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Jeptha, 41

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About Me

My folks were almost married for 40 years when my dad passed, so I know how a marriage works for more than a year or two...so, with that said? Here it is.... :) Oh boy, why am I here? The ultimate goal...to find a woman I can be best friends with, marry, grow old with, and raise a family...family can be kids or dogs...i like cats, but can be alllergic to some outdoor cats lol ahhhhhhchooooooo :P Seems like a dream right? I'm hoping it is a reality! Single since early ***, I have never been married, and don't have any kids. Yes I have been in law enforcement for over 15 years. I have the perfect schedule now with weekends off, finally! :) This job doesn't attract everyone, but I am no longer on patrol, and I can explain what I do later. As far as my off time, I spend a lot of it doing things by myself. However, I do play roller and ice hockey when I can. I will hit the gym a few times a week when I'm not recovering from playing hockey. :) I have a camping trailer I would love to use more as the weather gets better. I love to just sightsee and explore. I love sports! You can catch me watching a NASCAR race every now and then (Go Jr.!). My taste in music includes mostly rock, but I have been known to listen to some r&b, rap and some country. Looking for a dancing partner as well....I'm not one you will find on 'So You Think You Can Dance', but I like to get out there and shake it every now and then.If your bestie is a male, forget it. If your bestie is a male, you should be dating him, not me...just read any dating site/book....lolHave fun, drive fast, take chances, but look out for the blue and red behind ya lol :P First date can be anything that the two people agree on. I see nothing wrong with a cup of coffee or a drink. It's simple, and it allows you to have some time where you can talk and see if there will be a second time out or not....who knows? The coffee date may lead to spending the whole day together!!! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Derrick

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    My job keeps me active; I do a lot of hiking in the summer, and a lot of skiing, snowshoeing and snowmobiling in the winter. So, there are times I like to relax at home, especially in the winter next to the fireplace. I enjoy camping, hiking, kayaking, shooting, motorcycle riding and leaving dumb messages on my sister-in-law’s voicemail. I love live music; any kind, and comedies and action/adventure movies. My favorite TV show is “Psych”; those guys are funny! My favorite color is green, and being with friends and family makes me happy. I'm confident, a little shy and I'm not a vegetarian. I love rib eye steak, prime rib and barbeque ribs. When I think of meat, I think of family barbeques and buffets. I'm a sucker for a buffet. Buffets bring me a lot of joy, and my joy is measured in calories. I love brownies, especially with walnuts. My favorite vegetable is carrot cake, and yes, I consider it a vegetable, just like I consider pineapple upside down cake a fruit. Some people might use illegal substances to get high, not me! A hot fudge sundae will do it for me. Anything covered in barbeque sauce tastes pretty good too. I have faults. One of them is buffets. Indulge in buffets is what I say, but save the last brownie for me!I like meeting people, making new friends and sharing experiences . . . . . . someone who's better than me . . . someone who shares similar interests and at the same time is someone I can learn from and grow with . . . someone who cares about me for who I am and that I can feel the same way about. To me, that's what friendships/relationships are about. I don't consider smoking or drug use attractive qualities.I'm an animal lover, and believe in the therapeutic power of bunnies. Most importantly, I have all my teeth, my knuckles don't drag on the ground, I don't play World of Warcraft, and I don't wear tank tops with ketchup and gravy stains on them . . . my other faults include constantly losing my sunglasses, misplacing my keys, my tupperware is unorganized and my daughter and sister-in-law would say I'm retarded.

  • Hanley

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    Is ANYONE on this site for real? I am starting to have my doubts. Will SOMEONE prove to me otherwise? :)I'm easy going and laid back. (Boy, these things are hard to write.) Here goes!.) and really like it here. I guess the ocean and weather have quite a bit to do with that. :) I've never been married and have no children because, well, I just haven't met the right one yet. And don't have a problem with children if you have them. If Mrs. Right comes along and she want's to have children, I'd like that. However, being in my early 40's, well, I'm OK with the fact that I may meet a woman who doesn't want/can't have/already has enough children. I'm looking for my soulmate first and foremost; I'm not ashamed to say that I am tired of being alone. Anyway, I'm just a typical guy who likes typical guy things. I like to fish, snorkle the reef that's right off of the beach here, cook, read, watch a good movie, go to great restaraunts, and I love tuna sushi/sashimi. I'd like to enter a Tough Mudder. I like to play guitar. Pinot Noir is my favorite wine, I'm not big on liquor and don't smoke. I know my way around a tool box and can work on things. :) My next undertaking is spearfishing, which is why I took up snorkeling. I am in the process of getting my PADI open water certification.. I want to go back, but next time with my special someone. Could it be you?I like most all types of music; Rock, Country, '80's music, '70's music, Oldies, Elvis, Alternative, Hard Rock, Hair Metal, Disco... I'm open!I have a lot of affection and love to give to that certain someone, whoever you may be. I am a good and compassionate man. I am a romantic, open doors for ladies and consider myself a very good listener. I am looking for a relationship and am not into games. I'm tired of being alone and want to meet the person that I will someday spend the rest of my life with. My favorite time of the day is the late afternoon, when the sun is beginning to go down and the colors that the sky takes on. There's a lot more to me than just the few words that I can put here. Get to know me! Hope to hear from you! I prefer a casual setting for our first date so that we can get to know each other.

  • Alonzo

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    What best describes me is silly and affectionate, fun and responsible, organized and easy going, and sometimes sarcastic…. okay perhaps more times than not! Family and friends are important to me and I don’t like to miss a weekend BBQ get together. The most important thing someone can give is time so I always make time those I am closest to. I enjoy helping others whether it is with a home project, working on the car or just talking/listening. Drama free and having a good head on my shoulders is something I truly value that in others. My life is good (solid job, nice friends, family) and I would love to meet someone special to share the good and the frustrating each day can bring. If you like the idea of growing and evolving together, sharing passion, intelligent conversation and great laughs then continue reading. I enjoy doing a variety of home improvement projects and regularly am working out in the yard. Being healthy is important to me. Enjoy eating well, cooking, and keeping in decent shape. For fun, hiking, camping, taking the dog (the black lab in the pictures) for long walks and going for a motorcycle ride are things that I do regularly. I enjoy staying active which brings me outside most of the time; however, I do enjoy watching movies at home from a comfortable couch. Saving money and retiring early are very important to me. While I enjoy living a happy, active life, looking for avenues to spend less money is a core part of me. I wanted to be candid about this and hope that you may share this same goal. I would like someone who knows herself well enough to express what she thinks or how she feels. I think of myself as a good communicator who will share what I am thinking and feeling. I would like to be with someone who is goal oriented and motivated (I have learned this is important to me). I want someone who enjoys talking about anything from politics, environmental issues, social events or future planning as a couple. I would like to find that someone special to hold hands with and to snuggle up with on the couch. If this sounds like you then I hope to hear from you, if not I genuinely wish you all the best. Things that I am looking for:• Who really enjoys people• Who enjoys the simple things in life and who is happy without being constantly entertained with TV, internet or going to a bar• Who can be without makeup and nice shoes for a weekend of camping, hiking or lounging around the house or can dress nicely when going out• Who enjoys being outdoors-tennis, biking, kayaking, playing ball of any type, snorkeling, camping, or motorcycling • Someone who would rather cook at home than go out to eat• If you like to stay fit but don’t need to count calories or work out all the timeIf this describes you we are probably not the best match:• Doesn’t respect money and does not pay off debt considerately• If you just sit around and wait for things to get better • Who must have a drink (alcohol) in every social situation• Who has children that still live at home (this is a preference but not a deal breaker)Thanks for reading my profile. Most great relationships started with saying Hi. Will yours?Happy Fishing! coffee, walk or other

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