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Elwin, 48
United States, Louisiana, Independence

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It seems that dating and relationships at our age are difficult? Seems as if I am running out of momentum to continue the pursuit. I also know that without the use of this site the chances go from slim to none so I push on. I am just a simple guy that knows the type of person he is looking for. I don't expect perfection only someone perfect in my eyes.In a relationship, first there must be a physical attraction between both parties. We have to be honest with ourselves and realize this to move forward. With that out of the way you must have the ability to communicate on some level, with common interest. Everyone has goals- no matter the size, you have to see it from their perspective and be willing to work with them to achieve them. My one true goal is to live happy. Now this sounds so simple but at times is very complex. You also need to understand that there is such a thing as "Me Time" and be prepare to have your own. This does not mean the opportunity to cheat on you or chase other women- just plain and simple time to just clear my head of all the stress that we put on ourselves in our daily routines. I am a simple man that lives a simple life, yes I can climb a rock wall or fall out of a plane with just a "tarp" to catch me but the over all life experiences are the ones that you share when the adrenalin is not pumping! I am Divorced because the one I married choose a different life, I am not bitter towards women because of this but I did learn a few things along the way. I am not arrogant but just know what does it for me and what doesn't. Now maybe, just maybe you will look inside yourself and see that what I have said to be the true self in you too? If so, then please by all means say hello- I am old fashion is some ways but for a dating site to work effectively it must go both ways. Take that chance. The worse that can happen is that you waste a few precious moments sending me a reply. You are here so why not? I do hope that you all find what you seek in life and can live out your dreams. What ever works for you.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

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