing things and just not simply being a homebody. And, weight needs to be apportioned with their height. Plus, I am truly seeking someone that isn't damaged goods or just completely ruined by past marriages or relationships. Cause it really doesn't give good guys like me a chance? Because it always seems that in the back of their minds, they are suspicious about something. When in all actuality, I am just being me. Like i said, I'm a rare breed. But you won't know that, or believe in what I have said in my profile which is true and sincere, unless you actually give me the opportunity to show you so. So, if interested, would love to hear from you. Open to doing anything. Usually i like to meet for dinner, in which I pay, and maybe go out later for drinks and dancing if we seem to click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American French Japanese Crime Drama Family & Kids Sci-Fi War Golf To Work Out
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