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Chet, 48

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About Me

Well my sabbatical is over. For the last six months I've intentionally avoided dating anyone save for a few sporadic *** had resolved to focus on myself and my son and in truth it's been quite refreshing. In the end though, man was not meant to walk this earth alone so what the heck....I know most of us would rather look at pictures than read a long profile so for your benefit I put it in bullet points. lol 1. I enjoy life! I'm emotionally mature but still very young physically. I try to take care of myself, have fun, and stay active. I never take myself too seriously and seem to laugh at myself all the time. I've been called a goof ball more times than I can possibly remember. I usually look for the humor in most things. 2. I was raised Catholic, I come from a large (loud) family (# I have two children, a 19 Y/O daughter who's off to college and a 16 Y/O son that lives with me (or more appropriately graces me with his presence) every other week. 3. I'm adventurous and willing to try most things at least once. I love to travel and discover "hidden gems" and tucked away places. I like snorkel snow (a ski term you have to experience to appreciate), the wind in my face, and that all elusive hole-in-one. I travel light and don't have a lot of baggage (emotional or otherwise). If it doesn't fit in the overhead compartment I usually leave it at home. 4. I view life as a journey on an open road, an unobstructed ***degree view with the wind in your face and the roar of life in your ears. I personally prefer to concentrate on the ***degree view to the front. Life is way too short to spend your time looking back, and there is too much to see just over the next horizon. 5. FOR THE RECORD, Here are some things that I take for granted like ... You won't find those bare chested or decked out in camo pics here. I don't even own a "wife beater" or muscle shirt nor do I take pictures of myself in my bathroom. I don't smoke weed or sit around the house in my undies eating cheetos. I still have all of my own teeth and hair. I have a real job that pays and I've never been arrested. Apparently these are no longer the norm? What's up with that? LOL What am I searching for (although I seriously doubt that she truly exists, besides Giada De Laurentiis or Jennifer Aniston of course)... 1. Her smile is a great starting point. Then the eyes, which are the window of the soul, must be open to all the possibilities life has to offer. She needs to know who she is and where she's going and be willing to enjoy all the twists and turns along the way. 2. She doesn't need her life to be completed by me, but complimented by me and I for her. 3. She likes my children, goofing off in the yard, taking a play day from work, sneaking away for the weekend, chillin' out at home, and is a little wild and crazy. Not jealous or controlling but affectionate and caring. Passionate, playful and alive. Life is too short to waste it. Every first date is unique.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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