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Griffith, 43

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About Me

Things that I can assure you from the beginning1) I look just like my pictures. You won’t need to wander around asking where I am.2) If we meet you will laugh and have fun. We all know that not every meeting/date turns into forever after but you will walk away having had a nice time at least.3) No ex-wife baggage. It’s been seven years and we get along just fine and are able to co parent pretty well together. There have been no slide backs if you know what I mean.4) I like to communicate. Whether it’s in person, on the phone, text or *** I ask how you day was it means I REALLY want to know.6) I believe in appropriate PDA7) I CAN be spontaneous, but if your kids are anything like mine than you know that as a single parent we live our lives off of a color-coded calendar. If its right I promise to give you your own color 8) I enjoy country music. The songs have meaning and can usually be listened to even with little ears around. I still need to learn how to dance though.9) I am my boy’s father ***not just on the days they are with me which is 50% of the time. I know every situation is different and is the way it is for a reason, but I take my job as a father VERY seriously. I am a Daily Dad not a Disneyland Dad.***I like to laugh. I will tell a joke even if I know it will get me in trouble.***I work from home running my own business, so I have mastered the art of multitasking of making a living and keeping a home.***I am a night owl. I will work at midnight so that I have time during the day to get to the gym or go for a long ride.***I work out ***times a week, but I am not a gym-weight rat. For me a 25 mile ride on my bike or 75 minutes on a treadmill works for me. If you choose to get to know me I will tell you how I got to this point.***I do try to eat healthy, but I now workout so that I can eat what I want.***Not a big beer fan. Give me Jack or Captain and diet coke or a margarita. Hard apple cider if I HAVE to drink beer though.***I don’t nor have I ever smoked, dipped or chewed.***No tattoos or piercings and you won’t find any shirtless pics of me on my profile.***I am a foodie – enjoy the new food truck scene and local joints. Not uptight and pretentious places just good food that’s not from a chain place.***I will always have your back but that also means telling you if I disagree with something. I expect the same in return.***Drama happens – if you have kids, an ex, a job, family or friends it’s going to happen. No one ever likes drama, but it is part of life. NO ONE is exempt from that or above it. We just deal with it.***I want to get to the point with someone where *** asking, “would you like to go out Saturday night?’ that it is more like, “so what are WE doing Saturday night?"22). I have good manners. I will open doors, walk you to your car and will want to know that you got home safely.***in 5What I am hoping for in my special someone. And yes I realize that no one has everything.1) Be active (if you ride or run that would be AWESOME***Be a good mom3) Don’t make me pay for the sins of your ex. 4) Look like your pictures. Oh the stories that could be told. 5) Smile and laugh. A sense of humor is very attractive.6) Communicate7) At least like sports a little. You don't have to like MY teams just don't openly root against them. Fans of the Yankees, Redskins and Lakers we MAY have an issue or two :***Have the time to see if something can grow from this. 9) Like country music or at least tolerate it.Things I am NOT into1) If you only date guys that have boats, cars and other toys in their profile pics than we are not going to be a good fit. 2) Dating but nothing serious – to me that just screams someone who wants to be taken out by a different guy every night. Not my thing.3) Long distance relationships. I have done that way too often. Some involved long drives others involved plane rides.4) If you only want to see each other every few weeks. Not for me.5) Drugs. That should go without saying but…6) Laziness7) Having to go out and get drunk in order to have fun. We aren't in college anymore and if you only find me attractive when you are loaded than its time to move on.8). Last minute cancellations for lame reasons. And no sick kids are not a lame reason. I would rather you just say you changed your mind and are not interested. 9). Not really into the totally tatted out girl.I am sure there is more that could go on each lists but that is the fun of getting to know someone in person. We would find a restaurant where we could enjoy a nice meal and get to know one another. Than after you fall head over heels for me I would whisk us off to Vegas where we could meet Elvis and buy a nice piece of jewelery than stay in the Honeymoon Suite of the Bellagio. When we get back you can introduce me to your mom and dad and we would live happily ever after. Okay how about dinner and drinks than we go from there? Do something fun afterward. Elvis can wait.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cordell

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Well here I go...I'm a self employed father of two. I've had my own company for over 16 years. It's allowed me to slow down a little so I can venture out and try new things. I think of myself as real and very well grounded. I'm passionate about the things I do but not so much that I'm distracted from living. I can play with the best of them and also sit down and dig deep into a conversation. Life has given me challenges, some good and some not so good, and have grown from all of them. My friends, and even my ex, will describe me as loyal, trustworthy, loving, compassionate and a great dad! I would describe myself as a really fit 45 year old that will give the 20 somethings a run for their money! Actually, there's a bit more but I do better face to face... My active hobbies include wakeboarding/waterskiing, motorcycle racing (offroad), mountain biking, cooking and working out. I'm super adventurous, love travelling, exploring new places, eating out and trying something not on the menu...I love doing just about everything! I value experiences and try not to limit myself only to those things I'm familiar with...usually with my kids but not always! If I'm sounding a little too high energy for you, not to worry. I really love the quiet days and nights too.I enjoy being around all types of people...social situations are probably my comfort zone. I'm looking for someone that is real and well grounded. After that, sky's the limit. To me, what you are is not as important as who you are. I am looking for a relationship but am not rushing through this just to get one. Would like to enjoy the build up to that a little more this time around.Contact me if you'd like to get to know me. Even if you wouldn't, contact me anyways! I'm a really fun date and love going out just for fun!! I would say anything that would let us get to know each other in a fun and low pressure setting.

  • Derrick

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    My job keeps me active; I do a lot of hiking in the summer, and a lot of skiing, snowshoeing and snowmobiling in the winter. So, there are times I like to relax at home, especially in the winter next to the fireplace. I enjoy camping, hiking, kayaking, shooting, motorcycle riding and leaving dumb messages on my sister-in-law’s voicemail. I love live music; any kind, and comedies and action/adventure movies. My favorite TV show is “Psych”; those guys are funny! My favorite color is green, and being with friends and family makes me happy. I'm confident, a little shy and I'm not a vegetarian. I love rib eye steak, prime rib and barbeque ribs. When I think of meat, I think of family barbeques and buffets. I'm a sucker for a buffet. Buffets bring me a lot of joy, and my joy is measured in calories. I love brownies, especially with walnuts. My favorite vegetable is carrot cake, and yes, I consider it a vegetable, just like I consider pineapple upside down cake a fruit. Some people might use illegal substances to get high, not me! A hot fudge sundae will do it for me. Anything covered in barbeque sauce tastes pretty good too. I have faults. One of them is buffets. Indulge in buffets is what I say, but save the last brownie for me!I like meeting people, making new friends and sharing experiences . . . . . . someone who's better than me . . . someone who shares similar interests and at the same time is someone I can learn from and grow with . . . someone who cares about me for who I am and that I can feel the same way about. To me, that's what friendships/relationships are about. I don't consider smoking or drug use attractive qualities.I'm an animal lover, and believe in the therapeutic power of bunnies. Most importantly, I have all my teeth, my knuckles don't drag on the ground, I don't play World of Warcraft, and I don't wear tank tops with ketchup and gravy stains on them . . . my other faults include constantly losing my sunglasses, misplacing my keys, my tupperware is unorganized and my daughter and sister-in-law would say I'm retarded.

  • Billy

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    Down to earth, very easy going person. I like to keep both physically, and mentally active. I am currently learning Spanish, sign language, and playing the guitar. I grew up in the northeast, where it snowed a lot, so I really enjoy anything outdoors, riding the motorcycle, bicycle, or taking a walk along the beach. It would be fun to find someone to go on weekend trips - I've worked in a corporate environment for years, but hoping to get a little side-business going soon, and just keep growing it..... Something casual and relaxing....Coffee, Ice Cream, or bicycle ride and lunch...and I just might surprise you with .....???

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