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Maximilian, 49

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About Me

OK… I am back on here again after being off for a year, and writing about my self is no easier than it was the last time.I am 1+ years separated and 2+ years divorced after a long marriage and have very little contact with the ex though we have a cordial business like arrangement when we do speak. I am financially responsible, have my own vehicles and help out my kids when they need it even though my daughter is recently married and on her own and my son is away at college. I’m renting a house now but plan on buying one next year if I can ever figure out where I want to live. I have many friends, though not all close, both male and female and very much enjoy my time out of the house. I am OCD which works out well with my tech job for an engineering/architecture firm where I’ve worked for ***years. I have definite ideas on politics, religion and parenting, but that’s best saved for future conversations.My profile says, “a few extra pounds” because “big and tall” is the kiss of dating death. It is certainly more than a few, and if that is a turn off I certainly can understand as I have my standards too. I’ll just keep working on it and if you’re still unattached you can check back in a month or two and see what you think. It’s certainly not all about looks, but I’m realistic enough to know there needs to be a physical connection. I’m all about self improvement these days so I’m at the gym almost every day and fill most of my free time organizing, planning or fixing things. I’m a big nerd/geek/techie although I’d like to think I am at least socially aware enough to not be embarrassing in public. I enjoy movies (not horror), some television (TBBT, Walking Dead, Face Off), playing pub sports at the local bars, and listening to live bands. I listen to a lot of different kinds of music, usually depending on what I am doing. I don’t have much occasion to listen to opera or slow jazz and I’m not a gangster so hard rap music is out.So… now the fun part… what am I looking for?A woman who is smart (my curse), funny and is confident of who she is and what she wants. There needs to be a physical attraction, but I’m not interested in super model looks with a superficial attitude. I am not interested in being a sugar daddy, in using you for sex, maid services, baby sitting, soothing my ego or paying my bills. I don’t need a woman, but I want to find that certain someone to share my life with. I am looking for a relationship, but they all have to have a beginning, you can’t control where they go, and I’m in no hurry to race to the end. I like to spend hours just talking and lots of time practicing the long lost art of kissing well before anything else. Things I like: redheads, freckles, tattoos (although I have none) and average/athletic builds (insert hypocritical comment here). Things I do not like: women who are liars, don’t get off the couch, can’t make it through the day without drinking or taking a pill, or think anyone is more important than their children. Also, I have many young women that are friends but I’m not looking for anyone under 40. I think meeting in a place that's comfortable for us both (women need to be careful) to have a few drinks (alcohol or not) and see where it goes from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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